Episode Overview:

Today’s episode welcomes guest and girlfriend Erin Newman.Fair-minded and conflict-free, Erin’s still got a mysterious edge we couldn’t wait to dive into (it turns out it’s a mystery to her, too)! 

Erin is ever-evolving, from a spiritual life and business coach to dropping the “coach” and embracing her role as a healer. She recognized a pattern in clients that was actually coming up for her: the loneliness within the ascension process. As we level up, old spaces and relationships just aren’t cutting it anymore, but the elevator hasn’t fully arrived at the next floor yet. Being conscious of the deconditioning and shedding of labels may be a lonely time, but Erin knows it won’t always be that way. 

This reflects Cass’ experiences lately as she lives in the elevator of ascension and people seem to come and go with each passing floor. She is being visited by the ghosts of her own energy healing and she shares the revolutionary solstice downloads she received as her own recent ascension: the world is being ripped apart. Cass knows it’s going to get harder before it gets easier, as is often the case, but it’s always worth it to level up over staying stuck in the muck.

The conversation segues naturally into a roundtable on the ebb and flow of friendship. We’ve all experienced outgrowing friends and rising together with others, but judgment has no place in a true friendship. Kaylin shares her mama’s wisdom about the evolution of friendship, stating, “Friendship is a conspiracy amongst people at the same life point.” We can either focus on the ways we differ or choose to embrace our connection points. 

We’ve been taught to present ourselves in ways that can be palatable for as many people as possible. We’re resetting expectations of ourselves, others, and standards of television shows, old and new. Tune in for the full experience and we hope you feel a little less lonely on your journey today!

Links:

Erin's IG

Erin's FB

Erin's Website

Remove Subconscious Money Blocks

Abundance Meditation

Girlfriends with(out) Benefits YouTube Channel

Quotable Moments:

“I know the people are there. They’re probably already in your life; you just haven’t fully called them in yet” - Erin

“I don’t know if I’m holding onto what our friendship used to serve me or if you’re actually one of my people and I need to hold onto but right now we’re not going to talk as much” - Kaylin

“You have all of these skeletons coming out of the closet and you’re like ‘oh, did I really heal from that?... Does that still feel hot to touch? Does that still feel sensitive?’” - Cass

“That’s how I know if I’m around someone I want to be around is that sense of freedom I feel in their presence and a desire to give to them and exchange energy with them back and forth. Freedom, for sure” - Jade

“Sometimes use an actual fire and go sit around a bonfire but if you don’t, gather the whole family around and just relax together and stare at the flickering light” - Jade

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