A coach can help a player get recruited. A parent has to live with everything attached to that decision. 

In this solo episode of the Chasing Baseball Dreams Podcast, Bobby Minor talks about the side of the college baseball recruiting process he didn’t fully understand until his own son went through it. He had already coached players and helped them through recruiting. Going through it as a dad gave him a completely different view of the same process. 

For baseball parents, recruiting goes way beyond whether a player is talented enough or whether a college coach likes him. There’s the financial side. Distance from home. Playing time. Roster competition. Coaching changes. Injuries. Knowing whether a school really wants your son or is simply keeping him on the board. 

And then there’s the part nobody can make easy for you: helping your son make the decision without making it for him. 

Bobby talks about college baseball recruiting, JUCO baseball, scholarship and financial decisions, roster math, college coach interest, travel baseball, playing time, and the pressure the recruiting process can put on the relationship between a parent and his son. 

He also shares why getting an offer isn’t the finish line, how difficult it can be to interpret what college coaches really mean, and the unexpected way Julian’s eventual college opportunity started with a conversation inside a Fort Worth gym. 

If you’re looking for college baseball recruiting tips for parents, especially as your son moves through high school baseball and starts hearing from college programs, this episode will help you think beyond simply getting the offer. 

TIMESTAMPS 

00:01 Why recruiting feels different when you’re the parent 

02:16 When the coaching staff leaves two weeks before school 

04:36 The waiting, comparison, and financial pressure parents carry 

07:02 Roster math and the real path to playing time 

09:25 Letting your son own the decision 

11:14 What college coach interest really means 

13:42 What recruiting costs emotionally 

16:07 How Julian actually got recruited 

If your son is going through the recruiting process right now, leave your biggest question in the comments. 

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