Dr. Robert Holden (Hay House) is back on Live Your Love for the THIRD time—and this conversation just keeps getting richer. ✨

In this episode, we explore Robert’s beautiful new book Becoming Yourself* (out March 10, 2026) and why “If you think something is missing in your life, it’s probably more of the real you" (from the book) and what to do about that!

In this conversation, we explore:

• The Enneagram’s sacred roots — nine “meditation seats” designed to reveal your true self (and the mind of God) • Type vs. soul — your type isn’t who you are… it’s the pattern you’ve taken yourself to be • The desert fathers’ big questions — if love, guidance, and heaven are “at hand,” why do we feel lost, unlovable, and even in hell sometimes on Earth and how can you lift upward?

• Type 2 + humility — releasing the helper role, receiving as a spiritual path, and letting God be the Giver • Type 3 + authenticity — shifting from “trying to be impressive” to the freedom of simply being real • Ego to soul — cultivating a healthy ego… then letting it become the servant of the soul

A beautiful moment inside this episode:

Robert shares a recent TEDx story where he chose truth over image—admitting he was nervous—and how that honesty opened real connection, support, and a simple blessing that changed everything:

“Remember who you are.”

You’ll also hear:

• Why receiving isn’t selfish—it’s one of the most overlooked spiritual practices • How “trying too hard” (in love, work, or spirituality) can quietly block the very thing you’re seeking • A closing prayer + meditation to release striving and return to presence, love, and remembrance

Mentioned in this episode:

• *Becoming Yourself* (Dr. Robert Holden) — available March 10, 2026 (pre-order now) • Robert’s FREE Enneagram quiz (3–5 minutes) • Becoming Yourself Retreat (Phoenix): March 20–22, 2026 • “More of the Real You” — live Enneagram virtual event: March 12, 11 AM PT (free ticket with book pre-order)

Links + resources:

• Book: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/790053/becoming-yourself-by-robert-holden-phd/

• Robert’s FREE Enneagram quiz: https://bit.ly/49LJfRQ • “More of the Real You” live virtual event (March 12): https://www.discover.hayhouse.com/becomingyourself/

Your Angelic Ancestry: AlishaDas.Com/Book

If you’ve been “trying” to be better, more lovable, more valuable… let this episode be a soft exhale. A return. A remembering. ✨

Please comment and tell me: Which pattern are you ready to loosen—over-giving, over-achieving, or something else entirely?

#Enneagram #RobertHolden #BecomingYourself #LiveYourLove #Authenticity #SelfLove #HayHouse

I’m Dr. Alisha Das, author of Your Angelic Ancestry (Penguin Random House / Hay House, 2026).

Pre-order + receive your free angelic gifts → alishadas.com/book

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