A college assignment asked R.D. Saunders to write about his family. What surfaced was years of childhood pain—and a decision: "I will not be a bad father."

Growing up with an abusive father who struggled with alcoholism, R.D. carried hurt he hadn't fully faced. In this conversation with Curtis Christopher, he shares how God began a work of healing in a college dorm room—and how he eventually returned to lead that same school, Ohio Christian University.

Together, they explore the pain we bury, the people who help us heal, and how those experiences can shape a life of service. Curtis also shares how his late wife Michal's example helped him begin reaching toward others through his own grief.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• The grandfather who became the father figure R.D. needed.
• The writing assignment that brought hidden hurt to the surface.
• The emotional "junk drawer" where we store unresolved pain.
• Why R.D. initially turned down the university presidency.
• How Isaiah 61 shaped his vision for helping students heal and grow.
• Why supporting someone through grief begins with listening, humility, and knowing when to seek help.

Run to the Hard shares stories of grief, healing, faith, and meaningful action through life's hardest experiences. Hosted by Curtis Christopher, the podcast honors the loving memory of Michal Christopher and her call to "run to the hard, run to the hurt."

Follow the show for more honest conversations about facing hard things and moving forward in faith.

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