Ep 17 Defensiveness : Who Gets The Final Word On You | The Parenting Apocalypse: Defensiveness
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We name defensiveness as the second “horseman” that quietly breaks down connection at home, and we get honest about how reasonable it can sound when our kids come at us with big feelings. We learn to treat defensiveness like a dashboard light, staying rooted in what God knows about us so we can take responsibility, repair quickly, and keep vulnerability safe in our families.
• how Gottman defines defensiveness and why it hides in parenting
• the difference between correcting facts and seeing the person
• a real-time story of building a case instead of staying curious
• taking responsibility for the part that is ours
• why defensiveness blocks repair and trains kids to manage our reactions
• “what am I protecting” as a pathway to awareness
• how shame, old stories, and identity threats fuel big reactions
• the outer compass vs the inner compass through 1 Corinthians 4
• Psalm 139 and the order of known first, examine second
• practical steps to notice defensiveness, own what is ours, and release what is not
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