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What does it mean to honor someone's choices at the end of life, especially when those choices involve medical assistance in dying (MAiD)?

In this episode, we speak with Theresa Evans about her mother's decision to seek medical assistance in dying and how that deeply personal experience shaped Theresa's understanding of death, dying, compassion, and personal autonomy.

Drawing on her background as a critical care nurse and her own family experience, Teresa explores the importance of respecting individual wishes, supporting loved ones through difficult decisions, and making space for conversations about death before a crisis arrives.

In this conversation, we explore:

- Assisted dying and the right to choose: Theresa reflects on her mother's experience and the importance of personal agency at the end of life.
- Talking about death with loved ones: Why honest conversations about suffering, wishes, and end-of-life choices matter, even when they feel uncomfortable.
- End-of-life planning: Why having essential documents and making our wishes known are important steps, regardless of whether we're ready to think about dying.
- The difference between preparing for death and being ready to die: How planning ahead can help us retain a sense of control while continuing to live fully.

Theresa's story invites us to consider a difficult but essential question: How can we support someone we love when their end-of-life choices differ from what we might choose for ourselves?

Whether you're a healthcare professional, caregiver, death-care worker, or someone navigating questions about death and loss, this conversation offers an opportunity to reflect on compassion, dignity, autonomy, and the importance of listening without judgment.

Because talking about death isn't just about dying. It's also about how we choose to live, care for one another, and honor what matters most.

Theresa's Website

The Choosing to Die Book

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