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  • Begin Again: When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned

    Begin Again: When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned
    2026/09/01
    How do you begin again when life doesn’t turn out the way you imagined? In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with artist, writer, and author Alessandra Olanow to explore what it means to start over, let go of old expectations, and find your way forward when life falls apart. Alessandra shares the deeply personal story behind her book, Begin Again, and Again, and Again, including career uncertainty, divorce, grief, parenting, and the moment she realized that moving into a smaller life didn’t necessarily mean moving backward. Together, they explore how to hold life more lightly, sit with difficult emotions, reclaim self-worth, and take small steps instead of becoming overwhelmed by the big picture.
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    41 分
  • You Know Better. So Why Do You Still React Like That?

    You Know Better. So Why Do You Still React Like That?
    2026/08/19
    In this episode of The Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein explores the frustrating gap between knowing how you want to respond and actually being able to do it when you're triggered. You may know you shouldn't get defensive. You may know you should pause, listen, set a boundary, or communicate differently. But when your nervous system gets activated, that wisdom can suddenly feel out of reach. Dr. Elisha breaks down why this happens—and how to begin finding your way back to yourself.
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    30 分
  • Why Mindfulness Isn’t Changing Your Life

    Why Mindfulness Isn’t Changing Your Life
    2026/08/04
    If you've been meditating consistently but still find yourself stuck in the same emotional patterns, you're not alone. In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with Melvin McLeod, founding editor of Lion's Roar and author of With a Single Breath, to explore why mindfulness alone isn't enough—and what it takes to create genuine transformation. Melvin explains how mindfulness has often been reduced to stress reduction and relaxation, when it was originally intended as a complete path for cultivating insight, compassion, ethical living, and meaningful human connection. Together they unpack the five essential elements of mindfulness that move beyond simply calming the mind and into creating lasting emotional health, resilience, and a richer way of living.
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    59 分
  • The Hidden Cost of Feeling Unseen

    The Hidden Cost of Feeling Unseen
    2026/07/16
    Have you ever felt invisible—even while surrounded by people who genuinely care about you? In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein explores why feeling unseen can be one of the most painful emotional experiences we have. Drawing from neuroscience, personal stories, and practical emotional health tools, he explains why your brain registers social invisibility much like physical pain. Through Katie's story, you'll learn how emotional overload develops, why many caregivers and parents experience this silently, and how two simple daily practices can help you reconnect with yourself before burnout takes over.
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    15 分
  • Dr. Shelby Harris: The Truth About Insomnia, Why Effort Kills Sleep, and What CBT-I Actually Does

    Dr. Shelby Harris: The Truth About Insomnia, Why Effort Kills Sleep, and What CBT-I Actually Does
    2026/07/07
    What if the biggest thing keeping you awake is how hard you're trying to fall asleep? In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein welcomes leading behavioral sleep medicine specialist Dr. Shelby Harris to unpack why our obsession with perfect sleep often creates the very insomnia we're trying to escape. Together they explore the science behind insomnia, why anxiety and sleep become trapped in a self-reinforcing cycle, and how Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I) helps people regain healthy sleep without relying solely on medication. From sleep hygiene myths to mindfulness, nightmares, sleep trackers, and the surprising importance of letting go of control, this conversation offers practical, research-backed strategies that can help anyone build a healthier relationship with sleep.
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    48 分
  • Why Self-Criticism Feels Like Responsibility (And What's Actually True)

    Why Self-Criticism Feels Like Responsibility (And What's Actually True)
    2026/06/25
    What if being hard on yourself isn't helping you become better—but actually making it harder to move forward? In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein explores why so many of us instinctively turn to self-criticism after mistakes, embarrassment, or poor decisions. Through a personal story about being caught in a sophisticated online scam, Dr. Goldstein reveals how fear can quickly become shame—and how the inner critic often disguises itself as responsibility. He shares a practical framework called "Accountability Without Attack" to help you learn from mistakes without adding unnecessary suffering. 🎧 In this episode, you'll discover: • Why self-criticism can feel useful even when it isn't • The connection between shame, fear, and personal growth • How self-compassion differs from self-indulgence • The question that helps interrupt the shame cycle • Why learning and punishment are not the same thing • A three-step practice to move from self-attack to self-support • How to build emotional resilience after setbacks
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    14 分
  • The Grief You Don't Know You're Carrying — with Claire Bidwell Smith

    The Grief You Don't Know You're Carrying — with Claire Bidwell Smith
    2026/06/18
    What if some of the anxiety, exhaustion, irritability, or emotional heaviness you're carrying is actually grief? In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with renowned grief therapist and bestselling author Claire Bidwell Smith to explore the many forms grief can take—and why so many people don't recognize they're grieving until it begins affecting every area of their lives. Claire shares insights from decades of personal and professional experience helping people navigate loss. Together they explore anticipatory grief, caregiving, anxiety, non-death grief, generational grief, and what it means to grieve consciously rather than pushing pain away. This conversation offers a compassionate roadmap for anyone moving through loss—or supporting someone who is.
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    46 分
  • The Hidden Cost of Replaying What You Should Have Said

    The Hidden Cost of Replaying What You Should Have Said
    2026/06/10
    Have you ever replayed a conversation in your head hours—or even days—after it happened? Maybe you regret something you said. Maybe you wish you had spoken up. Or maybe you don't even know why your mind keeps returning to it. In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein explores why replaying conversations isn't a flaw in your thinking—it's your nervous system searching for safety and completion. You'll discover why unresolved interactions become "open loops" in the brain, why forcing yourself to stop thinking rarely works, and a simple 60-second practice that can help your nervous system finally release what it's been holding onto. If you've ever felt trapped in a cycle of rumination, self-criticism, or overanalysis, this episode offers a practical and compassionate path forward.
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    14 分