Are you calling something a friendship just to make yourself feel better about a situationship? In this episode, I’m sharing some things I’ve learned (and unlearned) about friendship, dating, and the blurry space in between. I talk about what it really means to set boundaries that honor your value and how even good conversation and emotional connection aren’t enough without clarity and consistency. If you’ve ever found yourself giving too much too soon, hoping it might become more later… this episode will feel like the confirmation you didn’t know you needed.

Topics I Cover:

• Why I refuse to call it a friendship when it’s really a situationship
• The danger of mistaking emotional connection for consistency and commitment
• How I’m shifting from flirty energy to intentional energy
• Why “bare minimum” behaviors shouldn’t feel like chemistry
• Boundaries I’ve set to protect my heart and my peace
• What “we’re just talking” can cost you when it’s not clear
• Encouragement for married and single women on protecting their voice, values, and vulnerability

This week’s affirmation:

“I am open and available to intentional friendships.”

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Can you really miss what’s meant for you? I used to hear people say “What’s for you is for you,” but I’ve lived long enough - and disobeyed just enough - to know it’s not always that simple. In this episode, I’m getting honest about a recent moment where I planned something God didn’t ask me to do… and how it taught me to stop crowding out what He’s trying to give me. If you’ve ever moved too fast, said yes out of fear, or ignored the whisper you knew was Him - I promise this will hit home.

You won’t miss what’s yours - as long as you’re willing to move with God. Disobedience may delay it, but repentance reopens the door. What’s for you still requires your commitment.

Topics I Cover:

• Why “what’s for you is for you” is only half the story
• How disobedience (even with good intentions) can block the very thing you’re praying for
• A real-life story of planning an event God never asked me to host
• Why a whisper from God is still a word you need to honor
• The power of saying no even when opportunities look “aligned” on paper
• What to do if you’ve already said yes to something that wasn’t yours

This week’s affirmation:

“I’m ready, willing, and aligned. I receive what’s mine and move in faith.”

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Have you ever looked back and realized… you're living like it's still five years ago? In Part Two of my birthday reflection, I share what happened when I booked a trip the same way I used to back in 2018 and how God interrupted it all to remind me that I’m not that version of me anymore. We talk about what it really means to receive the new thing, why “what’s for you” still requires obedience, and the kind of release that makes room for freedom. If you’ve been clinging to old habits, old fears, or old ways of thinking, this is for you.

The blessing might be ready, but it still needs a willing heart to receive it. Let go of what was. Trust what’s becoming. And make room for it all.

Topics I Cover:

• The scripture that’s guiding me this season (Isaiah 43:18)
• Why looking back can cost you more than you think
• The myth of “if it’s for you, you won’t miss it”- and the truth about responsibility
• How one decision in Aruba revealed an old mindset I didn’t know I still had
• What to ask yourself if you’re still living like it’s a past version of you
• How I’m choosing release, obedience, and softness in this next year

This week’s affirmation:

“I am open and available to all the goodness that God has for me.”

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