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In this Dose of Delusion episode, Jay and AJ unpack the consequences of AJ cheating on his hot barber and ending up with a crooked South Side lineup right before major events, while Jay is drowning in government taskers and bingeing every “Selling…” show like it’s his second job. Sean vs Austin on Selling OC triggers a very real rant about messy straight men who flirt, blur lines, then act like victims when their curiosity catches up with them, and AJ explains his “no blurred lines, just are we hooking up or not” policy. From there, they spiral into BravoCon gossip, Kim K’s questionable acting on All’s Fair, Jessica Simpson’s “is that just makeup?” moment, and close out with Thanksgiving plans, tux vs suit for Jay’s gala and French Embassy night, and AJ demanding full access to Jay’s calendar like a controlling but lovable cohost

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Jay and AJ catch up like two people who survived Halloween on vibes and Amazon Prime. Jay tells the story of him and Renae showing up to a DC house party dressed as “CDC employees laid off by RFK Jr.” with badges so legit people actually thought they worked for the government, then realizing there was a secret costume contest they obviously won. AJ runs through San Antonio’s marathon of queer Halloween events, warehouse parties, drag, and bar lines that were too long for his spirit. Then they veer straight into Bravo talk, dragging Sutton, defending Kyle (kind of), stanning Jennifer Tilly, and using “the morally corrupt Faye Resnick” as a lifestyle. They close out talking about levels of gossip, how everyone says “don’t tell” while telling everyone, and Jay deciding he actually likes being the morally corrupt one.

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Jay swears he didn’t want to go to Boston, and destiny punished him accordingly; with a sleepy drag show, a performer named Frisky Business, and a full-blown lecture for calling someone “darling.” Meanwhile, AJ was playing Acting Manager of the Year, juggling puppy fights, power outages, and employee chaos like a Bravo crossover episode. Between a $35 Hamilton miracle (third row, second-act nap included), DJ gossip, Potomac scandals, and Meredith Marks’ tragic DJ debut, the boys prove chaos is their love language. It’s safe spaces, bad manners, and gay blessings; all poured over wine and mild regret.

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We open with chaotic tech, then AJ recaps an Austin “Coffee and Chill” scene that meant ice baths, hot people, and not a single mimosa, followed by arriving scandalously late to a predators-and-prey Halloween party. Jay counters with a DC rooftop night and an Equinox bathroom fiasco that should never see daylight but absolutely does. We argue about Swifties, stan culture, and why moral character matters more than chart positions, then pivot to the current gold standard of reality TV with a sharp RHOSLC check-in and a rare nod to Heather. We set boundaries on straight friends at Pride, shout out Sundown Social, the Tenaz Collective, and new Warehouse Wednesdays, squeeze in Kacey Musgraves singing with mariachi, and wrap with a live chat derail and a blooper-reel exit that proves we’re nothing if not consistent.

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Jay and AJ regroup after a missed week and unleash a full catch-up: AJ leans into day drinking, plays promoter at Sundown Social, and covers over local DJs, while Jay survives a cursed travel run from SLC to LaGuardia that includes surprise TSA at the gate, a touch-and-go landing, and a neighbor who kept farting until Google Translate saved the cabin. The boys revisit Crumbl’s hard-launch boyfriend news, give a bartender update that sparks a fresh lavender marriage debate, and swap Housewives takes as Bronwyn swings hard and Lisa’s edit looks rough. Life updates land too: Jay is moving across the river to Arlington and is officially a poodle granddad. They close with a Dear Daddy note on vintage thirst, online boundaries, and why not every keyboard needs to be a catcall.

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Jay and AJ catch up like two besties on a layover: AJ just survived COVID and discovered he is now a proud ga(y)mer, Jay is living his hotel upgrade fantasy in Salt Lake with bartender hookups, Park City sightings, and bartender drama that sparks a deep dive into lavender marriages, lavender husbands, and the weird economics of queer cover arrangements. They riff on reality TV recaps, hotel room nightmares, Grindr sleuthing at the office, and friendship ranking feels, all with gossip-level energy, awkward detective skills, and a lot of sass. Equal parts bar diary, pop culture gossip, and queer life tea.

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Season 3 kicks off with Jay plotting a move, flirting with hotel-life, and admitting Taco Bell is now just a sometimes treat.

We spiral into the Crumbl cookie circus, pink boxes, TikTok outing drama, and why internalized homophobia is the real stale cookie.

“Homiesexual” gets decoded, “demisexual” gets respect, and yes, Jay uses the term demi-glaze because he’s hungry and…correct.

An advice column tackles Declan the distressed bottom who can’t finish, verdict: less pressure, more patience, and a top who can multitask.

Plus travel chaos (Salt Lake, Park City hair blowouts, hard pass on the St. Louis arch), AJ’s step-challenge slut era, and enough gossip to frost a dozen.

This episode revolves around the theme of growth, reflection, and navigating the complexities of friendships in the new year. The hosts share personal experiences about gym memberships, movie reviews, and the importance of self-worth while addressing the need to cut ties with toxic relationships.

• Reflecting on the highs and lows of the past year
• Discussing fitness journeys and trendy gym memberships
• Reviewing the film "Wicked" and its cultural significance
• Sharing insights from a challenging dinner date experience
• Navigating the importance of walking away from toxicity
• Setting intentions for 2025, including learning new languages