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Jay and AJ catch up on chaotic nights out, surprise run-ins with RuPaul’s Drag Race girls, and holiday plans that involve more chosen family than blood relatives. Jay recaps a soul-filling trip home, frat-boy mattress life, and a truly unhinged Lyft ride that turns into a full role reversal.

Things pivot into Housewives territory, with strong opinions on Salt Lake City, Meredith Marks, and the ongoing art of stirring the pot. The episode wraps with a deep dive into Heated Rivalry, unpacking masculinity, obsession, and why rivalry gives men permission to fixate on each other, all while admitting the show is horny as hell. Equal parts chaos, comfort, and cultural commentary.

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Jay and AJ open the episode with chaotic banter and AJ’s recap of a fully booked San Antonio weekend of DJs, Sundown Social, and low-key crushing on DJ Surge. Jay then spirals into the saga of the “gayla” disaster: the tux shop was closed, he panic-shopped across Marshall’s, Target, Zara, and Macy’s, paid full price against his will, but still showed up serving Calvin Klein at a formal work gala… where he accidentally volunteered himself to host next year’s event in front of 1,300 people.

AJ runs off to a Blue Santa event, and Jay brings in special guest Eric Lee (@soyericlee), Tejano pop singer and part-time thirst trap. Eric talks about juggling his nail salon day job and pop star nights, growing up performing with his dad’s band, being told to “tone down” his mannerisms, and now finally performing as his full, gay self. He explains the heartbreak behind “Pacífico,” touches on Selena as a deep but overused inspiration, and talks about using his body and social media strategically to sell his music while balancing that with a long-term marriage.

They wrap with stanning Whitney from Dancing With the Stars, celebrating Eric’s first solo concert at Let’s Be Honest in San Antonio on December 14, and Eric ending on gratitude, ass slaps, and a whole lot of “I don’t take any of this for granted.”

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In this Dose of Delusion episode, Jay and AJ unpack the consequences of AJ cheating on his hot barber and ending up with a crooked South Side lineup right before major events, while Jay is drowning in government taskers and bingeing every “Selling…” show like it’s his second job. Sean vs Austin on Selling OC triggers a very real rant about messy straight men who flirt, blur lines, then act like victims when their curiosity catches up with them, and AJ explains his “no blurred lines, just are we hooking up or not” policy. From there, they spiral into BravoCon gossip, Kim K’s questionable acting on All’s Fair, Jessica Simpson’s “is that just makeup?” moment, and close out with Thanksgiving plans, tux vs suit for Jay’s gala and French Embassy night, and AJ demanding full access to Jay’s calendar like a controlling but lovable cohost