Welcome back to Don’t Retire… Graduate! In today’s episode, we’re diving into one of the most essential—yet often overlooked—aspects of a healthy financial life: insurance as part of your risk management strategy. I’m delighted to welcome back Jillian Howell, a talented Client Service Associate at BFG Financial Advisors who first joined us earlier this year. Jillian brings not only her expertise in communications and client support but also a budding passion for the insurance world, inspired by earning her life and health insurance license. With her fresh perspective and genuine enthusiasm, she’s helping clients feel both informed and empowered as they navigate life’s financial journey.

In our discussion, Jillian and I explored the vital role that insurance—particularly life insurance—plays in building a secure and resilient financial plan. We talked about what drew her to insurance, how her understanding has evolved, and why she feels so passionately about making it accessible and understandable for everyone, especially younger people who often overlook its importance. Together, we debunked common myths, such as the notion that insurance is only for older individuals or those in poor health. Jillian walked through the must-have elements of a risk management plan, the critical calculations behind determining insurance needs, and the reasons to start early—even when you’re young and healthy. We also touched on the importance of regularly taking inventory of your current coverage and the idea that life insurance should be actively managed, not just tucked away and forgotten. And, on a lighter note, we even chatted about insuring cherished family pets!

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Insurance as a Foundation of Risk Management: Insurance isn’t just a checkbox—it’s a foundational part of any risk management plan, alongside legal documents, tax considerations, and asset titling. It’s about protecting both assets and loved ones.
2. Life Insurance Myths Debunked: One of the biggest misconceptions is that young, healthy people don’t need life insurance. In reality, securing coverage early locks in better rates and preserves insurability before any health issues arise.
3. Determining the Right Amount of Coverage: There is no one-size-fits-all answer, but striving for 10 to 15 times your annual income—while factoring in debts, dependents, and future needs—can provide important protection for your family.
4. Take Inventory and Reassess Regularly: Don’t just rely on employer-provided policies or outdated coverage. Sit down, review what you have, and look for gaps or weaknesses in your protection. Life insurance is an asset to be managed, not forgotten.
5. Insurance and Legacy Planning: From debt and income replacement to estate planning and even tax strategies, insurance can be leveraged for more than just “what if I don’t wake up tomorrow?”—it’s a powerful tool for overall financial resilience.

Join us as we uncover how a passion for insurance and risk management can enrich your financial wellbeing, empower you with knowledge, and set your loved ones up for greater peace of mind. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with anyone ready to reimagine what insurance can do for their financial future!

Welcome back to Don’t Retire… Graduate! In today’s episode, we’re exploring the power of authentic connection, reinvention, and the art of building relationships—especially valuable skills for those finding their “next act” in life and in retirement. Joining me today is Steve Spiro, also known as the Master Connector. Steve is a fourth-degree black belt in karate, a first-degree black belt in jiu jitsu, an advertising entrepreneur turned sales pro, published author, and inspirational speaker. He specializes in helping introverts break barriers and connect authentically in an increasingly digital world.

In this conversation, Steve and I dove into his fascinating journey from being a bullied, learning-disabled introvert to becoming a master connector with over 30,000 LinkedIn connections and a respected voice in the networking world. We discussed how his martial arts background taught him discipline and perseverance, which later fueled his career pivots—from advertising to hardcore sales, and eventually, to motivational speaking and digital broadcasting. Steve shared actionable strategies for building genuine connections both in-person and online, emphasizing authenticity, vulnerability, and focusing on serving others. We tackled the challenges faced by those reinventing themselves in retirement or new ventures, including how to step out of comfort zones, overcome small talk anxiety, and leverage digital platforms like LinkedIn for community and opportunity.

Steve also unpacked the key differences between networking in person and online, giving tips for making memorable impressions and following up meaningfully. For anyone considering a new business or personal reinvention—whether moving to a new community, starting a new career, or simply wanting to expand your circle—Steve provided insight into finding your “why” and identifying the right people and passions to guide your next chapter.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Authenticity & Vulnerability Matter: Steve credits his success to embracing vulnerability about his background and challenges, which allows for real, human connections—especially in the digital era where authenticity stands out.
2. Serve First, Ask Second: The best way to build a meaningful network is to focus on helping others without expecting anything in return. Offering value, introductions, or support with no hidden agenda leads to stronger, more genuine relationships.
3. Break Out of Your Comfort Zone: Growth happens outside the comfort zone. Steve encourages stepping into new social situations, even when it feels awkward, because the rewards in terms of connection and confidence are tremendous.
4. Networking is a Follow-Up Game: The magic of networking happens after the initial introduction. Collect contact information and make a strong, positive impression, but focus on following up to build the relationship.
5. Find Your Why and Your Who: Rather than obsessing over “how” to do something new, get clear on your “why” (purpose) and look for the right people (“who”) who can help you on your journey—mentors, connectors, or new friends.

Whether you’re an introvert or extrovert, entrepreneur or retiree, Steve Spiro’s insights offer practical encouragement for adding new chapters to your life story. Join us as we inspire each other to graduate into retirement—and life—with purpose, connection, and passion. Be sure to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with anyone ready to reshape their future through the power of connection!

Welcome back to Don’t Retire… Graduate! I’m your host, Eric Brotman, and on today’s Diary of a Financial Advisor segment, we’re shining a light on the journey of college students and recent graduates as they navigate the complex world of higher education, student loans, scholarships, and financial planning. Joining me is Tony Breen, an accomplished senior finance major at Stevenson University, intern at BFG Financial Advisors, and the only person in six years who’s had the courage to interview me on my own show! Tony is not only pursuing a master’s in forensic accounting but also serves as President of the Financial Management Association and VP of Enactus at Stevenson, making him one of the busiest students I know.

During our conversation, Tony and I dive deep into the financial realities of higher education. We talk candidly about how he transitioned from a biology major to finance, the influence of his family’s financial planning (including the benefits of a 529 college savings plan), and the critical role scholarships and institutional support played in his college decision process. We also look at how today’s college students prepare to launch their careers, manage debt, and make smart choices that set them up for long-term success.

We exchanged advice and stories about picking the right school, finding affordable pathways to a degree, and capitalizing on internships and campus involvement. Tony’s perspective is refreshingly grounded—he speaks from recent, real experience and offers actionable advice for students, parents, and anyone supporting the next generation through the maze of higher education and early professional life.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Strategic School Choice is Crucial: Tony emphasizes that picking the right school—one that not only fits academically and socially but also financially—can make all the difference. Shopping for the best net price, leveraging scholarships, and considering both public and private options is essential.
2. 529 College Savings Plans Provide a Head Start: Starting a 529 plan early, as Tony’s grandfather did, helped offset the costs of college and allowed Tony to graduate with little to no student debt—an advantage that influenced his final school decision.
3. Scholarships and Grants Are Out There—But You Must Apply: Many scholarships go unused because students aren’t aware of them or don’t take the initiative to apply. Proactively seeking out scholarships and working with advisors can meaningfully reduce college costs.
4. Debt-Free Graduation Sets You Up for Success: Graduating without significant student loans provides young professionals with greater flexibility, less stress, and a stronger foundation for achieving financial independence and future life goals.
5. Campus Involvement Opens Doors: Tony’s advice to get involved on campus (clubs, leadership, internships, and networking with professors) has led to scholarships, career opportunities, and a more fulfilling college experience. Waiting for opportunities isn’t enough—students should be proactive.

This episode is a powerful reminder that with the right planning, support, and initiative, students can chart a bright financial future—without sacrificing their passions or burying themselves in debt. Whether you’re a student, parent, or grandparent, I hope Tony’s journey inspires you to explore all your options and plan ahead for educational and financial success.

Thanks for tuning in! Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Don’t Retire… Graduate!, and join us next time as we continue to inspire your journey to financial freedom and purpose-driven living.

Welcome back to Don’t Retire… Graduate! In today’s episode, we’re going right into the heart of an anxiety-inducing topic for many: tax debt and IRS troubles. Whether it’s unexpected balance dues, inheritance issues, or business downturns, finding yourself in the IRS’s crosshairs is more common—and less shameful—than you might think.

To help us navigate this complex and often overwhelming world, I’m joined by Morgan Anderson, CEO and founder of Golden Lion Tax Solutions and the author of Tax Debt Rule Number One: There Is Always a Solution. With over 25 years of experience representing thousands of clients before the IRS and state agencies, Morgan is an expert in charting a path to financial resolution, no matter how dire the tax situation might appear.

During our conversation, Morgan and I dug into the most common causes of tax debt, the innocent mistakes that land “financially astute” individuals in trouble, and the initial steps everyone should take when a dreaded IRS notice arrives in their mailbox. Morgan debunked the myth that tax debt only happens to the financially irresponsible, highlighted the emotional toll these situations can have, and explained how professionals like herself become both advocates and accountability partners for their clients.

We examined practical strategies and resolution pathways, from installment agreements to offers in compromise, and even discussed how to distinguish reputable tax resolution firms from the predatory mills so often advertised late at night. Morgan shared real-life stories—some of triumph, others of lost opportunity—offering a real-world perspective on the importance of proactive action, honest communication, and reliable expert guidance when you’re facing a tax crisis.

We wrapped up by talking about the role of CPAs, financial advisors, and the value of staying engaged with your financial professionals throughout the year—not just at tax time. And, of course, I asked Morgan the quintessential Don’t Retire… Graduate! question: What do you want to be when you grow up?

Key Takeaways:

1. You’re Not Alone—And Action Beats Avoidance: Over 11 million Americans owed money to the IRS in a single tax cycle. Ignoring notices leads to steeper penalties and aggressive collection actions; opening those letters and responding promptly sets the foundation for solution.
2. Tax Debt Is Often Innocent: It can stem from inheritances, business downturns, or errors as simple as a mistyped Social Security number. Many who owe taxes are otherwise responsible and financially savvy individuals.
3. Professional Help Matters—Choose Wisely: For debts over $25,000, a true tax expert (CPA, EA, or specialized advocate) is essential, as IRS negotiations get far more complex. Be wary of “resolution mills”—look for personalized, transparent, and responsive service.
4. Resolution Options Are Varied: From installment plans to offers in compromise (settling for less), penalty abatement, and even leveraging lien subordination, there’s almost always a way forward—especially when guided by your current financial condition.
5. Engage with Advisors Year-Round: Most tax trouble happens when people only check in with CPAs annually. Quarterly reviews and proactive planning around major life events can prevent tax headaches before they start.

Join us to learn how to shed fear and shame around tax problems, discover actionable solutions, and embrace proactive strategies to secure financial peace of mind. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with anyone who could use a reminder that, when it comes to taxes, you’re never truly alone—and there’s always a solution.

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1. Charting Your Own Path: Jillian illustrates the courage and clarity needed to pursue a career that aligns with your natural strengths and interests, even when it departs from family tradition.
2. The Power of Being a Sponge: Whether starting out or pivoting to new areas—in Jillian’s case, insurance and annuities—success comes from humility, curiosity, and a commitment to learning from seasoned professionals.
3. Client Service at Its Core: Jillian’s journey underscores how detail-oriented, empathetic support can make a real difference in clients’ lives—whether helping with urgent distributions or navigating the intricacies of insurance.
4. Finding Your ‘Why’: A personal “why”—rooted in relationships, legacy, and the desire to make others proud—fuels growth and resilience, especially in a demanding service environment.
5. Building Relationships Beyond the Screen: Even in today’s world of digital forms and remote service, Jillian demonstrates that taking time to get to know clients personally, whenever possible, adds an invaluable human touch to financial advice.

Welcome back to Don’t Retire… Graduate! In today’s episode, we’re deep diving into the power of money conversations—why talking about your finances is crucial, and how it can serve as the foundation for a life of financial independence and fulfillment. Joining me is Skyler Fleming, financial coach and host of the “Money Talk with Skyler Fleming” podcast. With over 150 episodes under his belt and firsthand experience working his way up in a credit union, Skyler has become an enthusiastic advocate for breaking the taboo around discussing money and making finance approachable for everyone.

During our conversation, Skyler and I explored how simple, honest conversations can be the gateway to better financial habits, awareness, and ultimately, confidence. Skyler shared his journey, from fielding frustrated calls at a credit union to helping everyday people master their money both one-on-one and through podcasting. We unpacked his signature “seven money talking points,” covering everything from emergency funds and tracking your cash flow to the big philosophical questions about debt and financial goals. We compared coaching versus planning, debated the age-old question of whether or not to pay off debt early, and dove into how technology and automation can make managing your finances easier and less intimidating.

We also discussed mindset shifts through each life stage—why younger folks might want to maximize cash flow and debt leverage, while those closer to retirement may crave the security of being debt-free. Skyler and I both underscored the importance of not just focusing on retirement, but also on all the fun and meaningful goals that happen along the way: dream vacations, supporting your community, or funding your kids’ education. Ultimately, whether you’re in a partnership or on your own, we talked about building your own “money buddy” system for accountability and growth.

5 Key Takeaways:

1. Start Money Conversations Early and Often: Breaking the taboo and having simple, honest money talks—whether with a partner, friend, or coach—can demystify finances and set you up for success, no matter your starting point.
2. Master the Seven Money Talking Points: Skyler’s framework covers crucial questions: your emergency strategy, how you make, spend, and save money, your approach to debt, what you want your retirement to look like, and your big, aspirational financial goals.
3. Automation and Tracking Are Allies: Whether you love spreadsheets or apps, regularly tracking income and expenses—and leveraging automation—can take the pain out of budgeting and ensure your money goals stay on track.
4. Debt Decisions Are Personal: The question of paying off debt isn’t just about numbers; psychology and life stage play huge roles. Make debt payoff decisions based on your comfort, goals, and current opportunity costs, not just the math.
5. Design the Life You Want—Not Just a Retirement: Planning isn’t limited to the finish line of retirement. Identify and segregate funds for your “big money goals,” and build systems (and buddies!) to stay accountable and intentional every step of the way.

Join us as we explore how a little financial transparency and proactive planning can empower you to live with passion and purpose—today, in retirement, and every step in between. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with anyone eager to have their own “money talks” and transform their financial future!

1. Representation Matters in Finance: Manny highlights the visible lack of diversity in financial planning, and how seeing few role models in the industry can limit a young person’s belief in the possibilities for their own career.
2. The Power of Exposure and Mentorship: Manny’s journey was shaped by mentors and chance encounters—emphasizing that if you don’t know a career exists, you can’t prepare or aspire to it. Intentional outreach and speaking at schools can create these vital opportunities.
3. Apprenticeship Over “Sink or Swim”: Rather than the traditional approach of pushing new advisors to sell right out of the gate, BFG’s apprenticeship model focuses on gradual learning, client exposure, and holistic development—leading to better advisors and better client outcomes.
4. Excellence Over Perfection: Manny distinguishes himself by expecting perfect effort, not perfect performance, from himself and those around him. He believes in holding high standards while understanding that learning and growth are ongoing processes.
5. Paying It Forward: Manny is committed to giving back—returning to his alma mater, educating others about financial literacy, and striving to be a first-call advocate and steward for his clients and community. He believes true luck and success come at the intersection of preparation and opportunity.

1. Philanthropy Is Personal: Shari emphasized that charitable planning always begins with the client’s unique intent and dreams—never just the technical tools. Professionals must listen deeply to turn intentions into meaningful strategies.
2. Bridging Community Gaps: Recognizing the disconnect between the professional estate planning world and communities of color, Shari founded “Our Legacy Matters” to provide a safe, educational space and bridge miscommunication with accurate, accessible information.
3. Mentorship Matters: A pivotal relationship with her mentor, Aquanetta Betts, shaped Shari’s career and underscored the value of seeking (and becoming) lasting mentors, especially for those without inherited networks or practices.
4. Redefining Generational Philanthropy: Philanthropy in underrepresented communities often centers more on service, time, and talent than on financial gifts—yet these are powerful forms of legacy that deserve recognition and strategic support.
5. The Power of Joyful Reflection: Success isn’t just about relentless achievement. Shari’s decision to pause and intentionally reflect—to “let the sun shine” and dream anew—shows how purposeful rest and pursuit of joy are essential for continued growth.