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  • How Men Are Healing: Shame, Hope, and the Hard Work of Change
    2025/12/09

    What happens when two men sit down, drop the armour, and tell the truth about who they really are? On this episode of the Don’t Change Much Podcast, we introduce our new co-hosts, Mike Cameron and Trevor Botkin—two guys who have lived through rock bottom, rebuilt their lives, and are still doing the work every day.

    They share the same mission: help men close the gap between who they are and who they want to be.

    In this raw and hopeful conversation, Mike and Trevor unpack what healing actually looks like for men—navigating shame, asking for help, getting blindsided by grief, and learning to show up as the man you want to be, not the one you’re pretending to be. They share their stories of addiction, trauma, devastating loss, and the life-saving power of connection.

    What emerges is a powerful reminder that resilience isn’t only about being strong… it’s also about learning to feel again.

    This isn’t self-help fluff. It’s the hard, uncomfortable, life-changing work of becoming emotionally honest.

    You’ll hear:
    • Why men avoid asking for help and how to break that pattern
    • How shame fuels isolation and what stops it from running your life
    • The simple question Mike uses to course-correct when he’s slipping
    • Why Trevor believes self-forgiveness is the most unselfish thing a man can do

    If you’ve ever felt stuck, alone, or like you’re not the man you want to be, this conversation is your reminder: healing is possible… and you don’t have to do it on your own.

    Follow Mike Cameron

    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mikecameron.ca/
    • Youtube - https://youtube.com/mikecameronspeaks
    • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikedavidcameron/
    • X - Mike Cameron (@axiommike) / X
    • LinkedIn - https://linkedin.com/in/mikecameron
    • Website - https://mikecameron.ca/
    • TedX Talk - https://www.ted.com/talks/mike_cameron_redefining_badass_the_way_we_think_about_strong_is_wrong

    Follow Trevor Botkin

    • LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/trevor-botkin-869ab5143/

    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    • Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/
    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/
    • Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Humility

    00:50 Meet the Hosts: Mike and Trevor

    01:21 The Importance of Human Connection

    02:55 Personal Journeys: Overcoming Challenges

    06:21 The Power of Vulnerability and Asking for Help

    09:27 A Heartbreaking Loss: Mike's Story

    14:09 Honoring Colleen: Making Beautiful Shit Happen

    18:22 Finding Beauty in Grief: Trevor's Story

    19:20 Coping with Loss and Family Support

    21:02 Finding Strength in Vulnerability

    21:38 Redefining Masculinity

    22:28 The Power of Emotional Connection

    23:28 Overcoming Addiction and Self-Discovery

    26:10 The Importance of Sharing Stories

    29:37 Navigating Shame and Forgiveness

    33:49 Building a Hopeful Future

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    36 分
  • The Myth That Helping Men Hurts Women, And What’s Actually True
    2025/11/19

    We've been taught that supporting men's health somehow takes away from supporting women's health. This episode shatters that zero-sum myth, arguing that raising one boat raises all.

    Host Buzz Bishop is joined by Nicky Dhaliwal (Canadian Men's Health Foundation), Mike Cameron (Connected Men), and Clair Davis (Midlife Mentors) to discuss why men's health is family health.

    The group gets honest about what they’re seeing in homes, workplaces, and communities: women feeling judged for supporting men; men afraid of mentoring after #MeToo; and young men experiencing anger at nearly double the national rate.

    They dive into startling CMHF research showing 50% of young men (19–29) are at risk of problem anger and violent impulses. The key to breaking this cycle and building resilience? Deep Connection

    This episode offers tangible self-care and connection steps to support men's mental health:

    • The Power of Exclusive Spaces: Why men-only workshops create a unique, safe dynamic where men feel permission to open up and be vulnerable.
    • Be Curious, Not Assuming: Claire shares the need to be curious about the men in your life and avoid the shame-based assumptions that keep the shadow bag closed.
    • Use Silence as a Tool: When you ask, "How are you?" allow the silence to breathe; that’s where the truth shows up.
    • Emotions Drive Behavior: Mike explains the sequence: emotion → decisions → behaviors → results.
    • Hug Until They Let Go: A beautifully simple piece of advice from CMHF/Blueprint for building stronger relationships with your kids.

    A healthy man is not a perfect man. He just needs a thousand small acts of connection to move the needle. Tune in to find out how to create the space for those acts.

    Follow Claire Davis

    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/midlifementors/
    • Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/c/themidlifementors
    • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/groups/themidlifementorscommunity
    • Website - https://themidlifementors.com/

    Follow Mike Cameron

    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mikecameron.ca/
    • Youtube - https://youtube.com/mikecameronspeaks
    • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikedavidcameron/
    • X - Mike Cameron (@axiommike) / X
    • LinkedIn - https://linkedin.com/in/mikecameron
      Website - https://mikecameron.ca/
      TedX Talk - https://www.ted.com/talks/mike_cameron_redefining_badass_the_way_we_think_about_strong_is_wrong


    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    • Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/
    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/
    • Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

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    28 分
  • When Anger Helps (and When It Hurts)
    2025/11/12

    What if your anger isn't really anger at all? What if it's grief? Or fear? Or shame? Or something else entirely?

    On this episode of Don't Change Much, host Buzz Bishop speaks with Dr. David Kuhl, a UBC professor and physician who believes that learning to be emotionally honest is the key to being a better man, partner, and father.

    Get ready to look under the anger and find out what's really going on.

    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/

    Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    30 分
  • How Can Men Build Sustainable Health Habits That Last?
    2025/10/07

    Struggling with an all-or-nothing approach to fitness? This episode explores why the best strategy is, quite literally, "don't change much." Health Psychologist Dr. Eli Puterman and Personal Trainer Tim Kelly explain how to overcome common mental barriers when starting a new routine. Learn the science of how movement trains your body to better handle stress and why even a 10-minute walk provides a powerful mental and physical boost.

    Dr. Eli Puterman is a clinical counsellor and Associate Professor in the School of Kinesiology at the University of British Columbia, as well as the Canada Research Chair in Physical Activity and Health. He directs the Fitness, Aging, and Stress (FAST) Lab, where he investigates how physical activity can protect against the negative effects of stress on cellular aging and mental health.

    Tim Kelly is the Head of Fitness Experience for Club 16 Trevor Linden Fitness. With over 20 years of experience, he is dedicated to advancing the professional development of personal trainers, equipping them with the knowledge and skills to deliver exceptional client experiences. Tim is passionate about making health and wellness approachable for everyone. As a contributor to DontChangeMuch.ca, he specializes in breaking down complex goals into small, sustainable actions that help people succeed—whether they are fitness professionals or individuals just beginning their journey.

    Follow Tim Kelly

    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/timkellyclub16/
    • LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/timothy-kelly-03726b/

    Connect with Dr. Eli Puterman

    • https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/therapists/eli-puterman-vancouver-bc/1333323

    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    • Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/
    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/
    • Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

    Chapters

    00:12 The Secret to Handling Stress
    00:18 Meet the Experts: Dr. Eli Putman and Tim Kelly
    03:14 Overcoming Mental Barriers in the Gym
    05:40 The Science Behind Exercise and Stress
    07:21 Maintaining Consistency in Exercise
    09:13 Movement vs. Exercise
    10:47 Low-Intensity Workouts and Heart Rate
    17:10 The Importance of Healthspan
    20:14 The Mental Benefits of Exercise
    22:36 First Steps to Breaking Bad Habits
    24:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    25 分
  • What Hockey Didn’t Teach Trevor Linden About Men’s Health
    2025/09/23

    What happens when the habits that make you successful in sports don’t work in life?

    As a teenager, Trevor Linden was drafted second overall by the Vancouver Canucks. By 21, he was the team captain. The mindset that drove him to push harder, never showing weakness, left him carrying a weight many men know too well: suffering in silence.

    In this candid conversation with host Dan Murphy, Trevor shares the lessons hockey didn’t teach him: the power of connection, the guidance of mentors, and why caring for your mental and physical health is not optional.

    Whether you’re chasing goals at work, raising a family, or just trying to feel your best, Trevor’s story is a reminder that it’s never too late to make small, meaningful changes—and that real strength comes from taking care of yourself and those who count on you.

    Follow Trevor Linden

    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/trevor_linden/
    • Champion Profile - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/champions/trevor-linden/
    • Website - https://www.trevorlindenfitness.com/

    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    • Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/
    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/
    • Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

    Chapters

    00:55 Trevor Linden's Early Life and Family Values

    02:29 Journey to Professional Hockey

    05:32 Becoming a Leader and Captain

    08:27 Lessons from a Hockey Career

    10:55 Transition to Post-Playing Days

    13:30 Promoting Men's Health and Wellness

    17:22 Business Ventures and Leadership

    21:05 Setting an Example for the Next Generation

    23:10 Concluding Thoughts and Final Message

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    30 分
  • From Breaking Point to Brotherhood in the Trades: Men Confront Suicide, Survival & Hope
    2025/09/10

    For many men in the trades, work is more than a job; it’s an identity. But the weight of long hours, money stress, and pressure to “be strong” can become overwhelming, with devastating consequences.

    In this raw and deeply human episode, host Buzz Bishop sits down with Trevor Botkin (The FORGE), Andrew Perez (Canadian Association for Suicide Prevention), and two men - Mitch Orton and Rob Saloman - who lost a brother or son who worked in the trades.

    Together, they break the silence around pressure, identity, and the weight of “being the tough guy.”

    What unfolds is a conversation about survival, brotherhood, and change. From lived experience to national advocacy, each voice shows that while the crisis is real, so is the possibility of hope.

    You’ll come away with:
    💡 Why peer-to-peer conversations cut through stigma
    💡 Signs to look for when someone you love is struggling
    💡 How even one honest conversation can save a life

    This is not just about suicide prevention. It’s about building stronger connections, redefining strength, and reminding every man: you are not alone.

    If you or a loved one needs support, please call or text 988 to reach Canada’s Suicide Crisis Helpline.

    Learn more about the

    • The FORGE - https://entertheforge.ca/
    • CASP - https://suicideprevention.ca/

    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    • Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/
    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/
    • Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    41 分
  • Skateboarding, Self-Care, and the Promise He’ll Never Break
    2025/08/19

    When Richie Bullbrook was a kid, a cartoon sparked a passion that’s taken him around the world. Now 22, he’s one of Canada’s top-ranked park and vert skateboarders, an Olympic hopeful, and a National Champion for the Canadian Men’s Health Foundation.

    In this conversation, Richie opens up about the promise he made to his dad before he passed, the mental health challenges he’s faced, and the self-care habits that keep him grounded through injuries, setbacks, and pressure at the highest level.

    You’ll hear how Richie turned personal loss into fuel for his goals, why mentorship matters for men’s health, and the lessons he’s learned about resilience—on and off the skateboard. It’s a powerful reminder that mental health isn’t about going it alone, but leaning into the people and purpose that keep you moving forward.




    Follow Richie Bullbrook

    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/richiebullbrook/
    • TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@richiebullbrook
    • LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/richie-bullbrook-b27535270/
    • James Bullbrook Memorial Scholarship - https://curiouspublic.com/bullbrook-scholarship/
    • Richie’s “For Dad” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkVcvBuA3Fs



    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    • Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/
    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/
    • Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    29 分
  • How a Cross-Canada Run is Sparking Deep Conversations
    2025/08/05

    Real change starts with real conversations.

    When Sachin Latti and Glen Ivan set out to cross Canada, they didn’t expect the most powerful part of the journey to happen between the steps—in honest, off-the-cuff conversations with strangers.

    In this episode, Canadian Men's Health Foundation’s CEO, Kenton Boston, welcomes them back to the podcast, joined by Dr. David Kuhl, to reflect on what these moments are teaching them. From roadside chats to quiet community meetups, it’s clear: the people they meet aren’t looking for advice—they’re looking for connection.

    Together, they explore why openness matters, how simply “going first” gives others permission to speak up, and why creating space for these conversations may be the most powerful tool we have for men’s mental health.

    Follow Sach.in.Motion

    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sach.in.motion/
    • Website - https://sachinmotion.ca/
    • Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@sachinmotion
    • Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/sachinmotion/100087280530395


    Follow Canadian Men’s Health Foundation

    • Website - https://menshealthfoundation.ca/
    • Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/menshealthfdn/
    • Facebook - https://facebook.com/menshealthfoundation

    Chapters

    01:17 Mental Health Conversations on the Road

    02:46 Glenn Ivan's Perspective

    04:27 Dr. David Kuhl Joins the Discussion

    06:38 Community Engagement and Impact

    10:38 Personal Stories and Reflections

    18:53 Physical and Mental Challenges of the Journey

    24:01 Balancing Work and Running

    25:39 Driven by Purpose

    26:58 Empowering Others Through Purpose

    28:24 Mental Challenges and Running

    30:36 The Importance of Connection

    32:15 Creating a Supportive Community

    34:24 Personal Reflections and Motivation

    37:21 Final Thoughts and Gratitude

    46:10 Closing Remarks and Resources

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    47 分