Who gets the house? It is one of the first questions that comes up in a divorce, and one of the hardest to answer, because a house is never only a house. It is the kitchen, the pencil marks on the door frame, the first Christmas. And it is also, for most families, the single largest financial asset on the table.

In this episode, host Angie Weber sits down with Kimberly Reeves, a real estate advisor and the founder of Reeves Advisory Collective, who helps people make smart real estate decisions during life's biggest transitions. Kimberly walks through how she actually starts the conversation, beginning with the value of the home, then moving into upkeep, school districts, community, and what the monthly payment would really look like for one person.

She also gets specific about the things people miss. Capital gains exposure drops from five hundred thousand dollars for a married couple to two hundred fifty thousand for a single filer, which matters enormously in a gray divorce where a home has appreciated for thirty years. Refinancing costs that never get factored into the split. Creative options like renting a room or renting short term while life settles. And the questions to ask any real estate agent before you hire them.

If you are staring at this decision and feeling frozen, this conversation will give you a next right step.

Connect with Kimberly:
Reeves Advisory Collective: https://reevesadvisorycollective.com
Kimberly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlyreeves11/

This is Episode 13 of the Divorce Discussions Podcast by the Divorce Support Collective, where we seek to reimagine the process of divorce through collaboration and support. New episodes drop every Wednesday.

Note: this episode is general education, not personalized financial, tax, or legal advice. Kimberly is a real estate advisor and is not a CPA or a financial advisor. Please work with your own licensed professionals on your specific situation.

Have you walked past a mirror lately and not quite recognized the person looking back?

Long before the papers, before the hard conversations, something in your body was already bracing. In this episode of Divorce Discussions, host Angie Weber sits down with Romy Limenes, a trauma-informed coach, breathwork facilitator, and former nurse who found her way back to herself after her own marriage ended.

Romy shares what actually happens in your body when a relationship comes apart, why divorce can feel so disorienting on every level, and how we slowly lose ourselves inside relationships without even realizing it. Drawing on both her science background and her lived experience, she explains how your nervous system learned to protect you, and how it can also learn to undo that pattern one small practice at a time.

You'll learn the difference between thinking your way through pain and actually feeling your way through it, why breathwork is the fastest way to shift your physiology, and simple tools like notice and name that you can start using today. If you've been running on fight or flight for longer than you can remember, this conversation is an invitation to come home to yourself.

Connect with Romy:
www.breathworksimple.com
https://www.instagram.com/breathscapeswithromy/

This is Episode 12 of the Divorce Discussions Podcast by the Divorce Support Collective, where we reimagine the process of divorce through collaboration and support. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Follow the show, leave a review, and visit thedivorcesupportcollective.com for resources and support.

For many women, divorce isn't just the end of a relationship. It's the beginning of taking full ownership of their financial life, sometimes for the very first time.

In this episode of Divorce Discussions, DSC Director, Angie Weber, sits down with Donna Cates, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), wealth builder, and founder of Money Matters Wealth Solutions and Navigating Divorce, to talk about how women can move from overwhelmed to empowered when it comes to their money.

Donna explains the biggest mistake she sees women make in divorce (rushing decisions while deep in their emotions), why a settlement that looks equal on paper often isn't actually fair, and the three first steps every woman should take: gather your financial data, understand what it truly costs to live your lifestyle, and define your real priorities.

She shares why a CDFA sees your finances through a different lens than a traditional financial planner, how to handle a high-conflict spouse who won't share information, and why it's never too late to get help as long as you're still negotiating. Whether you're just starting to think about divorce or you're already in the thick of it, this conversation will help you feel less overwhelmed and more in control of your financial future.

Connect with Donna:
www.moneymatterswealth.com
instagram.com/donnacates/
facebook.com/MoneyMattersWealth/
facebook.com/DivorceDivasAlabama/
linkedin.com/in/donnacates/

This is Episode 11 of the Divorce Discussions Podcast by the Divorce Support Collective, where we seek to reimagine the process of divorce through collaboration and support.

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Follow the show, leave a review, and visit thedivorcesupportcollective.com for resources and support