In the Season 1 Finale - Lanikai shares her journey of starting a Christian sex podcast, exploring misconceptions about sex in faith, and the importance of stewardship, honesty, and understanding in sexuality.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and podcast background

01:56 The motivation behind starting the podcast

03:59 God's role in the podcast journey

05:53 Misconceptions about sex in Christianity

07:53 Sexual desire as a fire, not the enemy

10:02 Stewardship over sexual desires

11:51 The importance of understanding and obedience

13:47 God's openness to honesty and messiness

16:12 Abstinence as an expression of obedience

19:08 Desire and obedience coexistence

21:07 Marriage is not a reward for abstinence

23:02 Heart posture over transactional obedience

24:52 Questions about faith, desire, and purpose

28:11 Future plans for the podcast and community

32:02 Season two: visual podcast and team building

33:55 Closing remarks and upcoming episodes

We are building a team! If you are or know a:

• Graphic Designer
• Social Media Manager
• Video Editor

Please send an email to didshejustsaysex@gmail.com, or send a DM on Instagram @didshejustsaysex or @lanikai.hunters

Socials

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In this episode, the Lanikai addresses some listener questions about sex, faith, and personal boundaries, emphasizing honesty with God and understanding biblical principles. Topics include regret over past sexual experiences, having a type, managing lust, and the difference between abstinence and celibacy.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and episode overview

03:22 Addressing regret over past sexual experiences

09:05 The war between flesh and spirit in desires

12:28 The difference between worldly sorrow and godly sorrow

15:27 Is it wrong to have a type?

23:18 Managing sexual desire and lust

29:56 What counts as sexual immorality?

37:14 Masturbation and its biblical considerations

40:42 Difference between abstinence and celibacy

42:33 Feeling no conviction about sex as a Christian

50:27 Final thoughts and encouragement

Socials

@DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms

Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681

Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087

Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music

The link for dilemmas & questions:

https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9

If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast as a guest - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!

Lanikai shares insights on navigating sex and relationships within Christian faith, addressing dilemmas from listeners about marriage, sex, and personal growth. This episode emphasizes communication, grace, and self-awareness in the journey of faith and love.

Key Topics

Sexual compatibility in Christian dating

Discussing hard no's and hard yes's in intimacy

Healing and self-care after divorce

The importance of communication in marriage

Challenging purity culture myths

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and episode overview

00:30 Listener feedback and episode themes

02:23 Dilemmas episode introduction

03:22 Discussing sexual compatibility before marriage

06:15 Hard no's and hard yes's in intimacy

08:14 The learning curve of sex in marriage

10:42 Healing and grace after divorce

18:52 Addressing sexual dissatisfaction in marriage

22:43 Communication and feedback in sex

27:33 Conclusion and next steps

Socials

@DidSheJustSaySex on all platforms

Deezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681

Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087

Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon Music

The link for dilemmas & questions:

https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9

If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!