Hey, ya'll! Welcome back to another diary entry! Life has been giving me hands and feet (I'm talking bottom of sole) and I've been trying to find a proper way to show up. I haven't quite figured it out yet, but I'm doing what I can. If you ever want to reach me directly, feel free to message me on IG or TikTok (blossomclosing co)

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This is a little different than my typical diary entries, but this is where my mind is at the moment.

I'm single handedly trying to kill the "soft girl era" thing. Let's not be soft for an era, let's just choose to be soft. You deserve to live a life as your most feminine self no matter what your circumstances are. Your don't need all of the pretty things you see online (although we both know they would be nice to have).

It's time to create softness in your life in spite of how hard life may feel. Step into the woman you want to be and stop waiting for permission. What are some small changes you can make to your daily routine to make you feel the way you've always wanted to feel?

Let's explore this together, because ultimately, we have the ability to create the type of life we want to live. Not having the ability to buy lavish things and go to exotic places doesn't mean that you don't have to have anything.

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In this episode, I share a realization that hit me out of nowhere while I was cooking: a connection between my current patterns and an emotionally abusive relationship I went through in my early twenties. It’s a part of my life I never talked about, never processed, and honestly thought I’d moved past… until it resurfaced at the exact moment I started leveling up in every area of my life.

I’m breaking down:

• why old wounds come back when we’re stepping into a new version of ourselves
• the patterns we repeat without realizing it
• and how to start freeing yourself from habits you didn’t choose

This isn’t about reliving the past, it’s about recognizing the pieces of yourself that deserve clarity and compassion so you can stop shrinking and start moving with intention.

If you’ve ever wondered why a random memory hits you years later, or why certain patterns keep showing up in your life, this episode is for you.

You can access this weeks diary entry here:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1adoS4gR8_F-syj3rJh--kQxnkQXGV4Hp/view?usp=sharing

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Choose to win, you deserve it!