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In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast I have an amazing conversation with Devon Ojeda, about the importance of community, identity, and resilience in the face of adversity. Devon shares their personal journey, including their experiences with trauma, spirituality, and the significance of their name change. They emphasize the radical act of living authentically and the importance of supporting trans rights through community and unionization. And, we touch on the potential for change and hope for the future of trans rights, highlighting the importance of visibility and collective action.

We talk:

05:53 - Finding home in Baltimore

12:10 - Devon’s journey of name change and identity

20:51 - Survival, healing, and spirituality

30:08 - Parenting and acceptance of identity

40:55 - Intersectionality in the Trans Movement

52:08 - The importance of community and solidarity

Episode References:

Dem Bois Podcast Ep. 3 - Surviving Homelessness

Read more about Devon in their bio below:

Devon Ojeda (they/he) is the Senior National Organizer at Advocates for Trans Equality (A4TE), where they build coalitions and work with government partners to advance policies supporting trans communities, including healthcare and housing. Devon describes their hormone journey as a meaningful source of healing as a trans person and survivor. Previously, he served as the 2018–2019 James Marshall Public Policy Fellow with the Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues, working for the Senate HELP Subcommittee. Devon holds a Ph.D. in Community Psychology from Wichita State University.

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Did you know that there are people in the world that will love you for free? People that will hold space for you with no conditions whatsoever… And that is pretty much the message of this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today I sit down with Kalvin Byrd, and we discuss the importance of community, the challenges faced during transition, and the significance of visibility for trans men. Kalvin shares his personal journey, including the struggles of isolation, the importance of brotherhood, and the need for unconditional love in relationships. And, we emphasize the necessity of open dialogue about the realities of transitioning and the support systems that can help individuals navigate their journeys.

We talk:

09:09 - Navigating relationships during transition

14:52 - Brotherhood and support systems

21:06 - Unconditional love and healthy masculinity

38:54 - The mission of Uncloak

52:04 - The importance of self-care

Episode References:

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Read more about Kalvin in his bio below:

Kalvin Byrd is the Founder and Executive Director of Uncloak, an uplifting organization dedicated to the health, wellness, and healing of men of trans experience. Since 2021, he has grown Uncloak to a national scale, focusing on connection, empowerment, and suicide prevention by partnering with healthcare providers and community leaders to build safe, affirming spaces. Kalvin’s work is rooted in a deep commitment to disrupting isolation and cultivating brotherhood among trans men.

• IG: _Uncloak_ & kingzz_paradise
• LinkedIn: kalvinbyrd
• Website: uncloakfoundation.org

Dem Bois Inc. is seeking passionate, equity-driven leaders to join our Board of Directors. We’re recruiting for several roles, including Board Chair, Fundraising & External Relations, Program & Community Engagement, and General Board Members, to help advance our mission to uplift and empower trans men of color.

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We all fail at gender, trans and cis folks. We don’t fit into the rigid boxes society has created for us because binary rules are flawed. And in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, we dive into this concept. Today’s guest is Kai Marshall Green, and together we explore themes of identity, transformation, and gender. Kai shares personal experiences, including the significance of his name change and the challenges faced in navigating societal expectations. And, we highlight the importance of visibility for trans individuals and the connections between Black lesbian spaces and trans identity.

We talk:

07:00 - Kai’s journey of identity and transformation

12:04 - Navigating gender expectations and advice

28:39 - Mental health and its complexities

38:40 - Writing a memoir

44:38 - Reflections on growth and healing

Episode References:

I'm Gonna Git You Sucka

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The Princess and the Frog

Black Spaces: Reclaim & Remain: July 18, 2025—Sunday, March 1, 2026 at the Oakland Museum of California (OMCA)

Read more about Kai in his bio below:

K. Marshall Green is a shape-shifting Black Queer Feminist nerd; an Afro-Future, freedom-dreaming, rhyme slinging dragon slayer in search of a new world; a scholar, poet, facilitator, filmmaker; & an Assistant Professor of Africana Studies at The University of Delaware. He earned his Ph.D. from the Department of American Studies & Ethnicity w/ specializations in Gender Studies & Visual Anthropology at USC. His debut memoir, A Body Made Home: They Black Trans Love, is coming out 2/24/26 (The Feminist Press).

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Dem Bois Inc. is seeking passionate, equity-driven leaders to join our Board of Directors. We’re recruiting for several roles, including Board Chair, Fundraising & External Relations, Program & Community Engagement, and General Board Members, to help advance our mission to uplift and empower trans men of color.

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Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.

Dem Bois YouTube Channel! - @demboisinc - Exclusive content you won't find anywhere else!