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I say this all the time and I will say it again! Masculinity is what you choose to make of it. You don’t have to subscribe to the toxic masculinity of our fathers and uncles. We can choose a softer side, and we talk all about that in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today’s guest is fiction writer and poet, Bodi, and we explore the themes of masculinity, identity, and community. We emphasize the power of vulnerability and the role of writing in healing. And, we address the privileges and challenges at the intersections of race and gender.

We talk:

3:45 - How we met at Camp Lost Boys

9:59 - Bodi’s journey of self-discovery

29:58 - Navigating race and identity in germany

40:10 - Embracing change and positive masculinity

48:31 - The role of art in expression

53:29 - Bodi’s poem

Episode References:

Camp Lost Boys

One World Poetry Night

Math jokes page?

Read more about Bodi in his bio below:

Bodi (he/him), a fiction writer poet is a fire sun and rising, moon in cute. His work guides him to process what life blessed him with like dreams and water, spirituality, ancestry, love and affection but also body politics around gender, queerness and disability. Bodi has a background in cultural science and has been working with queer communities of colour in Berlin Germany as a project manager, educator and social worker for more than 10 years. He loves to sing, he loves to cook, give massages and he thinks about qualities of rest.

• @bodipoetry

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What do you know about “trans time?” I had never heard the term before my interview with poet and educator, Alexis N. Garcia, but in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, Alexis teaches all about this concept and more! In this episode, Alexis also discusses their identity, exploring themes of gender, ancestry, and the importance of community. They reflect on the role of play and imagination in our lives, the journey of writing and creativity, the significance of support systems, and the essence of freedom.

We talk:

2:44 - Exploring identity and ancestry

18:26 - The journey of gender and transition

33:21 - Healing generational trauma

40:05 - Understanding “Trans Time” and nonlinear existence

54:35 - Support systems and community connections

Episode References:

Octavia Butler

Caro De Robertis

Tina Aguirre

The Hips on the Drag Queen Go Swish, Swish, Swish

Read more about Alexis is their bio below:

Alexis N. Garcia is a t-boy poet & educator dreaming against the state. Their cross-discipline experiments glitch traditional poetic form to construct trans time & non-linear meaning-making. You can find their work in The Hopkins Review, Poets.org’s “Poem-A-Day” series, The Slowdown, The Best of the Net Anthology 2022, among others. Aceves Garcia has received fellowships from The Outpost Foundation, Jack Jones Literary Arts, and the Tin House Summer Workshop. Their latest callings include bringing plant offerings to the ocean and escaping linear time.

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Laughter is a powerful tool for connection! It breaks down barriers and cools fires, and in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast Jonnea talks about how he connects with people through comedy. Jonnea is a stand-up comedian and artist/designer, and he shares insights on embracing his hater side, the significance of his name, and girlhood and womanhood. We also discuss the importance of relationships and support systems, the impact of perception on identity, and the intersection of humor and identity, particularly as a trans individual.

We talk:

02:58 - Embracing the hater within

15:03 - Menstruation and body experiences

24:03 - Perception and identity

36:33 - The journey into stand-up comedy

49:50 - The power of laughter

53:29 - Comedy and gender identity

01:01:31 - The intellectual side of comedy

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Read more about Jonnea in his bio below:

Jonnea Herman is a queer, afrolatinx, part storyteller and part hater, stand up comedian, and artist/designer based in Brooklyn, New York.

• @j0nnea (Twitter + IG + tiktok)
• www.jonneaherman.info

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