You can’t rewrite the past — but you can learn from it. Amber Grimes did exactly that, going from college dropout to Executive Vice President in the entertainment industry with no map, just mistakes and lessons that turned into power moves. If You Knew Better is where Amber shares that wisdom — alongside artists, creatives, and culture-shifters who open up about the missteps they made, the mindsets that changed everything, and the game they wish they knew sooner. Together, they unpack the highs, the lows, and the pivots in life, career, and relationships — so you either don’t have to go through it, or can move smarter when you do. Every episode delivers real talk, hard-won insight, and practical gems to help you grow into the version of yourself that knows better… and does better.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jayson Rodriguez, and the king of headlines Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation that blends current events, personal storytelling, cultural critique, and conspiracy-laced debates. The discussion kicks off with a breakdown of trending headlines and the crew’s signature “ignorant thoughts” on the week’s biggest topics [ 03:01 ], before shifting into personal updates, celebrations, and behind-the-scenes moments from their lives outside the studio [ 06:01 ]. The hosts then share humorous stories involving social experiments and unexpected food adventures that spark commentary about social norms and curiosity-driven experiences [ 09:01 ], leading into a remix-style conversation about pop culture, internet discourse, and shifting cultural narratives [ 11:49 ].

The energy continues with nightlife stories and party culture reflections [ 15:10 ], before the conversation pivots toward politics and current affairs, examining the broader social climate and the way media narratives shape public understanding [ 18:13 ]. Technology enters the discussion as the hosts debate the expanding role of AI in media, storytelling, and historical interpretation [ 22:00 ], which leads naturally into conspiracy theories and contentious conversations surrounding COVID-era vaccine debates [ 27:10 ]. The dialogue intensifies as the crew unpacks controversial claims about Epstein’s alleged influence on mRNA technology and elite power structures [ 42:01 ], before transitioning into a deeper examination of the struggles Black men face navigating visibility, opportunity, and stereotyping in Hollywood and entertainment industries [ 51:50 ].

From there, the hosts explore the complex dynamics of respect, influence, and power within professional environments [ 01:00:24 ], particularly as it relates to identity, credibility, and gatekeeping in predominantly white industries. The conversation expands into the intersection of race, gender, and workplace authority, highlighting how Black men and women assert their presence while navigating cultural expectations and systemic barriers [ 01:10:02 ]. The episode closes on a lighter note with a spontaneous freestyle segment and playful cultural commentary that captures the crew’s humor, chemistry, and ability to blend serious discussion with entertainment [ 01:15:30 ].

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On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Sarah Fontenot joins Mandii B and WeezyWTF for a candid conversation about marriage, commitment, and modern relationships. The group discusses whether marriage should be the goal, Mandii’s hesitation around long-term commitment, and what emotional independence looks like in dating. Sarah also shares the story of leaving her boyfriend for the man who became her husband, the speed of their relationship, and how they went from friends to marriage. Later, the hosts debate expectations in partnerships, Cam Newton and marriage, and whether Mandii might actually be afraid of becoming a wife before Sarah closes out the episode with the three things that are important to her in life in order of importance.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by super producer A-King, and king of the headlines Jason “Jah” Lee, deliver a culturally sharp discussion spanning Black History Month, Women’s History Month, politics, reparations, and celebrity influence, beginning with reflections on the importance of honoring Black and women’s contributions beyond performative celebration [01:55]. The conversation quickly pivots to the controversial partnership between the Atlanta Hawks and Magic City, unpacking what it says about Atlanta’s identity, capitalism, and cultural branding [02:52], before settling into guest introductions and commentary on podcast dynamics and media chemistry [03:45]. The hosts address online criticism and gender discourse in digital spaces [05:10], share anecdotes from a night out in Atlanta that spark conversations about networking, optics, and influence [09:17], and reflect on ignorance in the context of current events and viral headlines [14:29].

The episode deepens with a historical lens on the NAACP’s rebranding efforts and legacy [15:50], followed by a candid dialogue about exceptionalism within the Black community and the pressures it creates [20:07]. A thoughtful debate on reparations, land ownership, and economic justice unfolds [23:01], layered with broader commentary on Atlanta’s evolving cultural identity [25:52]. Later, the crew analyzes the viral Tez Johnson proposal controversy and what it reveals about social expectations and public judgment [36:27], before shifting into urgent discussions around the Epstein files, political apologies, and elite accountability [43:14]. The hosts confront difficult societal conversations surrounding pedophilia and institutional complicity [51:58], examine rising geopolitical tensions and concerns about global conflict [57:02], and close with a powerful call to action encouraging awareness, civic engagement, and informed participation in today’s socio-political climate [01:11:27]. Blending cultural commentary, political analysis, and social critique, this episode underscores the importance of engagement, accountability, and historical literacy in navigating modern America.

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***TRIGGER WARNING***** Mentions of DV

This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Sarah Fontenot for an unfiltered conversation about love, marriage, and everything they don’t tell you before you say “I do.” Sarah opens up about waiting until marriage, navigating dating in Canada, and the realities of going from friend to wife, plus her three rings and two very different engagements. The episode dives into marriage counseling, gossiping as adults, and whether you should ever let your man propose at a baby shower. Things get spicy as the trio debates cheating, sex workers and accountability, side chick energy, emotional affairs, independence in relationships, and the boundaries around husbands having close female friends.

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**Trigger Warning: SA, SH, Trafficking **

This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy WTF are joined by Apostle Danielle Williams-McCord, author of From Porn to the Pulpit, as the episode opens with prayer before Danielle shares her introduction to ministry, the difficulty of speaking about mental health, and her early experiences with exploitation while underage, including her pregnancy and the moment her mother learned the truth. She discusses running away after giving birth, entering the stripping industry, the assumptions placed on her about sex work, being introduced to drugs through a church connection, her first client, life on the blade, and her transition from prostitution to porn, including the reality of her clientele, while the conversation also explores morality within sex work, the possibility of returning to a corporate career, the classification of sugar babies, and the demands tied to maintaining a luxury lifestyle. Danielle recounts surviving multiple overdoses, the role of scripture in her life, the emotional response her story brings out in the room, her turning point, a kidnapping in which she believed she would die before being freed by a stranger, and the events that redirected her path back to faith and ministry, along with a discussion on language, her story being adapted into a stage play, and her present-day work.

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