Welcome to the world of the Dear Big Sister podcast, where host Jordy serves as your virtual big sister, guiding you through the trials and tribulations of life during your twenties.

Join Jordy in her first ever episode where she dives into,

Her journey to launching the Dear Big Sister podcast. "It began unexpectedly during a conversation with her boss at a café. Initially hesitant about starting a podcast, she found inspiration during her university placement, realizing that she had valuable insights to share. With a vision board in hand, she identified key areas to focus on, including university life, mental health, and relationships. Her goal is to be the big sister she wished she had growing up, providing a safe space for listeners to seek advice without judgment."

She engages in a fun segment of 20 questions that reveal her personality and interests. From her favorite weekend activities to her dreams of becoming a doctor, these insights showcase her relatable and down-to-earth nature. For instance, she shares that her favorite way to spend a weekend is simply enjoying time with friends, emphasizing the importance of good company and positive vibes.

In the episode's central theme, "Dear Big Sister, I have no idea what I'm doing," Jordy candidly shares her struggles with feeling behind in life. She reflects on how, growing up, it seemed that everyone else had their paths figured out while she was still navigating university. However, she recognizes that everyone moves at their own pace, and it’s normal to feel lost at times. This realization is liberating, reminding listeners that they are not alone in their uncertainties.

Jordy introduces a powerful quote she encountered at age 13 that shaped her outlook: "This is everyone's first time living." She reflects on how even her parents, whom she once saw as all-knowing, are also on their first journey through life. This perspective encourages listeners to ease the pressure they put on themselves and embrace their unique journeys, recognizing that comparison to others can be detrimental.

She openly discusses the negative effects of comparing oneself to others, especially in the age of social media. She acknowledges her own struggles with this and encourages listeners to stop the negative self-talk. Instead, she urges them to embrace their individuality and be proud of who they are. Her friend Maya chimes in, reinforcing the idea of dismissing societal pressures and focusing on self-acceptance.

The first episode of the Dear Big Sister podcast is a heartfelt reminder that feeling lost in your twenties is a shared experience. Jordy's candidness about her own struggles, paired with her encouraging perspective, provides listeners with a sense of community and understanding. Key takeaways include the importance of self-acceptance, recognizing that everyone is on their unique journey, and the necessity of surrounding oneself with positive influences.