Dateable AF Show Notes:

Rachel and Sarah discussing Kissing

Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Episode 2 Rachel & Dr. Kyle explain Lesbian dating and the tendency to move in after the first date.

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC.

Dateable AF Show Notes:

Rachel and Sarah have another after party answering listeners questions.

Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Episode 2 Rachel & Dr. Kyle explain Lesbian dating and the tendency to move in after the first date.

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC.

Dateable AF Show Notes: E2:E11

Rachel and Sarah discuss Ethical Non-Monogamy (1)

Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Episode 2 Rachel & Dr. Kyle explain Lesbian dating and the tendency to move in after the first date.

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC.

Dateable AF Show Notes: E2:E10

Rachel and Sarah discuss emotional micromanagement.

Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Episode 2 Rachel & Dr. Kyle explain Lesbian dating and the tendency to move in after the first date.

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC.

Dateable AF Show Notes: E2:E9

Rachel and Sarah deep dive Being Bisexual in a Binary World

Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Episode 2 Rachel & Dr. Kyle explain Lesbian dating and the tendency to move in after the first date.

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC.

Dateable AF Show Notes: E2:E8

Sarah and Rachel discuss Coming Out Late in Life! Please reach out to Sarah and Rachel- they would love to hear from you all! The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Episode 2 Rachel & Dr. Kyle explain Lesbian dating and the tendency to move in after the first date.

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC.

Dateable AF Season 2 Episode 7

The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

Ever scroll through Instagram and suddenly feel like your relationship is the only one not taking sunrise-yoga selfies on a cliff in Bali? 🌅 Spoiler: most of those couples argued about directions on the way there.

In this episode of Dateable AF, Sarah and Rachel dive into the deceptively shiny world of social-media love lives and unpack why comparison is the fastest way to poison a perfectly good relationship.

We cover:

📱 Why social media skews reality – the algorithm loves filters, not feelings

🧠 The psychology of comparison – why we can’t stop measuring ourselves against everyone else’s highlight reels

💔 How it shows up in dating and relationships – jealousy, insecurity, and the “why didn’t you post me?” trap

🚩 Red flags of social-media poison – from doom-scrolling exes to validation posting

💖 How to detox – curating your feed, creating boundaries, and focusing on connection instead of performance

Because the truth is simple: the grass isn’t greener—it’s just filtered. 🌿✨

💭 Discussion Prompts

• Audit your feed this week. How does it make you feel about your love life?
• Talk with your partner about how to curate authenticity in what you share.
• Send us your thoughts or stories—how has social media shaped your dating life?

🎧 Next week: No RSVP Required: Coming Out Late in Life: The Party Doesn’t Start Until You Arrive

💌 Thanks for tuning in to the Dateable AF Podcast, where we help you find your happy ending. Be bold, be kind, and for the love of queer dating—don’t text your ex.

Stay Dateable AF. 💙

A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC

Dateable AF Season 2 Episode 6

The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.

Producer: Jordan Cannon

Theme Song: Cade Kyle

Cover Photo: Mackenzie Mowat

Dateable AF is a podcast about all things lesbian dating—or queer dating—or women-who-date-women dating. Whatever letter you vibe with, if you're a woman who dates women, this one's for you.

Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of dating women—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.

💌 Have you ever thought your partner didn’t love you enough—only to realize they just show it differently?

In this episode, we unpack Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages—why they’ve become relationship gospel, why they’re sometimes misunderstood, and how to translate your partner’s “I love you” even when it doesn’t sound like yours.

We cover:

• The Big Five: words, acts, gifts, time, touch
• Why love languages click for people—but also spark debate
• Common translation fails (hello, laundry-folding vs. “I love you”)
• How to decode what your partner really means
• Why love languages are tools, not rules

✨ Takeaway: It’s less about perfection, more about effort. Learn to “translate,” and your relationship fluency goes way up.

📌 Next week: Apologies That Don’t Count—why half-hearted sorrys keep couples stuck, and how to repair for real.

🎙️ The Dateable AF Podcast — because women dating women is wild, wonderful, and occasionally a disaster.

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A huge thanks to our sponsors and trailblazers at Shody Media LLC