After divorce and heartbreak, Alex and Valeria rebuilt their lives, their family, and their faith. In this episode, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with the couple to talk about how they turned conflict into connection using a simple daily practice they call The Love Thing.

They share what it takes to blend families, rebuild trust, and bring God and structure back into the home. From the “Man in the Arena” event that changed Alex’s life to Valeria’s journey of surrender and support, this is a raw look at what modern marriage and masculine leadership really require.

In this raw and powerful episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White pull back the curtain on what it really takes to stay connected when life, business, and technology are moving faster than ever.

From the unseen war zones of entrepreneurship to the shifting dynamics of marriage, they explore:

• Why men disconnect under pressure—and how to break that pattern

• The real reason business success often kills intimacy

• How AI is exposing (and replacing) 95% of coaches—and what that means for relationships

• The balance between spiritual growth, sex, and survival in a collapsing system

• And a surprisingly emotional experiment using ChatGPT as a "marriage therapist"

This conversation dives deep into the future of love, leadership, and technology—and why now more than ever, couples must learn to build the stage together rather than perform alone.

🎙️ Watch, listen, and rediscover how to fight for your marriage without losing yourself in the battle.

What happens when two high-performing entrepreneurs find not just love, but a shared mission to transform health, relationships, and purpose?

In this episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with powerhouse JJ Virgin and Tim for an unforgettable conversation about love, leadership, and legacy.

From their unconventional "Virgin Oregon Experience" wedding (yes, it doubled as a charity mastermind) to their serendipitious Match.com beginning, JJ Virgin and Tim share how deep partnership can elevate both business and intimacy. They open up about learning to trust again after past heartbreaks, merging their strengths as co-founders, and keeping passion alive amid constant travel and high performance.

The conversation dives into balancing masculine and feminine energy, healing trauma, redefining success, and building a spiritual foundation that fuels both business growth and personal connection.

Whether you're an entrepreneur, a power couple, or someone seeking deeper alignment in love and purpose, this episode will inspire you to build, heal, and rise together.

In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett White open up about navigating massive life shifts from selling their california home and businesses to rebuilding their world in Miami, while keeping thier 22-year marriage alive, passionate, and brutally honest.

The conversation takes a powerful turn as they reflect on the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk and its ripple effect on free speech, family safety, and the courage to speak truth, how resentment builds when honesty is suppressed, and the surprising ways intimacy and language ("quickie" vs "canoodling") can either deepen or distance connection.

WIth humor, candor, and their signature real-talk style, Garrett and Danielle tackle sex, parenting, therapy, triggers, and transformation proving that growth in marriage requires courage, confrontation, and recommitment to each new version of your partner.

Whether you're married, dating, or redifining your relationship, this episode will challenge you to face truth, embrace change, and fight for deeper intimacy.

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In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle welcome back powerhouse couple Ray and Jessica Higdon for a raw, unfiltered conversation about marriage, faith, and intimacy.

The first time they joined us, the conversation was so fiery it literally burned out the audio, so we knew we had to do it again. This time, the Higdons dive even deeper: from their unlikely first meeting to weathering financial collapse, marital drift, and identity crises, to finding restoration through faith and renewed purpose.

Together, we unpack:

• The seven year "itch" every marriage faces and how to grow through it.
• Why communication breakdowns can masquerade as criticism and rejection.
• How faith transformed their relationship and reignited Ray's joy.
• The unspoken dynamics of sex, stress, and intimacy in long-term partnerships.
• The crucial role of women seeing potential in their men before they see it themselves.

This episode is brutally honest, funny, and packed with wisdom for couples navigating the messy, beautiful realities of marriage, business, and family life.

What happens when love moves beyond gifts, status, and transactional expectations with unconditonal connection?

In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Garrett and Danielle White sit down with Jarek and Jessica share how they built trust, learned to communicate through conflict, and redefined love on their own terms. Together, the couples dive deep into the challenges of transactional dynamics in relationships, why presence matters more than material things, and how to break free from performance-driven love to experience true intimacy.

Packed with real stories, emotional breakthroughs, and practical wisdom, this episode is a must-listen for couples who want mroe than surface-level connection.

Tune in for conversations on marriage, love, family, blended households, relationship growth, presence, trust, vulnerability, and building a lasting partnership.

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In this powerful episode of The Date Your Wife podcast, Garrett and Danielle sit down with Travis Wallace and Sofia Perez, a dynamic couple whose story bridges sports, fitness, love, and entrepreneurship. From their early days as a college coach and tennis player who barely spoke, to building a thriving business and life together in Miami, Travis and Sofia share how discipline, sacrifice, and faith shaped both their relationships and their careers.

Travis, a former professional basketball player turned NBA trainer, opens up about the grind of building success from scratch and the mental shift required to scale beyond individual performance.

Sofia, a former Costa Rican national tennis player, reveals how rediscovering her passion after injury and refusing to be swept up in Miami's party culture, helped her align with a bigger purpose. Together, they explore the realities of building as a couple: defining roles, balancing obsession with presence, and staying rooted in connection despite the lure of comparison and ambition.

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In this candid throwback episode of The Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle and Garrett get brutally honest about marriage, sex, faith, and messy reality of raising five kids while running multiple businesses. Recorded during their early days in Miami, the conversation dives into the clashes and breakthroughs that every couple can relate to from explosive arguments over laundry baskets to the deeper truth of what it takes to feel seen, appreciated, and connected in a long-term relationship.

With humor, raw vulnerability, and zero filter, they unpack the "easy button" for men, why women hold back, and how resentment, timing, adn stress can sabotage intimacy. They also share how relocating, embracing new environments, adn setting higher standards for themselves let to a spiritual and relational rebirth.

If you've ever wondered how to rebuild love after conflict, balance individual standards with partnerships, or reignite passion in marriage, this episode will hit home.

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