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What does it truly mean to be a father, no matter the circumstances? In this inspiring episode, I sit down with Kenneth Kunken, a quadriplegic dad of triplet boys, who shares his extraordinary journey into fatherhood at the age of 54.

Kenneth's story is a testament to the power of perseverance and the boundless nature of a father's love. From overcoming a life-altering spinal cord injury to embracing the joys and challenges of raising three sons, his experiences offer invaluable insights for dads everywhere.

Redefining Fatherhood

Discover how Kenneth navigated the unique challenges of parenting with a disability, proving that being a great dad isn't about physical abilities, but about presence, patience, and unconditional love.

The Triplet Adventure

Learn about the rollercoaster ride of raising triplets, from coordinating feeding times to finding creative solutions for family outings. Kenneth's stories will both amuse and inspire you.

Building Character Through Diversity

Explore how Kenneth's unique family dynamic - including his interfaith marriage and multicultural background - has shaped his sons into open-minded, empathetic young men.

The Power of Quality Time

Uncover the importance of creating meaningful experiences with your children, even when faced with physical limitations. Kenneth shares how road trips and shared interests have strengthened his bond with his sons.

Lessons in Resilience

Gain insights on how to instill values of perseverance and adaptability in your children, drawing from Kenneth's own journey of overcoming adversity.

Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned parent, or someone facing unique challenges in fatherhood, this conversation will inspire you to embrace your role with renewed enthusiasm and creativity. Remember, being a great father isn't about conforming to societal norms - it's about showing up, listening, and loving unconditionally.

Are you ready to redefine what it means to be a dad? Listen now and discover how Kenneth Kunken's extraordinary journey can help you become the father your children need, regardless of the obstacles you face.

Connect with Kenneth Kunken:

• https://kenkunken.com
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/kenneth-j-kunken-b4b0a9a8
• https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566473121422
• https://bsky.app/profile/kenkunken.bsky.social
• https://www.instagram.com/ken.kunken

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• 00:00:00 - Ken's Favorite Dad Moment: A 7-Year-Old Hero in Action
• 00:12:17 - Triplet Life: Navigating Parenthood with Unique Challenges
• 00:24:34 - Martial Arts and Character Building: Raising Resilient Kids
• 00:36:51 - The Unexpected Benefits of Diverse Family Dynamics

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Ever wondered how to keep the flame of fatherhood burning bright when you're miles away from home? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Olaolu Ogunyemi, a U.S. Marine and father of three, to explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting from afar.

Olaolu shares his personal journey of balancing military service with family life, offering invaluable insights for dads who find themselves separated from their loved ones. We dive deep into:

The Emotional Rollercoaster of Distance Parenting

Discover why feeling replaced or disconnected is normal, and learn how to combat these emotions with intentional communication and self-awareness.

Maximizing Moments: Quality Over Quantity

Uncover strategies for making the most of your time together, whether it's in person or through a screen. Olaolu reveals how he turns everyday activities into memorable bonding experiences.

Tech-Savvy Togetherness

Learn how to harness the power of technology to maintain strong connections with your kids. From virtual story times to shared stargazing, Olaolu offers creative ideas for staying present in your children's lives, no matter where you are.

Creating Consistent Touchpoints

Find out how establishing regular rituals and shared interests can bridge the gap between you and your children, even when you're continents apart.

The Importance of Self-Care for Long-Distance Dads

Understand why taking care of your own well-being is crucial for being the best father you can be, especially when dealing with the stress of separation.

Whether you're a military dad, a frequent business traveler, or simply looking to strengthen your bond with your kids, this conversation offers practical advice and heartfelt encouragement. Remember, being a great dad isn't about physical presence alone - it's about the quality of connection you create and maintain.

Are you ready to transform your approach to long-distance parenting? Listen now and discover how to keep your family ties strong, no matter how many miles separate you.

Connect with Olaolu Ogunyemi:

https://parent-child-connect.com/free-resources

https://parent-child-connect.com

https://www.facebook.com/olaolu.ogunyemi

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https://www.linkedin.com/in/olaolu-ogunyemi-465ba453

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Time Stamps

00:00:00 - Olaolu's Hilarious Chuck E. Cheese Dad Moment

00:05:47 - The Reality of Long-Distance Fatherhood

00:12:17 - Strategies for Staying Connected While Away

00:24:34 - Using Technology to Bridge the Gap

00:36:51 - The Importance of Individual Time with Each Child

00:45:18 - Embracing Vulnerability and Transparency in Fatherhood

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Are you ready to take your parenting game to the next level? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Steve Ward, a seasoned dad and founder of a non-profit ministry, to explore the power of proactive parenting.

Steve shares his personal journey through addiction and recovery, and how it shaped his approach to raising his two sons. We dive deep into:

The Importance of Intentional Parenting

Discover why being proactive in your parenting approach can make all the difference in your child's life. Steve reveals his PACES methodology, a practical framework for navigating the challenges of raising kids in today's fast-paced world.

Understanding Your Child's World

Learn why it's crucial to stay aware of the pressures and influences shaping your child's experiences. Steve offers insights on how to bridge the generational gap and connect with your kids on their level.

The Power of Empathetic Listening

Uncover the secret to fostering open communication with your children. Steve shares practical tips on how to create a safe space for your kids to share their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment.

Balancing Work and Family Life

Get practical advice on how to create more margin in your life for meaningful interactions with your children, even if you're working long hours.

Embracing Imperfection

Find out why giving your children permission to be imperfect can lead to stronger, more authentic relationships.

Whether you're a new parent or a seasoned dad looking to strengthen your bond with your kids, this conversation offers valuable insights on how to be more intentional and effective in your parenting journey.

Remember, being a great dad isn't about being perfect - it's about being present, proactive, and willing to grow alongside your children. Are you ready to step up your parenting game? Listen now and discover how to create lasting, meaningful connections with your kids that will stand the test of time.

Steve Ward’s Links:

https://lifeimprovementsteps.com

https://www.facebook.com/lifeimprovementsteps

https://www.pinterest.com/lifeimprovementsteps

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLZmEBeBHIRw5U7TGmbGJaA

https://www.instagram.com/lifeimprovementsteps

https://www.linkedin.com/in/steve-c-ward-4a010396

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Time Stamps:

00:00:00 - Steve's Touching Story: A Son's Journey from Struggle to Triumph

00:05:47 - The Parenting Dilemma: Balancing Work and Family Life

00:12:17 - Proactive Parenting: The PACES Method Explained

00:24:34 - The Power of Empathy: Listening Without Fixing

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Ever wondered if your dad bod is really the best way to show up for your family? In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Sean McManus, a strength and nutrition coach who's on a mission to help Christian men reclaim their health and vitality.

Sean shares his journey from farm boy to fitness expert, and we dive deep into why taking care of yourself isn't selfish - it's essential for being the best dad you can be.

The Energy Equation

Discover why sitting all day is zapping your energy and learn simple strategies to boost your vitality. Sean reveals how small, consistent changes can lead to big results in your health and your ability to engage with your kids.

Leading by Example

Uncover the power of modeling healthy habits for your children. Sean shares heartwarming stories of how his own kids are already picking up on his fitness mindset.

The 80/20 Rule of Healthy Eating

Learn how to balance nutritious choices with occasional treats. Sean breaks down a practical approach to eating well without feeling deprived or overwhelmed.

Finding Your 'Why'

Explore the importance of having a strong motivation for getting healthy. Sean explains how connecting your fitness goals to your role as a father can fuel lasting change.

Quick Wins for Busy Dads

Get practical tips for squeezing in effective workouts, even with a packed schedule. Sean shares how just 15 minutes a day can make a significant difference in your health and energy levels.

Whether you're struggling to find time for fitness or you're looking to set a better example for your kids, this conversation will inspire you to prioritize your health. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't just about you - it's about showing up as the best version of yourself for your family.

Are you ready to trade in that dad bod for a healthier, more energetic you? Listen now and discover how small changes can lead to big impacts in your life and the lives of your children.

Connect with Sean:

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Time Stamps

00:00:00 - Hilarious Dad Story: The Poop Gun Incident

00:05:14 - Introduction to Sean McManus: Fitness Coach for Christian Men

00:07:37 - The Importance of Fitness for Dads

00:20:59 - Reframing Self-Care as Essential for Fatherhood

00:44:53 - Practical Tips for Healthy Eating as a Dad

00:54:00 - The Joy of Fatherhood and Final Thoughts

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In this heartfelt episode, Brent sits down with Brian Seim—a Christian coach and stepfather who shares what it means to choose fatherhood and be chosen back. From parenting a high-functioning autistic stepson to raising five kids in a blended family, Brian’s story is full of powerful insights for any man trying to lead his family with intention.

IN THIS EPISODE:

• How Brian became “Dad” the moment he got married
• The importance of presence over planning
• How roleplaying games helped connect with his kids
• Why even 20 minutes of undivided attention matters
• The danger of letting work steal our best energy
• And why every dad needs to hear “You’re enough”

CONNECT WITH BRIAN SEIM:

• https://kingdomfamilyleader.com
• https://www.facebook.com/coachbrianseim
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianseim
• https://www.youtube.com/@brianseim

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Becoming a dad for the first time is like stepping into a whirlwind of joy, terror, and a million questions. In this eye-opening episode, I dive deep into the unspoken truths about new fatherhood that every expectant dad needs to hear.

Drawing from real conversations with over 180 new dads, I uncover the six most common concerns that keep popping up in dad forums. But that's not all - I also reveal two critical insights that are rarely discussed but absolutely essential for your journey into fatherhood.

Your New Role as Protector and Advocate

Discover why you're about to become your wife's most important ally in a world where everyone has an opinion on your parenting choices. Learn how to navigate the overwhelming flood of advice and stand firm in the decisions you make as a couple.

Balancing Baby and Marriage

Uncover the secret to maintaining a strong relationship with your partner while adjusting to life with a newborn. I share personal insights on how I initially struggled with this balance and offer practical tips to help you avoid the same pitfalls.

Navigating Intimacy After Baby

Let's talk about the elephant in the room - changes in your physical relationship. Get honest advice on how to approach this sensitive topic with patience, understanding, and love.

Finding Your Place in This New Adventure

Feel like you don't know where you fit in this new family dynamic? I'll show you how your problem-solving skills are about to become your superpower in ways you never imagined.

Your Changing Social Circle

Understand why your friendships might shift and how to build a supportive community of fellow parents who truly get what you're going through.

Whether you've just found out you're going to be a dad or you're already in the trenches of early parenthood, this episode is packed with invaluable insights to help you navigate this incredible journey. Remember, no man is ever truly ready for fatherhood, but with the right knowledge and support, you can embrace this role with confidence and joy.

Are you ready to step up to the plate and become the dad your family needs? Listen now and equip yourself with the wisdom of dads who've been there before you.

Referenced Videos

Quality Over Quantity The New Math of Fatherhood

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From Chaos to Control Strategies for Maximizing Every Hour

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hlk4kI0b00

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In this powerful episode, Brent sits down with Max Shippee, a multi-talented actor and author who brings a fresh and grounded perspective to fatherhood and masculinity. They open with a dad-story gem—Max’s unforgettable tea party moment—and dive into how the stories we tell shape who we are as dads, men, and human beings.

They discuss how to build intentional narratives in our families, why masculinity isn’t the problem (but insecure imitation is), and how simple presence often outweighs any parenting strategy. The conversation also explores the subtle art of being a teen dad, creative parenting metaphors, and the importance of knowing your child’s world.

Main Topics Covered:

· 🎭 Max’s journey: from Maine to LA to authorhood

· 🫖 Hilarious tea party story that every dad will relate to

· 📚 The power of stories: what we tell ourselves and our kids

· 🧠 Villain vs. Hero: a lens for self-development and parenting

· 🧔 Redefining masculinity: toxic, divine, and misunderstood

· 🧭 Teaching integrity, discipline, and humility

· 💡 The single most important thing dads need to know: Be there

Timestamps:

· 00:00:00 – Welcome + intro to Max Shippee

· 00:08:34 – Cussing toddlers & the power of modeling

· 00:14:12 – From Maine woods to Young & the Restless

· 00:25:30 – The power of “I need to dad right now” conversations

· 00:32:05 – Parenting metaphors that actually help

· 00:43:00 – Max’s book, fiction writing & positive masculinity

· 00:55:42 – Brent’s core 3 traits of real masculinity

· 01:04:10 – Final wisdom: You don’t have to be perfect. Just be present.

Connect with Max Shippee:

· 📖 Book: Path of the Raven www.readmoonshine.com

· 🌐 Social: @ReadMoonshine | @MakingMax

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Ever wondered if taking time for yourself is selfish when you're a dad? Think again! In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Jason Lang, a father of two and men's coach, to explore why self-care isn't just important for dads - it's essential for the whole family.

Jason shares his personal journey of balancing fatherhood with self-care, and we dive deep into:

The Power of Quality Time

Discover why 15 minutes of focused attention can be more impactful than hours of distracted parenting. Learn how to create magical moments that strengthen your bond with your children.

Building a Support Network

Find out why connecting with other men isn't just about you - it's about creating a richer environment for your kids to grow up in. We explore the benefits of exposing your children to diverse male role models.

Investing in Your Health

Understand why taking care of your body isn't vanity - it's about being there for your family in the long run. Jason shares practical tips for fitting exercise into even the busiest dad schedule.

The Guilt-Free Zone

Learn how to shake off the guilt that often comes with prioritizing self-care. Discover why taking time for yourself actually makes you a better, more present father.

Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned parent, this conversation will challenge your perceptions of what it means to be a great father. You'll walk away with practical strategies to nurture yourself while nurturing your family.

Remember, being a great dad isn't about sacrificing everything - it's about showing up as the best version of yourself. Are you ready to revolutionize your approach to fatherhood? Listen now and discover how taking care of yourself is one of the most powerful ways to care for your family.

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