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Ever wondered why everyone feels compelled to share horror stories the moment you announce you're becoming a father? In this refreshing episode, I sit down with Chris Marhefka, a 40-year-old entrepreneur and father of a two-year-old daughter, who challenges the cultural narrative that fatherhood is nothing but sleepless nights and endless struggles.

Chris opens up about that pivotal 4 AM moment on his deck during his daughter's first week of life - when everything shifted from trying to control the situation to simply being present with his child. We explore his philosophy that fatherhood isn't about imposing your will, but about listening, feeling, and giving your children exactly what they need in each moment.

Choosing Fatherhood Every Day

Whether you consciously chose to become a father or it happened unexpectedly, Chris offers wisdom about embracing the role fully. Explore his insight that once your child is here, you're already a father - and you can either resist that responsibility and suffer, or choose it completely and find joy.

Remember, being a great dad isn't about having all the answers - it's about letting fatherhood change you for the better while appreciating the daily miracles happening right in front of you. Are you ready to stop listening to the horror stories and start celebrating the amazing adventure of raising another human being? Listen now and discover how one father's perspective can completely shift your approach to the greatest role you'll ever play.

Chris Marhefka Guest Links:

• https://www.chrismarhefka.com
• https://www.instagram.com/chrismarhefka
• https://www.facebook.com/cmarhefka1
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrismarhefka

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Ever wondered how the most devastating loss can become the foundation for the most meaningful life? In this profound episode, I sit down with Mick Wienholt, a father of four and podcast host who shares his extraordinary story about how losing his firstborn son changed everything - not just about fatherhood, but about faith, purpose, and what it truly means to raise children.

The Philosophy That Changes Everything

Discover why Mick believes the most important advice any father can receive comes down to just two words: "raise adults." Learn how this simple concept shifted his entire parenting perspective from managing day-to-day challenges to preparing his children for a lifetime of success and resilience.

Key takeaways:

• The mindset shift from "raise your kids or raise your grandkids"—why taking your eye off the ball creates overgrown children in adult bodies
• Why small, consistent corrections beat waiting until your teenager has a massive attitude problem
• How to balance being present without hovering—the difference between parenting and chaperoning

Remember, being a great dad isn't about having all the answers - it's about being willing to let God interrupt your plans and guide your steps. Are you ready to stop trying to raise happy children and start focusing on raising functional, happy adults who can change the world? Listen now and discover how one father's journey through unimaginable loss became the foundation for extraordinary faith and purposeful parenting.

Connect with Mick Wienholt:

https://www.whenyoulook.com

https://www.youtube.com/@WhenYouLookShow

https://www.linkedin.com/in/mwienholt

https://www.instagram.com/whenyoulookshow

https://www.facebook.com/whenyoulookshow

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Ever wondered how a simple moment of vulnerability can completely transform your relationship with your children? In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with Tracy Brinkmann, a father of four daughters, podcaster, and entrepreneur who shares his powerful story about the night everything changed between him and his dad - and how that moment shaped his entire approach to fatherhood.

Tracy opens up about walking into his house as a teenager to find his father crying after losing his grandmother, and how those raw emotions led to a breakthrough that lasted the rest of their relationship. We explore his philosophy of raising daughters who can "change their own oil but find a man who won't make them do it" and why he believes every communication with his children should end with "I love you."

Remember, being a great dad isn't about being perfect - it's about showing up, speaking love consistently, and setting standards so high that your children will know exactly what they deserve from others. Are you ready to become the Superman your kids need while teaching them to find their own strength? Listen now and discover how one father's approach to raising four daughters can inspire your own path to meaningful fatherhood.

Connect with Tracy Brinkmann

https://darkhorseschooling.com/newsletter

https://darkhorseschooling.com

https://www.facebook.com/tracy.brinkmann

https://www.youtube.com/@DarkHorseEntrepreneur

https://x.com/TracyBrinkmann

https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracybrinkmann

https://www.instagram.com/tracybrinkmann

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