EPISODE SUMMARY

Working for a difficult supervisor can drain your energy, undermine your confidence, and make even meaningful work difficult to enjoy. But trying to change that supervisor is usually the wrong place to focus your attention. In this episode, John Collins shares a practical strategy for dealing with an "impossible" supervisor while protecting your professionalism, reputation, and ability to do your job effectively. He explains why the first step is accepting the person as they actually present themselves, taking an honest look at your own performance, and giving your supervisor a genuine opportunity to provide feedback. John then offers a framework for asserting yourself when a supervisor becomes excessively critical, withholds information, plays favorites, excludes you from important decisions, or fails to hold others accountable. Although some form of confrontation may arise, the ultimate goal is to stand your ground professionally, ask better questions, and protect your confidence and effectiveness—even when the person you report to makes that difficult.

ABOUT YOUR HOST

John Morrey Collins is a leadership and expertise coach specializing in working with clients in authoritative, high-stakes occupations, but with a primary emphasis on serving leaders, professionals, and organizations that support our complicated systems of criminal and civil justice. John started his private practice, Critical Victories, in 2013 after retiring his award-winning, 20-year career as a forensic laboratory scientist and executive administrator, having served as the Director of Forensic Science for the State of Michigan. His forensic technical expertise was in the examination and testing of firearms and firearm-related evidence, having provided expert courtroom testimony in approximately 130 criminal trials, including death penalty cases and Daubert hearings. John is also the author of three books on forensic science and criminal justice reform. In 2022, he released his fourth book, "The New Superior – A Better Way to Be the One in Charge," which is available in print and audio. John's many career highlights include his part in the forensic investigation of the Atlanta serial bombings, which included the bombing of the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta, as well as his 2013 participation in a historic meeting with the US Attorney General and other firearm experts to discuss the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting. John has a master's degree in organizational management and is formally certified as a Senior HR Professional by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM). In 2012, John was trained as a professional coach by the College of Executive Coaching, and he became certified as a Gallup Strengths Coach in 2022. He lives and works near Detroit, Michigan.

For more books and other information, please visit johnmorreycollins.com. There you can subscribe to receive new episodes, updates, or information.

Working for a difficult supervisor can drain your energy, undermine your confidence, and make even meaningful work difficult to enjoy. But trying to change that supervisor is usually the wrong place to focus your attention. In this episode, John Collins shares a practical strategy for dealing with an "impossible" supervisor while protecting your professionalism, reputation, and ability to do your job effectively. He explains why the first step is accepting the person as they actually present themselves, taking an honest look at your own performance, and giving your supervisor a genuine opportunity to provide feedback. John then offers a framework for asserting yourself when a supervisor becomes excessively critical, withholds information, plays favorites, excludes you from important decisions, or fails to hold others accountable. Although some form of confrontation may arise, the ultimate goal is to stand your ground professionally, ask better questions, and protect your confidence and effectiveness—even when the person you report to makes that difficult.

EPISODE SUMMARY

Time management struggles are rarely about scheduling or discipline; they are rooted in the habits we have unconsciously trained ourselves to want. Drawing on a scientifically established principle of human behavior, this discussion examines why so many professionals feel disorganized, overwhelmed, or unable to keep pace with their responsibilities, and argues that the real work of change begins not with better systems but with reshaping what we actually want to do. Using examples of leaders who struggle to manage their reactions to employees, to the stark contrast between the visible satisfaction of physical trades and the often invisible, unrewarding nature of knowledge work, the conversation offers a practical way to identify the cues and rewards driving unproductive behavior and to deliberately design new habits that produce genuine satisfaction. The result is a more honest and sustainable approach to becoming a better manager of one's time, energy, career, and relationships.

ABOUT YOUR HOST

John Morrey Collins is a leadership and expertise coach specializing in working with clients in authoritative, high-stakes occupations, but with a primary emphasis on serving leaders, professionals, and organizations that support our complicated systems of criminal and civil justice. John started his private practice, Critical Victories, in 2013 after retiring his award-winning, 20-year career as a forensic laboratory scientist and executive administrator, having served as the Director of Forensic Science for the State of Michigan. His forensic technical expertise was in the examination and testing of firearms and firearm-related evidence, having provided expert courtroom testimony in approximately 130 criminal trials, including death penalty cases and Daubert hearings. John is also the author of three books on forensic science and criminal justice reform. In 2022, he released his fourth book, "The New Superior – A Better Way to Be the One in Charge," which is available in print and audio. John's many career highlights include his part in the forensic investigation of the Atlanta serial bombings, which included the bombing of the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta, as well as his 2013 participation in a historic meeting with the US Attorney General and other firearm experts to discuss the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting. John has a master's degree in organizational management and is formally certified as a Senior HR Professional by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM). In 2012, John was trained as a professional coach by the College of Executive Coaching, and he became certified as a Gallup Strengths Coach in 2022. He lives and works near Detroit, Michigan.

For more books and other information, please visit johnmorreycollins.com/webcast. There you can subscribe to receive new episodes, updates, or information.