What happens when love, trust and business finances become intertwined?

In this episode of Conversations with Kalekye, I sit down with Prima Ihachi, founder of Prima Elora Beauty, for an honest conversation about love, marriage, trust, money and the difficult lessons that can come when personal relationships and business finances become deeply connected.

Prima shares how she and her then-husband approached their finances as a team — discussing their individual goals, their goals as a couple, what needed to be paid and what they wanted to build together.

But one financial decision would change everything.

When they took a loan to finance a project, Prima put her salon business up as security, trusting that the loan would be repaid as agreed once the project began generating income. When that did not happen, she ultimately lost the business she had spent years building and was forced to start again.

Her experience has fundamentally changed the way she thinks about love, trust, financial responsibility and protecting what you build.

In this conversation, Prima and Kalekye explore:

- Knowing who you're building a life with

- The difference between financial partnership and financial protection

- The risks of putting your business behind a relationship

- Why love should never replace financial clarity

- What women need to understand about their own finances and businesses

- Rebuilding after losing something you've worked years to create

- The lessons Prima now wants other women to learn before making major financial decisions in love

This isn't a conversation about refusing to trust the person you love. It's about understanding that you can love deeply, build together and still be wise about your money.

Because protecting what you've built isn't a lack of trust.

Sometimes, it's wisdom.

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How much of your relationship with money is really about... MONEY?

In this episode of Conversations with Kalekye, I sit down with Rev. Lee, Founder of Fortress Assemblies, and Apostle Dennis, Overseer of Fortress Ministries, for an honest conversation about the intersection of money, relationships and healing.

Having both experienced marriages that ended, they share how their individual journeys shaped their perspectives on finances, provision, partnership and marriage—and how those lessons continue to influence the relationship they are building together today.

Together, we explore:

• How our upbringing shapes our relationship with money.
• The financial expectations we bring into relationships.
• Why emotional baggage often shows up in financial conversations.
• Building healthy relationships through trust, communication and shared priorities.

Whether you're single, dating or married, this conversation will challenge you to think differently about one of the biggest influences on our relationships.

Because sometimes the hardest conversations about money aren't really about money—they're about what we've carried into the relationship.

Has success come at the cost of love?

For many women, building a career, creating financial stability and learning to stand on their own wasn't about proving they didn't need a partner. It was about refusing to put life on hold while waiting for one.

In this episode of Conversations with Kalekye, I sit down with Nekesa Stephanie Wamalwa —a lawyer by training and Programme Lead, Next Gen at Trust Africa — for a deeply honest conversation about love, success and the emotional weight of doing life alone.

Nekesa shares her personal journey of watching money become the invisible 3rd party in her parents marriage, pursuing an education, building a meaningful career and creating the life she dreamed of, while also asking the difficult questions many successful women quietly wrestle with:

- Has my success made finding love harder?

- Do men feel intimidated by accomplished women?

- Can a woman be independent and still desire partnership?

- What does true partnership look like today?

This isn't a conversation about choosing career over love. It's about challenging the assumption that women who have built successful lives somehow no longer want to share them. If you've ever wondered whether success changes the way we experience relationships, this conversation is for you.

I'd love to hear from you in the comments: Do you think success makes dating more difficult, or does it simply reveal the right partner?

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The culture where women expect the men they date to show them exactly how they can take care of them as early as date number one has really made it hard for men to settle down early...

On this episode we get to hear from 'boy-child' on views around, provision, how early its expected and what happens when the expectations change in a marriage.

Our guest Kevin Ismael, a communication specialists, shares that the expectations in his generation begin quite early and many men find themselves choosing to focus on building wealth before the thought of settling down so that the matter of provision is no longer in question - plus the girls come willingly when you have the money.

Are men accepting of the card the times have dealt them? Watch, listen and learn on this 2nd episode of the Money & Love Relationship Series.

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In this episode of season three around 'Money and Relationships' we kick off with a very hearty conversation around the difficulties couples face when it comes to the money conversation: How much do you have, what do you plan to do with it and what are your spending and saving habits.

To break this down and give us clear perspective on how we need to engage the money conversation in our love relationships we host none other than the CEO of Centonomy who has over 17-years helping people and couple understand their relationship with money and how to develop a better one.

From when to ask about money values and habits to how to understand your own values around money, Waceke helps us breakdown the myths around money and relationships plus gives us honest feedback on how we go wrong due to our assumptions based on our up-bringing.

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After numerous conversations on Parental Trauma and Dating Relationships, it is truly good to know there is a place to find healing. You just need to be tired enough to decide to heal.

On this episode of Conversations with Kalekye, we are honoured to have a seasoned therapist, Ruth Waithira, who admits that she herself found out that being un-fathered from age two showed up as trauma in her relationships and that led her to seeking to heal and help others as a certified emotional wellness coach and author.

Ruth helps us breakdown the way Parental Trauma manifests, its disregard for boundaries and the journey to healing. Learn more from her book 'Hidden Abuse' https://ruthwaithira.com/step/thehabook

As we gear up from 2026, we would love to hear your feedback.

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Children learn more from what they see than what they're told.

In this episode of Conversations with Kalekye, Korry Bachia shares how witnessing her father's violence toward her mother shaped her view of men, love, and self-worth.

Determined not to repeat her mother's story, she built her life in full masculine energy — always showing up for everyone but herself. Korry opens up about self-abandonment, healing from parental trauma, and rediscovering purpose beyond the roles of wife and mother.

If you have an urge to crack your parental wound or just share what you've learnt about them, it's time to get in touch with us and come to the show.

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Parental Trauma is often defined by what a child perceives of how they were treated or spoken to - but it also appears in what a child grew up watching. There are two ways it could go - completely avoid it successfully OR go in trying to run away from through the same situation without recognising it.

That is the story of author, Agatha Mwende whose life flipped and turned when her single mum got married to a man who was polygamous. The trauma she observed watching her mum cry herself to sleep after having arguments over her step father's infidelity got her afraid thinking every man will cheat or end-up polygamous.

In the twist of it all she shares with our host Kalekye that how she built an idea that turned out to be the illusion of forever - her desire to have a solid relationship and family put her into a state that led her to trauma in her own relationship.

Agatha's story gives perspective that we may often be subconsciously influenced by the dysfunction we witness.

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