In this episode of The Positively Healthy Mom, Laura is here for a rare solo episode. This episode dives into navigating the social adjustment period of college, helping parents learn how to validate their freshman's feelings and lend them confidence without taking over or micromanaging.

Laura Ollinger is giving moms of freshman college students the advice and encouragement they need right now in this short 18-minute episode. For personalized coaching with your teen or young adult, don’t hesitate to reach out.

Key Conversations in This Episode

• Reminder that curated social media feeds create a false perception of how fast everyone else is fitting in
• Why stepping back and allowing your student to experience discomfort builds essential autonomy
• How micromanaging from a distance accidentally sends a message that you do not believe they are capable
• Simple ways to help your freshman challenge extreme, black-and-white thinking about their college experience
• How sharing your own unwavering belief in your child serves as a safety net during hard moments

Q. What should I do when my college freshman calls me complaining that they are lonely or struggling to make friends?

A. Validate their feelings instead of trying to fix the situation. Remind them that social media highlights are curated and fitting in takes time. Avoid doing the work for them, such as sending club lists, as taking control can signal a lack of confidence in their ability. Instead, offer gentle support to take small baby steps together and show them that you fully believe in their capability to navigate hard things.

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