In this raw and relatable episode of The Collective Perspective, Jeff and Travis get real about something most of us don’t want to admit: we’ve got a self-control problem — and it’s showing up everywhere.

Whether it’s flipping out in traffic, clapping back online, losing it with your kids, or snapping during a live gig when your gear starts acting up (yes, even the light in this episode gave us attitude), self-control is that hidden skill we know we should have… but rarely do.

This isn’t a TED Talk on mastering emotions — it’s a grounded conversation about recognizing your breaking point, owning your triggers, and laughing at yourself along the way. From production malfunctions and tech stress to everyday moments where we let impulse win, this episode unpacks how faith, emotional awareness, and humility play into keeping your cool in a world that thrives on outrage.

We’re not offering a 10-step fix. We’re handing you a mirror and saying, “Same, bro.”

If you’ve ever yelled at a paper towel dispenser, snapped during soundcheck, or sent a text you immediately regretted, you’re not alone — and this one’s for you.

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• (00:00:00) - Introduction to the Collective Perspective Podcast
• (00:00:35) - Diving into Self-Control
• (00:01:35) - Practical Examples of Self-Control
• (00:02:52) - Self-Control in Daily Life
• (00:09:30) - Self-Control in Relationships and Parenting
• (00:15:23) - Martial Arts and Self-Control
• (00:17:50) - Philosophical Insights on Self-Control
• (00:19:15) - Conclusion and Viewer Engagement

Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee.” Muhammad Ali’s iconic words remind us that true power isn’t just about force — it’s about finesse, timing, and the courage to stay calm when the world wants you loud. In this episode of The Collective Perspective, we dig deeper: What does gentleness look like when you’re under pressure? How does it shape trust, defuse conflict, and strengthen our relationships when life gets loud and messy?

We explore how gentleness isn’t weakness — it’s quiet strength in action. From daily conversations to moments of real confrontation, learn how to respond instead of react, stand firm without shouting, and use gentleness as a force for good in your family, friendships, work, and community.

This is the power of staying soft when the world goes hard — and why that might just be the bravest thing you can do.

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• (00:00:00) - Introduction: What Makes America Stronger
• (00:00:27) - Exploring Gentleness: Passive vs. Gentle
• (00:05:05) - Real-Life Examples of Gentleness
• (00:10:47) - The Dad Voice: Gentle but Firm
• (00:14:28) - Clap Back: The Opposite of Gentleness
• (00:19:33) - Practicing Gentleness in Daily Life
• (00:21:19) - Conclusion: Reflecting on Gentleness and Parenting

In this episode of The Collective Perspective, we unpack the hidden cost of holding grudges — and the life-changing freedom that forgiveness brings. Grudges poison our minds, our bodies, and our relationships, keeping us stuck in cycles of negativity and blame. Forgiveness, on the other hand, isn’t weakness — it’s one of the strongest choices you can make.

We talk about how grudges trap us in toxic thinking, how forgiveness shifts our mindset to growth, and how this process is especially powerful for those healing from trauma and PTSD.

Are you just going to sit there and dwell on what’s wrong — or take back your power, forgive, and move forward?

Join Jeff and Travis for practical ways to let go, think positive, and break free from the weight that’s holding you down.

Listen, share, and take on the challenge: Who do you need to forgive — and how will you start today?

#forgiveness #grudges #mentalhealth #positivemindset #healing #ptsdrecovery #emotionalhealth #mindsetshift #personaldevelopment #selfgrowth

• (00:00:00) - Introduction: What Makes America Stronger
• (00:00:26) - Welcome Back: Meet the Hosts
• (00:00:38) - The Toxicity of Grudges
• (00:01:30) - The Power of Forgiveness
• (00:03:30) - Ego and Grudges in Politics
• (00:06:01) - Personal Stories of Grudges
• (00:16:28) - Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation
• (00:18:01) - Practical Ways to Forgive
• (00:23:05) - Road Rage and Forgiveness
• (00:24:13) - Conclusion: Final Thoughts and Farewell