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Coffee with The Couple Cure

Coffee with The Couple Cure

著者： Jay & Lori Pyatt
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Practical Tips to help your relationship, by the time you finish your first cup–with Relationship Mentors, Jay and Lori Pyatt©Jay and Lori Pyatt 人間関係 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • What Happens When a Man Loses the Role He Built His Life On?

    What Happens When a Man Loses the Role He Built His Life On?
    2026/08/27
    "Would you even recognize the man left standing in front of you?" Most wives read his withdrawal after a lost job, a lost role, or a lost dream as rejection. It's usually something else entirely. This episode breaks down what's actually happening and what's yours to do about it. NOT TO DESTROY HIS PAST — the Odyssey line that reframes what "letting go" is supposed to look like TWO DIFFERENT RESPONSES — why grief and resentment need two completely different reactions from you MORE THAN THE ROLE HE LOST — the one thing you can actually offer him that isn't fixing him If you've ever wondered why he shut down instead of talking to you after something big changed, this one's for you. Part of The Couple Cure's Storm series. Full companion episode on Storm Ready Men. Timestamps: 0:00 "Would you even recognize the man left standing in front of you?" 1:06 My own 2006 story 3:47 ⭐ THE OFFERING: what the Odyssey says about identity 4:25 "You can't hand him a new identity" 5:24 The healthy shift: from the star to the coach 6:57 Grief vs. resentment, and why the difference matters 9:03 Two men in my own family 10:59 "More than the role that he lost" --- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/28EfZh4vJ4yQbbwg6i57W02 -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for. #TheCoupleCure #MarriageHelp #MaleAnger #BetrayalRecovery #MarriageRestoration #RelationshipAdvice #ChristianMarriage #HealingTogether "Southern Gothic" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ ISRC: USUAN2300004
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    13 分
  • What His Anger Is Actually Covering Up

    What His Anger Is Actually Covering Up
    2026/08/13
    His anger isn't the whole story. Underneath it is fear, shame, and expectations he's never said out loud. This video breaks down what's actually happening when he explodes, the difference between an angry man and an unsafe one, and what changes when he starts doing the work. If this describes your husband, share it with him. It's for him. Part of The Couple Cure's Storm series. Full companion episode on Storm Ready Men. Timestamps: 0:00 Why his anger isn't what it looks like 0:28 Anger is a cover emotion 1:33 What I learned the hard way 3:15 The rule book he never gave you 4:01 Why it lands on you at home 5:01 Anger vs. abuse: know the difference 6:14 When it's not a storm, it's a safety issue 6:41 If you need help right now (988 or 800 799 SAFE) 6:57 What it takes for him to find calm 7:42 What changes when he does the work 9:16 What recovery actually feels like 10:12 The other side of this storm 11:23 You were never the problem 11:45 Next: The Storm of Identity --- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/28EfZh4vJ4yQbbwg6i57W02 -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for. #TheCoupleCure #MarriageHelp #MaleAnger #BetrayalRecovery #MarriageRestoration #RelationshipAdvice #ChristianMarriage #HealingTogether "Southern Gothic" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ ISRC: USUAN2300004
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    12 分
  • You Became His Only Safe Person. That’s the Problem.

    You Became His Only Safe Person. That’s the Problem.
    2026/07/30
    If you feel like you're the only person your husband really opens up to, this video is about why that quietly became your burden, and how to hand it back without losing him. Most men are never taught to be known by anyone, so the one place they learn to be real is with a romantic partner, often the only place. If that's you, you already know the weight of being someone's entire emotional world: the sense that you can't even leave the room without it costing something, that your normal needs for space, rest, or your own friendships somehow register to him as abandonment. In this video I talk honestly about what this looked like in my own marriage, and what it cost Lori. During my last relapse I put everything on her, expected her to make me feel safe, to make my fears disappear, to be the only one holding me up. That wasn't her job. And it isn't yours. I get into why his loneliness keeps becoming your responsibility, why being more available actually makes it worse instead of better, and why it is not your job to be the only person your husband can be real with. You can be one of his people. You were never meant to be all of them. If there has been real harm or abuse in your marriage, please hear this clearly: your safety, and your children's safety, matter more than the marriage. Stepping out from under that weight isn't cruelty. It's health, and you deserve your own support for everything you've carried. And I talk about what changes when he finally builds a circle of other men who know him: you get to be his wife again instead of his lifeline. You get your own life back. Next time: the storm of anger, where it comes from, and how to face it in a healthy way. If he's ready to build that circle, send him to StormReadyMen.com. Explore the C.U.R.E. Method at TheCoupleCure.com. Timestamps 0:00 The weight you've been carrying 0:36 Why you became his only safe person 1:14 What this cost Lori 2:30 That was never your job 3:04 Leaned on until you can't move 3:41 One person was never meant to be enough 4:12 When you're the one who needs care 5:03 Why being more available makes it worse 6:07 It's not your job to be his everything 6:32 If there's been harm: your safety comes first 7:00 What you get back when he builds a circle 8:11 You get to be his wife, not his lifeline 8:47 This week: notice, don't manage 9:00 Next: the storm of anger Hashtags #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #codependency #rebuildingtrust #christianmarriage --- Next Steps & Resources: • Explore the C.U.R.E. Method: https://thecouplecure.com • Join Storm Ready Men: https://stormreadymen.com • The Basics of Rebuilding Trust: https://jayandloripyatt.gumroad.com/l/LzMJm • New to the Channel? Start with our 5 seasons of foundational content here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLitabWxO9iDI1-ByymvBpwaiTB0sozSjL We want to hear from you—how can we best support you in this new season? Let us know in the comments. To Say Thanks ("Tip Jar") - https://buy.stripe.com/28EfZh4vJ4yQbbwg6i57W02 -- Who is This Channel For? If your marriage has been impacted by addiction — whether you're the one struggling or the one carrying the pain — this channel is for you. Our marriage was nearly destroyed by Jay's compulsive pornography use. We found a way through it. Now, as Trauma-Trained Certified Mentors, we help couples find the peace, trust, and connection they're looking for. #betrayaltrauma #marriagerecovery #rebuildingtrust #christianmarriage #mensmentalhealth "Southern Gothic" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 4.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ ISRC: USUAN2300004
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    9 分
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