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Adam was the first man God created… and the first man to fail.

In this episode of the Flawed Men, Faithful God series on Coffee and the Cross, we start at the very beginning of the Bible and look at the story of Adam in Genesis. Adam had everything a man could want—purpose, responsibility, relationship with God, and a family to lead. But when fear and failure entered the picture, Adam did what many men still do today… he hid.

We’ll walk through the story of Adam and explore the pattern that many men fall into: failure, fear, and hiding. But the story doesn’t end there. Genesis also shows us something powerful about the character of God—He pursues men even when they run.

If you’ve ever felt like you’ve failed as a husband, father, leader, or follower of Christ, Adam’s story is a reminder that God’s grace is bigger than your mistakes. We’ll talk about the leadership lessons from Adam’s life, what his story teaches us about responsibility and blame, and how the gospel points to Jesus as the second Adam who restores what the first man lost.

This episode is a conversation about real life, real failure, and the faithful God who keeps calling men forward.

Pull up a chair. Grab a cup of coffee.
Let’s talk about the man who hid—and the God who came looking for him.

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Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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If you’ve ever wondered whether God can really use a man like you… this series is for you.

In this introduction to the Flawed Men. Faithful God. series, we take a fresh look at the men of Genesis—Adam, Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Judah, and Joseph—not as perfect heroes, but as ordinary men who struggled, failed, feared, and still became leaders God used for His purposes.

Because if the Bible teaches us anything, it’s this: God doesn’t call the qualified—He qualifies the called.

In this series on Coffee and the Cross, we’ll walk through the real stories of these men and see how God shaped them through failure, fear, waiting, and grace. Each episode will explore the man, the mistake, the fear behind it, the turning point where God stepped in, the leadership lesson for today, and how every story ultimately points to Jesus.

This isn’t about becoming a perfect man.
It’s about understanding how a faithful God builds strong, godly men out of imperfect ones.

If you’re a husband trying to lead well, a father wondering if you’re doing enough, or a man who loves Jesus but sometimes feels stuck, this series will remind you that God is still writing your story.

Pull up a chair. Grab a cup of coffee.
Let’s walk through Genesis and discover how God forms leaders.

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Steve & Becky have been together since High School and were married a few years after graduation. They have four amazing kids and 4 equally amazing grand-kids.

Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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Coffee and the Cross is a podcast for everyday Christian men who are trying to live out their faith in the real world—marriage, work, money, leadership, and the quiet pressures no one talks about.

This isn’t a show for pastors, theologians, or men who have it all figured out. It’s a down-to-earth, Jesus-centered conversation for blue-collar, salt-of-the-earth men who love God but still wrestle with fear, exhaustion, responsibility, and doubt.

Each episode feels like sitting down over coffee and talking honestly about:

• faith when you’re tired but still showing up
• money anxiety and the pressure to provide
• marriage in the middle miles
• leadership without control
• prayer when you don’t feel spiritual
• trusting Jesus in everyday life

If you’re looking for real talk, biblical truth without hype, and faith that actually works Monday through Saturday, you’re in the right place.

Coffee and the Cross exists to help men bring the gospel into real life—without shame, without pretending, and without shallow answers.

Pull up a chair. Grab a cup of coffee. Let’s walk this out together.

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Steve & Becky have been together since High School and were married a few years after graduation. They have four amazing kids and 4 equally amazing grand-kids.

Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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In this episode, we dive into Authentic Manhood Book 3, Chapter 5: Control—where fear and insecurity push men into some of the most common traps we face: the Fear Trap, the Workaholism Trap, the Anger Trap, and the Power Trap.

You’ll learn how each trap forms, why they feel so natural to men, and what Scripture and the Authentic Manhood framework teach us about replacing control with trust, rest, humility, and servant-leadership. This is a straight-talk conversation that helps you understand what’s really going on under the surface—and how to break free from the need to manage, dominate, perform, or explode.

If you’ve ever felt the pressure to hold everything together, this episode will give you the hope and tools to lay down control and walk in the strength God intended.

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Steve & Becky have been together since High School and were married a few years after graduation. They have four amazing kids and 4 equally amazing grand-kids.

Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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In this episode, we walk through Chapter 3 of Authentic Manhood Book 3: A Man and His Traps—a powerful look at how men can build a real, biblical Battle Plan to destroy the idols that keep pulling them off course. We break down the Noble Pathways, expose the lies behind common manhood traps, and explore how Jesus Himself modeled the way to fight temptation with truth, identity, and obedience.

You’ll hear practical examples of how men replace idols with God’s truth, how to recognize your Noble Pathway, and how to move from behavior-modification to heart-transformation. If you’re tired of fighting the same battles over and over, this episode gives you a clear, actionable plan to walk in freedom and live as the man God designed you to be.

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Steve & Becky have been together since High School and were married a few years after graduation. They have four amazing kids and 4 equally amazing grand-kids.

Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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In the final episode of the Praying for Your Wife series, Steve wraps it all up with laughter, real talk, and powerful prayer for your marriage and the road ahead.
Learn how to pray for your future together, protect your covenant, and build a lasting legacy of faith—even when life gets messy.

Key Scriptures:
Hebrews 10:23 · Jeremiah 29:11 · Proverbs 5:18 · Psalm 78:6-7 · Proverbs 17:22 · 1 Corinthians 16:14

What You’ll Learn:

• How to pray for your marriage’s future and purpose
• The difference between covenant and contract love
• How laughter, prayer, and humility keep unity alive
• Why your marriage is the gospel your kids read first
• How to stand back up when you fall

Quotable Lines:

Prayer Focus:

Takeaway & Challenge:
Keep the rhythm of daily prayer alive.
When you fall, pray together before you get up—because every comeback starts on your knees.

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Steve & Becky have been together since High School and were married a few years after graduation. They have four amazing kids and 4 equally amazing grand-kids.

Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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In Day 5 of the Praying for Your Wife journey, Steve unpacks what real protection looks like—covering your wife physically, emotionally, and spiritually through prayer. Learn how to create safety in your marriage, fight spiritual battles with Scripture, and bring peace to her heart when storms hit.

Key Scriptures: Psalm 121:8 · Psalm 91:11 · Ephesians 5:25 · Isaiah 54:17 · Philippians 4:7

What You’ll Learn:

• Why true protection begins on your knees, not in your fists
• How to cover her body, heart, and mind through prayer
• What Jesus taught about protecting dignity and peace
• How your words can wound or shield her
• Practical prayers for spiritual warfare and emotional safety

Prayer Focus:
“Lord, place Your hedge of protection around my wife—guard her physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Let her feel safe, secure, and anchored in You.”

Takeaway:
➡ Protection is covering, not control. When your wife feels safe under your prayer, she can rest and grow in peace.

In Day 6 of the Praying for Your Wife journey, Steve unpacks what true partnership and unity look like in marriage. Learn how to pray through conflict, strengthen connection, and build a “same-team” mindset that turns disagreement into growth. Real stories, Scripture, and practical prayer steps show you how to fight for each other instead of against each other.

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Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

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Our wives carry more in their hearts than most of us ever realize. Between family responsibilities, emotional weight, and spiritual battles, their hearts can grow tired and unprotected. In this episode, Steve unpacks what it means to cover her heart and spirit in prayer—asking God to bring peace, healing, and joy where stress or pain have taken root.

🔑 Key Scriptures

• Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.”
• 1 Peter 3:4 – “…the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.”
• Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
• Isaiah 40:31 – “Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength…”

💥 What You’ll Learn

• Why your wife’s heart needs covering more than correcting
• How to pray for her emotional peace and spiritual renewal
• Practical ways to respond with compassion instead of frustration
• How to fight the invisible battles she faces through prayer
• The power of presence: why listening often heals more than talking

💬 Quotable Lines

🙏 Prayer Focus

💡 Takeaway

➡ When a man learns to pray for his wife’s heart, he becomes the safest place in her world.

Challenge:
Pray this simple prayer today:

Ask her, “How can I pray for you today?”—and listen.

📣 Call to Action

👉 Subscribe to Coffee and the Cross: Love, Life & Money to continue the 7-day prayer journey.
👉 Share this episode with another husband or your men’s group.

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Steve & Becky have been together since High School and were married a few years after graduation. They have four amazing kids and 4 equally amazing grand-kids.

Steve's prayer is to encourage men in their everyday lives, give them hope and direction to be Godly men, better husbands and better fathers.

In high school, my mom used to listen to a 10 minute devotional before the bus came. If we heard Robert Cook saying, "Walk with the king today and be a blessing." we knew we were running late.

Looking to purchase the books? Here is the link to my store where you don't pay any more, but I get a small commission to keep the channel running.