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  • I Went to Bali for Peace...Came Home to Chaos
    2026/10/18
    I went to Bali to find my peace, prayed for God to remove everything that wasn't meant for me, and came home to a LAYOFF! 😭 Be careful what you pray for, because apparently God does same-day processing!

    This week on **CockTales with Kiki**, I'm catching y'all up on my Bali girls' trip, the luxury villas, wild group challenges, spiritual revelations, and why I'm seriously considering relocating my entire nervous system overseas.

    But the real plot twist? After 12 years at my radio job, I got called into the office just to be laid off! We're talking unexpected life changes, career transitions, knowing your worth, and whether Venus retrograde has everybody's life in shambles. Is this a setback or the blessing I've been asking for?

    And because this is CockTales, we can't get too inspirational without getting into some MESS! 😂

    In this week's **Sip & Spill**, one listener shares a disastrous date with a lawyer who couldn't afford the drinks but somehow still managed to talk a big game in the bedroom. Another listener is caught in some strange best friend and marriage drama that leaves me with more questions than answers. Plus, we've got a spicy international hookup story from South Korea!
    We're talking dating disasters, broke men, friendship drama, travel adventures, spiritual resets, starting over, and learning when it's time to let things go.

    Have you ever asked God or the universe to remove something from your life, only to regret how quickly it happened? And what's the craziest dating experience you've ever had?



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    1 時間 10 分
  • Your Friends Don't Even Like You! | Fake Friends, Dating Drama & Relationship Advice
    2026/10/09
    Some of y'all have fake friends, some of y'all talk too damn much, and some of y'all are planning weddings with men who don't even like you. We have a LOT to discuss!

    Kiki is back for a hilariously unfiltered solo episode of CockTales with Kiki, and this week, she's got questions. Why do people pretend to like someone just to keep a business connection? Is your friend copying your style because she admires you, or is she trying to steal your whole life? And why does your best friend know every intimate detail about your relationship?

    Before getting into the advice emails, Kiki takes a few hilarious detours through chaotic reality TV, The Wild and Wonderful Whites of West Virginia, Game of Thrones family dynasties, overrated baby showers, matcha obsession, and why everybody's boyfriend doesn't need to come to girls' night.

    Then things get messy in Ask Kiki, where we're tackling:
    • Fake friends who secretly dislike each other
    • A copycat bestie who's taking imitation a little too far
    • Whether to tell your friend you hate the man she's planning to marry
    • How much relationship business is TOO much to share with your friends
    It's friendship drama, dating advice, questionable behavior, and a whole lot of minding everybody else's business. Because Kiki might not always take her own advice, but she's got plenty for everybody else!

    Every sip has a story. Grab your cocktail and get into it!

    Have some messy business you need to get off your chest? Send in your anonymous confessions for Sip & Spill, or email your advice questions to advice@cocktalespod.com.Subscribe, leave a review, and tell us: Would you want to know if one of your friends secretly didn't like you?


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    Chapters:
    00:00 Welcome & The Basic Bitch Cocktail
    01:07 Reality TV & Wild Family Drama
    09:08 Kiki Has Questions!
    15:02 Who's the Favorite Child?
    17:27 Game of Thrones & Family Dynasties
    21:32 Are Y'all Actually Dating?
    25:47 Fake Friends & Social Climbers
    28:44 Why Is Your Man Always Here?
    33:17 Tyler Perry & Housewives Thoughts
    38:21 Ask Kiki: Fake Friendships
    39:57 Ask Kiki: My Friend Keeps Copying Me
    43:38 Ask Kiki: I Hate My Bestie's Boyfriend
    54:55 Ask Kiki: My Bestie Knows Too Much


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  • The American Dream Ain’t a Picket Fence with Ms. Pat
    2026/10/04
    Comedian, actress, author, and professional truth-teller Ms. Pat joins Kiki for a conversation that goes exactly where you’d expect it to… and then completely off the rails.Ms. Pat is celebrating her new book, Miss American Dream, and opens up about how her idea of “making it” has changed over the years. From once believing success looked like a house with a white picket fence to realizing that family, happiness, and breaking generational cycles are the real dream, she reflects on everything it took to build the life she has now.The two get into believing in yourself when nobody else does, separating friendship from business, learning to set boundaries as your success grows, knowing when it’s time to let people go, and why everyone around you can’t automatically come along for the ride.Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without things getting a little chaotic. Kiki finds out very quickly that she would’ve made a TERRIBLE drug dealer, Ms. Pat explains why Kiki has absolutely no street in her, and a Sip & Spill about a one-sided friendship turns into some brutally honest advice about jealousy, fake friends, and trusting what you already know.Plus, Ms. Pat talks about her marriage, raising a house full of kids, turning painful life experiences into comedy, her upcoming projects, and why after everything she’s survived and accomplished, happiness is still the ultimate American dream.Grab a drink because Ms. Pat came to tell the truth, hurt a few imaginary feelings, and leave absolutely no room for excuses.


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    58 分
  • I Need Your Advice
    2026/09/25
    Grab a drink and let's hear a few dilemmas. Have you ever just needed to come to a friend a say girl, I need your advice?

    Well, sometimes we all need a little advice. This week I'm going through all the advice you guys have been needing and giving you the best advice you'll get. No sugar coating, just the truth you've been avoiding.

    Pour something bubbly and let us know in the comments: what topic should we tackle next?
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    00:00 A Birthday Reflection
    00:47 The Reality of Getting Older
    02:46 Behind the Scenes at the Awards
    05:59 Curious Questions That Need Answers
    10:26 Lessons Learned and Future Goals
    17:12 Advice for Your Relationship Woes
    42:18 Throwback Stories and Final Thoughts


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    47 分
  • Interview With A Vampire with Nya The Vampire
    2026/09/19
    This week, Kiki sits down with Nya the Vampire, the woman behind Atlanta’s all-Black burlesque revue, YAMMS, for a conversation all about confidence, sensuality, and taking up space unapologetically.Nya breaks down what burlesque really is, what people can expect at a show, and how the art form can help women reconnect with their bodies, femininity, and confidence. They also get into seduction, self-expression, feeling sexy without performing for anybody else, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission to be bold.Whether you’re already comfortable being the center of attention or still figuring out how to own the room, this one is your reminder that confidence is a practice — and sometimes you just need a little glitter, a little nerve, and a whole lot of audacity.Every sip has a story. 🍸Follow Nya!@nyathevampire @nyathegod @yammsburlesque Get Your tix to Yamms Fest at www.yammsfest.comSponsors:INDACLOUDIf you’re 21 or older, get 30% OFF your first order @IndaCloud with code COCKTALES at https://inda.shop/COCKTALES ! #indacloudpod SOAKING WETMake every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% offContact us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comYou can also leave a voicemail instead of an email for advice and cocktales!! 404-692-0039Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoWe are sitting down for a wild CockTales with Kiki interview with Nya the Vampire to get the truth about the vampire lifestyle.In this episode, we step away from our usual relationship dilemmas for one of our favorite unique interviews. Nya joins us to break down what it really means to live as a vampire, separating the Hollywood myths from the reality of her day-to-day existence.Whether you are curious about alternative dating or just want to hear a perspective you definitely haven't encountered on the podcast before, this conversation covers it all. It is a fresh, weird, and honest look at identity that will keep you listening until the very last drop.Pour something bubbly and let us know in the comments: what is the weirdest subculture you have ever dated? Subscribe for more weekly conversations.0:00 Setting the Vibe with a Signature Drink1:49 Meet the Guest: Nia the Vampire2:34 From Village Kid to Burlesque Pioneer5:04 The Reality of Teaching Burlesque Intensives8:14 Public Performance vs. Private Seduction9:17 Curious Questions and Relationship Dilemmas17:42 The Dark Persona Behind the Name36:43 Spicing Up Your Relationship DynamicsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
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    1 時間 26 分
  • Love, Friendship & Other Bad Decisions ft. Mandii B
    2026/09/13
    It’s Kiki’s birthday episode, and Mandii B is back on the couch — which means there was never a chance this conversation was going to stay on one topic.Kiki and Mandii catch up on friendship, getting older, cutting people off, dating across age groups, and what it means when the relationships you’ve had for years no longer fit the person you’re becoming. Mandii also gets candid about being solo poly, why marriage and kids aren’t part of her end goal, navigating jealousy in non-monogamous relationships, and why knowing exactly what you want makes dating a whole lot easier.Of course, things get messy along the way. They get into who can and cannot say the N-word, why some people are obsessed with leaving a “legacy” through children, the pressure women put on romantic relationships, AI helping the girlies text men, rich auntie expectations, and whether people actually like the people they’re dating.Then Ask Kiki brings the perfect dilemma for Mandii: a listener is considering opening her relationship… except her boyfriend already has a coworker picked out. Is that ethical non-monogamy or just cheating with extra paperwork?And because Mandii is Mandii, she closes things out with a CockTale from Jamaica involving a nude pool, a very forward woman, a sea urchin, and a trip to the nurse’s station that somehow only gets wilder from there.Pour something bubbly and get into it — because this one is equal parts friendship, sex, relationships, hot takes, and pure chaos.Every sip has a story.Follow me! @kikisaidso & @cocktalespodcastContact Me!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comAdvertising: cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com Sip & Spill where I sip and you spill: 404-692-0039Sponsors/Special Offers:DRIVE BOOSTVisit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off or click the link in the episode description.BROOKLYN BEDDINGGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewideduring the LABOR DAY SALE. Exclusive with my code!Interested in Podcasting? Join the Cohort to learn from me! Fill Out The Interest Formhttps://forms.gle/TrzDVEUHtaHv6fW89Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form
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    1 時間 55 分
  • Don't Make Me Match Your Energy
    2026/09/04
    What happens when somebody switches up on you — do you protect your peace, address it, or give them exactly the same energy back?

    This week on CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into the difference between setting a boundary and just being petty, why changed energy can tell you everything you need to know, and whether “matching energy” is actually empowering… or just letting somebody else dictate how you move.

    Then Sip & Spill takes a turn when a caller shares a situation involving an ex resurfacing and a baby, raising some very real questions about old relationships, unexpected circumstances, and what happens when the past comes knocking with a whole new set of complications.

    Plus: flaky friends, knowing who really shows up for you, and why sometimes the best response to weird energy is not matching it at all.Every sip has a story — and this one comes with boundaries.

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    Chapters
    00:00 The Energy Match Cocktail Recipe
    01:22 Adventures at the Brown Butter Supper Club
    05:25 The Dishwasher Disaster Update
    09:59 Building Your Creative Collective
    12:26 Is Your Relationship Actually Boring?
    16:58 Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip Review
    35:27 Vaginal Health and Soaking Wet
    38:08 Sip and Spill: Listener Advice Session

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    1 時間 12 分
  • The RSVP | Who Shows Up,Who Flakes, And What It Really Means
    2026/08/28
    In this solo episode of CockTales with Kiki, Kiki gets into what it really means to show up — for your friends, your relationships, and yourself. After a Sip & Spill caller admits she’s nervous about planning a party only to have people cancel, the conversation opens up into flakiness, dating etiquette, last-minute cancellations, and the difference between protecting your peace and simply being inconsiderate.

    Kiki also answers an Ask Kiki letter from a listener who feels like she’s wasting her twenties waiting for the next chapter of her life to finally begin, plus another very different dilemma involving a boyfriend, old sex videos, and one extremely questionable camera roll.

    From RSVP anxiety to mixed signals and learning how to enjoy your life before everything is perfectly figured out, this episode is about who shows up, who flakes, and what it really means.

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    55 分