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  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP079: Overcoming The Messy Middle

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP079: Overcoming The Messy Middle
    2025/08/18

    You would think starting something new is exciting... and it is. But nobody talked enough about the messy middle. The messy middle where your vision collides with reality. Or your simple product suddenly reveals a thousand hidden layers, each one demanding more from you than you plan to give. I know because I'm in it right now. I set out to create a website- something to reflect my work, my purpose, my voice. But somewhere along the way, I had to strip it all back to the foundation and rebuild it from scratch. It's been frustrating, time-consuming, and at times tempting to quit. But here's the truth: the obstacles aren't there to stop you. They are there to shape into the kind of person who you can carry your dream all the way. So today, I'm going to walk you through a real list of setbacks my face was starting something new and why they don't have to stop you. And let me tell you, it hasn't been easy but it sure is worth it. I want to take you into that process, sets back by setback, so you see exactly wha

    Here are the stages of the messy middle. I explained them in greater detail in the podcast episode:

    • In between
    • Waiting in uncertainty
    • Growth and transformation
    • Embrace the pause

    I go into detail these points in the podcast episode itself so give it a listen.

    from there I go into a long list of setbacks you will encounter. Here's a partial list, again listen to the full episode for the entire list. You don't want to miss this one:

    1. Underestimating the workload
    2. Unexpected technical hurdles
    3. Overwhelm from too many choices
    4. Losing momentum
    5. Budget overruns
    6. Creative blocks
    7. Negative feedback
    8. Perfection paralysis
    9. Skill gaps
    10. Time crunches

    ...and a whole lot more, many more.

    So, every point that's covered today will be part of your story.

    Some will challenge you. Others will champion you.

    But all of them- when understood- can and will shake you.

    Your dream isn't just possible. It's waiting on the version of you who is ready to get started.

    Until next time- keep tearing, keep developing, and most of all keep dreaming.

    This episode was sponsored by book Closing the 18-inch gap and is available in this link.

    I want to help you make your dreams come true and see you reach your goals and desires. if you want to take your my offer than reach out to me via email at edwin@edwinsoler.com to schedule our Next Level Dream Chat. I can't wait to help you get started with your dreams.

    My Book: Closing the 18-Inch Gap
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    34 分
  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP078: When?

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP078: When?
    2025/08/11
    When did you stop believing in who you could become?​ When did you realize that you are the person buried beneath the roles, the fears, and the expectations? When will you realize that it is YOU who holds the keys to the dreams you’ve locked away while the world kept spinning? "When?" The answer is closer than you think. How close? It’s within 18 inches. The 18 inches that lie between your mind and your heart. I’m Edwin Soler, more than a life coach. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. Together, we’re not just asking When?—we’re uncovering the truth of who you are meant to be. We’ll peel back the layers, confront the lies, and revive the dreams you thought were lost forever or just keep pushing back again and again. Because the moment you dare to ask When?—you begin to remember, you start to believe again and you start taking the first step to make those dreams a reality. So lean in. Open your heart and mind and let’s discover… When? The last episode in the one word title series… at least for now. So, let’s dive in… Quote of the week: “When life is hard, remember it’s often in these moments that strength grows the deepest”- Unknown Points covered: When did you first feel your dream begin to fade — and why didn’t you fight for it?When will you finally decide that waiting has cost you enough?When did fear become more familiar than hope?When did you stop believing that your dream was worth the risk?When did someone else’s timeline become more important than your own?When will “someday” stop being an excuse?When will the pain of not trying outweigh the fear of failing?When did you start confusing being busy with being fulfilled?When did you become okay with survival instead of pursuit?When will you stop rehearsing and start becoming?When did your dream become a memory instead of a mission?When did your calendar stop including you?When will you stop convincing yourself that it’s too late?When did you start labeling your dream as selfish instead of sacred?When was the last time you said yes to what really mattered to you? Listen to the full episode for the other ten points brought to you today… "You’ve just asked yourself the hardest questions you’ve probably avoided for a long time.​ When did your dream begin? When did you start blaming others for letting it slip away? When did you start believing the lies that said you weren’t enough? You’ve faced the voices of doubt, the weight of fear, and the comfort of waiting for perfect conditions. But now, the waiting is over. ​The critics don’t get the last word, you do!​The doubts don’t get to decide your future, you do! ​So, ask yourself, when? Not tomorrow, not someday — but right now:​ So stop asking when and start acting now! Because the truth is this: your dream has been calling you all along.​ And today… you finally have the chance to answer it". Action step: Did something resonate with you today? Let’s explore how we can work together. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply reply to this email and let me know how we can connect. ​Thanks for reading this. Until next week with another amazing podcast episode as I have a few more already lined up and I'm preparing them just for you! ​Inspiring you to live your dreams. This podcast is based on my book: Closing the 18-Inch Gap
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  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP077: Who?

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP077: Who?
    2025/08/05
    Who have you become—and who have you left behind? Who is the person buried beneath the roles, the fears, and the expectations? Who holds the key to the dreams you’ve locked away while the world kept spinning? The answer is closer than you think. How close? It’s within 18 inches. The 18 inches that lie between your mind and your heart. I’m Edwin Soler, more than a life coach. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. Together, we’re not just asking Who?—we’re uncovering the truth of who you were meant to be. We’ll peel back the layers, confront the lies, and revive the dreams you thought were lost forever or keep pushing back again and again. Because the moment you dare to ask Who?—you begin to remember, you start to believe again and you start taking the first steps to make those dreams a reality. So lean in. Open your heart and mind and let’s discover… Who? Quote of the week: "Be yourself; everyone else is already taken," to which he also famously said: "Most people are other people.” - Oscar Wilde Points covered: 1. Who told you that you weren’t enough to live your dream — and why did you believe them? 2. Who were you before the world told you to play small? 3. Who benefits from you not chasing your dream? 4. Who did you stop becoming in order to make others comfortable? 5. Who do you pretend to be when the dreamer inside you is screaming to be seen? 6. Who are you trying to impress — and who are you actually becoming? 7. Who abandoned you in the moment you needed support to keep dreaming? 8. Who do you blame when it’s really your own permission you’re waiting on? 9. Who convinced you that practicality mattered more than purpose? 10. Who told you that dreams are childish — and when did you agree? 11. Who hurt you so deeply that you buried your gift just to feel safe? 12. Who are you allowing to decide what you’re capable of? 13. Who is waiting for you to rise so they can follow? 14. Who would you be today if you had chased that dream without hesitation? 15. Who do you see living your dream — and what does that trigger inside you? Plus 10 more all in this episode... listen for the full list. "You’ve just asked yourself the hardest questions you’ve probably avoided for years. Who did your dream begin with? Who do you blame for letting it slip away? Whose lies have you believed that said you weren’t enough? You’ve faced the voices of doubt, the weight of fear, and the comfort of waiting for perfect conditions. But now, the waiting is over. The critics don’t get the last word, you do! The doubts don’t get to decide your future, you do! So, ask yourself, not tomorrow, not someday — but right now: Who must I become to reclaim what was lost? Who can help me take the first step Because the truth is this: your dream has been calling you all along. And today… you finally have the chance to answer it" What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. This podcast is based on my book: Closing the 18-Inch Gap Book
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  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP076: How?

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP076: How?
    2025/07/29

    This is the question that echoes in the quiet moments when your heart aches for something more.... How?

    It’s the whisper that asks why your dreams have stayed locked away, waiting, while life moved on.

    How did you get here—staring at the gap between who you are and who you know you could be?

    How wide is that gap? 18-inches wide.

    It’s those 18 inches that you need to travel to break free from the lies, the fears, and the beliefs that have kept your dreams buried.
    How do you take what feels impossible... and make it real?

    I’m Edwin Soler, your Dream Realization Partner.
    Together, we’re not just asking How?—we’re uncovering the answers.
    We’re digging deep, unlocking what’s been hidden, and breathing life back into the dreams you thought were gone forever.

    Because the moment you dare to ask How?—you’ve already started the journey.

    So lean in. Open your heart. And let’s discover… How.

    Quote of the week: "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." - Oscar Wilde

    Some of the points covered:

    How did your dream begin — and how did it start slipping away?

    How do you keep showing up for everything else, but not for your dream?

    How many times have you silenced the voice that tells you to try again?

    How did fear convince you that you're not good enough?

    How did they — the critics, the doubters, the “realists” — gain more power than your own hope?

    How long will you keep waiting for perfect conditions before you just begin?

    How did someone else's opinion become more valuable than your own desire?

    More points covered in this episode.... listen to get all of them.

    I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you.

    If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable.

    Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up.

    "You’ve just asked yourself the hardest questions you’ve probably avoided for years.
    Your dream is still alive — but it’s waiting for you to choose it.

    So, ask yourself, not tomorrow, not someday — but right now:
    How do I reclaim what was lost? How do I take the first step? How do I breathe life back into what you thought was gone?

    Because the truth is this: your dream has been calling you all along.
    And today… you finally have the chance to answer."

    What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. I can’t wait to be here with you next week but until then keep closing that 18- inch gap!

    My book: Closing The 18-Inch Gap
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    32 分
  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP075: Autopsy of a Dead Dream

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP075: Autopsy of a Dead Dream
    2025/07/22
    Have you ever wondered what a dead dream looks like? What causes it? This isn't just a conversation… it’s an examination. Somewhere, deep within you—or someone you love—there was a dream. A dream once alive, vibrant, breathing with purpose. But today… it’s gone. Was it killed by fear? Starved by delay? Drowned in someone else’s opinion? Or did it simply go unloved and unnoticed for too long? I’m your Dream Realization Partner, and in this episode, we perform the autopsy. Together we’ll examine the wounds and ask the hard questions. Not to linger in loss—but to learn… So that no other dream has to die the same silent death. If you've ever wondered what happened to the fire you once carried—this is your moment to uncover the truth. Let’s begin the autopsy." Quote of the week: When we give up on our dreams, we die while still alive. Robin Sharma Points covered: Autopsy Report: Case #D.R.E.A.M.-00018 Subject: Deceased Dream Pronounced Dead: date of abandonment forgotten Examiner: Edwin Soler Your Dream Realization Partner Cause of Death: Neglect, Fear, External Influence, Internal Conflict, and Systemic Starvation of Purpose 1. BRAIN — Ceased Dream Function Diagnosis: Terminal Stagnation, the dream died when the mind stopped believing it was possible. 2. HEART — Loss of Emotional Pulse Diagnosis: Excitement Arrest, the dream died when the heart no longer felt joy in the vision. 3. LUNGS — Respiratory Shutdown Diagnosis: Inspiration Asphyxiation, the dream died from lack of inspiration and exposure to uplifting environments. 4. SPINE — Collapse of Conviction Diagnosis: Backbone Breakdown, the dream died when it couldn’t stand up for itself. 5. HANDS — Function Lost Diagnosis: Creative Paralysis, the dream died because it was never built. 6. FEET — Directionless Wandering Diagnosis: Visionary Disorientation, the dream died because it stopped moving forward toward its original vision. 7. EYES — Blindness to Possibility Diagnosis: Dream Vision Obscurity, the dream died because it was never truly seen. 8. VOICE — Silence of Expression Diagnosis: Communicative Suppression, the dream died when it stopped being spoken into the world. 9. GUT — Intuition Starvation Diagnosis: Inner Knowing Rejection, the dream died when inner truth was silenced by outside noise. 10. SKIN — Identity Erosion Diagnosis: External Identity Corrosion, the dream died when it was no longer safe to be seen. FINAL CAUSE OF DEATH: Neglect due to Fear, Lack of Nurturing Environment, and Chronic Misalignment with Purpose. Manner of Death: Slow and PreventableDeath occurred in stages, beginning with the silencing of inspiration, followed by the loss of vision, motivation, and finally, belief. "If we had opened this dream up sooner, given it breath, voice, heart, and movement — it might still be alive today." "But here’s the truth: the beauty of dreams is they can resurrect. If you’re hearing this and recognize these symptoms — your dream may not be dead… it may just be in a coma, waiting for you to revive it." I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. My Book: Closing The 18-Inch Gap
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  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP074: What?

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP074: What?
    2025/07/15
    There’s a question that comes before all the others. A question that opens the door… or locks it shut. It’s not “Why me?” It’s not “How do I do it?” It’s not even “When will it happen?” It’s “What?” What is stopping you? What dream are you denying? What lie have you accepted as truth? What would happen if you finally said yes to the life that’s been waiting on you? In this episode, we go deeper than surface questions. We go into the raw, uncharted terrain of your locked away dreams— The “What” that most people are too afraid to ask, and too exhausted to answer. But not you. You’re here for more. You’re here to realize what others only fantasize about. I’m Edwin Soler, your Dream Realization Partner— And today, I’m going to ask you 25 life-altering questions that begin with just one word: “What?” And if you’re ready to answer honestly, Everything might change. And if you’ve ever felt like your dream is locked in a box… hidden behind excuses… or just buried under life… then this episode is for you. I want to let you know right away that I also offer a complimentary consultation called The Next Level Dream Chat to answer all of your coaching questions and see if we’re a good fit to work with each other. Quote of the week: "Ask for what you want and be prepared to get it!" - Maya Angelou Points covered: 1. What have you silenced within yourself that once screamed with possibility? 2. What dream is asking you for attention in quiet moments, but you keep pushing it away? 3. What version of yourself are you afraid the world might reject if you fully pursued your dream? 4. What lie have you disguised as logic, and let it block your dream? 5. What would your life feel like if you finally stopped negotiating with fear? 6. What identity have you accepted that was handed to you but never belonged to you? 7. What is the cost of your current comfort zone—and is it too high to keep paying? 8. What part of your dream feels dangerous, and why does that make it more necessary? 9. What calling keeps returning to you, no matter how often you bury it? 10. What story are you rehearsing that makes you believe you're unqualified? 11. What would happen if you gave yourself permission to go all in—today? 12. What evidence have you ignored that already proves you're ready? 13. What does your silence say about the dream you’ve been avoiding? 14. What moment in your past hinted at your greatness—and why did you dismiss it? 15. What if the pain you're experiencing is simply the cost of not choosing your dream? 16. What does your envy reveal about the dream you’ve neglected? 17. What fear are you pretending is wisdom? 18. What parts of your life need to be disrupted to give your dream a chance to live? 19. What if the very thing you’re ashamed of is the key to your impact? 20. What dream did you inherit—and is it still yours to carry? 21. What emotion do you feel when you imagine the dream fully alive—and how long will you ignore that fire? 22. What truth are you not telling yourself because it would require action? 23. What would your 10-year-from-now self-beg you to start doing today? 24. What if not chasing your dream is actually selfish? 25. What would you do differently if you believed the dream came to you for a reason? This episode wasn’t just about reflection. It was about clarification. The question is no longer What? It’s What next? I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. Remember that I offer my Next-Level Dream Chat. We can ...
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  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP073: Why? Part II

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP073: Why? Part II
    2025/07/08
    Last week I was so into the episode that I lost track of time. So today I’m bringing you the last 14 points. I mistakenly thought I had brought 12 points but actually only brought 11. The word I am exploring is such a simple but powerful one: Why? Like I said last week. It’s such a simple word. One syllable. Three letters. But inside that word now that we’re all grown up… lives a storm. Today, I’m not here to give you steps, or tips, or strategies. I’m here to ask you questions. Because that’s what good coaches do. They ask real questions. The kind that doesn’t just live in your head—they echo in your soul. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And if you’ve ever felt like your dream is locked in a box… hidden behind excuses… or just buried under life… then this episode is for you. Today, we release locked-up dreams—not with motivation, but with truth. Let’s begin with one question... asked another 14 different ways. Each one designed to shake loose the lies. Each one with a small move you can make today. Quote of the week: “If we want to feel an undying passion for our work, if we want to feel we are contributing to something bigger than ourselves, we all need to know our WHY.” ― Simon Sinek Points covered: 12. Why do you keep waiting for the perfect moment? 13. Why haven’t you told anyone what you really want? 14. Why do you sabotage your progress? 15. Why do you call it “just a hobby”? 16. Why do you fear your own potential? 17. Why do you believe your story is boring? 18. Why are you afraid to be seen? 19. Why are you still calling it impossible? 20. Why do you play small in big rooms? 21. Why haven’t you defined success your way yet? 22. Why do you dismiss compliments? 23. Why do you keep asking for signs when you’ve already been called? 24. Why do you think your dream has an expiration date? 25. Why do you believe transformation is for other people? 14 more questions. A hundred lies we tell ourselves. But only one truth matters: You were born to realize your dream. And sometimes the only way to get there… is to start by asking, Why am I still holding it back? This episode wasn’t just about reflection. It was about release. The question is no longer Why? It’s Why not now? I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. If you want to take me up on my offer then, reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. You would be amazed at how much we can uncover together in a short time to get you started. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. If this was your first time, I’m glad you’re listening, and I hope you can come back for more podcast episodes. "Please give us a rating and review for us to read it in the podcast, I love sharing our listeners voices and comments on our podcast”. In the meantime, feel free to listen to all the previous ones I have. You can find them in your favorite podcast directory. And don’t forget, go to my email sign up page at edwinsoler.com to sign up for my weekly emails to get all the latest about how I can help you achieve your dreams. I can’t wait to be here with you next week but until then keep closing that 18- inch gap! Closing the 18 Inch Gap Book
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  • Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP072: Why? Part I

    Closing the 18-Inch Gap Podcast-EP072: Why? Part I
    2025/07/01
    Do you remember being a kid and always asking the same question? Remember how we drive our parents and teachers crazy? It’s such a simple word. One syllable. Three letters. But inside that word now that we’re all grown up… lives a storm. Today, I’m not here to give you steps, or tips, or strategies. I’m here to ask you questions. Because that’s what good coaches do. They ask real questions. The kind that don’t just live in your head—they echo in your soul. I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And if you’ve ever felt like your dream is locked in a box… hidden behind excuses… or just buried under life… then this episode is for you. Today, we release locked-up dreams—not with motivation, but with truth. Let’s begin with one question... asked 25 different ways. That question is why? Each one designed to shake loose the lies. Each one with a small move you can make today. More on the other side. Quote of the week: "Those who have a 'why' to live, can bear with almost any 'how'… Viktor Frankl in his “Man's Search for Meaning” Points covered: 1. Why haven’t you started yet? 2. Why do you still think you’re not ready? 3. Why are you trying to be so perfect? 4. Why do you care so much what they think? 5. Why do you keep comparing your dream to theirs? 6. Why haven’t you forgiven yourself yet? 7. Why do you shrink when it's time to speak up? 8. Why do you wait for permission? 9. Why do you avoid the first step? 10. Why are you pretending it doesn’t matter anymore? 11. Why are you working on everyone else’s dream but yours? Eleven questions. So many lies we tell ourselves. But only one truth matters: You were born to realize your dream. And sometimes the only way to get there… is to start by asking, Why am I still holding it back? This episode wasn’t just about reflection. It was about release. The question is no longer Why? It’s Why not now? I’m your Dream Realization Partner. And I believe your dream is not dead—it’s just waiting on you. If this stirred something in you… don’t keep it locked up. Share this episode. Send it to someone whose dream you believe in. And if you haven’t yet, get on my email list—because I send weekly tools to help you move from stuck to unstoppable. Until next time—your dream is calling. Pick it up. What resonated with you today? I want to explore how I can help you. If you want to take me up on my offer then, reach out to me for a complementary Next-Level Dream Chat. We can start diving into what your dreams are and what’s holding you back. You would be amazed at how much we can uncover together in a short time to get you started. It’s the first step that is the most important, getting started. Simply send me an email to edwin@edwinsoler.com and let me know how we can connect. If this was your first time, I’m glad you’re listening, and I hope you can come back for more podcast episodes. "Please give us a rating and review for us to read it in the podcast, I love sharing our listeners voices and comments on our podcast” In the meantime, feel free to listen to all the previous ones I have. You can find them in your favorite podcast directory. And don’t forget, go to my email sign up page at edwinsoler.com to sign up for my weekly emails to get all the latest about how I can help you achieve your dreams. I can’t wait to be here with you next week but until then keep closing that 18- inch gap! Book Self Talk by Marianne Renner Book Closing the18-Inch Gap
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    28 分