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Comfort can feel like safety, but it can also become a ceiling. Troy sits down with Sam Paget, a husband, dad, and medical distribution business owner, to talk about what it looks like to choose growth on purpose and to stop letting your environment decide your future. We start with the idea of pruning the tree: some friendships belong to an earlier season, and if you keep dragging them into your next chapter, you end up living below your potential.

Sam breaks down the mindset shift that changed his trajectory: picking a “word of the year” for alignment (their word was purpose), then stepping into Masogi, a scary, stretch goal that forces discipline and delayed gratification. From running 30 miles at age 30 with no crowd and no reward, to pushing into bigger challenges, the lesson is simple and brutal: you build confidence by doing what you said you would do, especially when nobody is clapping. We also talk about mastering the middle, staying steady in wins and losses, and why you should never be the biggest person in the room if you want to keep growing.

The conversation gets practical on marriage and fatherhood too. We unpack what 100-100 partnership looks like, how communication sets boundaries between work and home, and why being a dad means presence, play, and example, not just provision. We also go into money mindset, lifestyle creep, and using money and power as tools to buy peace for other people through giving, a nonprofit, and a ranch vision built for retreats and community.

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