Coping Conversations: What Prevention Has Been Missing, with Shayla Wilson

Some of the best recovery work happens before a kid ever picks anything up.
In Eastern Tennessee, my friend Shayla Wilson is leading it.

Shayla is the executive director of ASAP, and she knows this world from the inside. She grew up with a dad in recovery, a mom still finding her way.

In this conversation, we talk about:

• The reason Shayla’s dad got sober
• The one question a teenager asked that started a brand new program
• A small, unexpected tool kids asked for
• Why “just don’t start” doesn’t help the kid who already has
• What’s really behind Tennessee’s drop in overdoses (it’s not one thing)

If you’re worried about a kid or a loved one, stay to the end. Shayla shares one simple first step you can take today.

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ABOUT SHAYLA:
Shayla Wilson serves as the Executive Director of ASAP of Anderson, a drug prevention coalition in Anderson County, TN. She has a Bachelors of Science in Education with a major in Kinesiology, a Masters in Education, and an Educational Specialist Degree in Educational Leadership. Her focus is bridging gaps and building connections with community partners, youth, and adults. Through evidence based practices, strategic plans, and grant funding she and her team are making an impact to reduce substance misuse in Anderson County. She has served the volunteer state in many capacities starting in education, state level work, and in the nonprofit sector. Shayla uses her combined background and childhood experiences to provide a varied perspective. She seeks to help our most vulnerable populations by expanding programs and partnering to ensure wrap around services are provided on a continuum.

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Caroline Beidler, MSW, is an author, speaker, and Managing Editor of Recovery.com, where she combines expert guidance with research to help people find the best path to healing and treatment. Her book, When You Love Someone in Recovery: A Hopeful Guide for Understanding Addiction, was released Spring 2026 with Nelson Books. Drawing from her own recovery journey through addiction, mental health challenges, and trauma, along with training as a clinical mental health provider and addiction recovery expert, Caroline is passionate about guiding you into seasons of greater healing. Learn more about her books here.

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