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Tiffany Brearton was the bright light in every room until childhood sexual abuse began rewriting her story.

By eighteen she was walking into a strip club, believing her body was her worth. Years of broken relationships, divorce, and the death of her second husband followed, and then Jesus met her in the middle of it all.

In this honest conversation, Tiffany shares the healing steps that helped her (a church trauma group, therapy, EMDR, and prayer),

why testimony breaks shame,

how to choose a safe person to tell,

and why the church should be a safe place for the sick. Her message: no one is too far gone for God to redeem.

Content note: this episode discusses sexual abuse and trafficking and may not be suitable for young listeners. Support: RAINN 1-800-656-4673 | National Human Trafficking Hotline 1-888-373-7888.

Chapter Markers

00:00 Content Note and Welcome

01:20 The Mission: Helping the Church See Beyond the Mess

02:53 Churches Should Be Hospitals for the Sick

05:40 Tiffany's Story: A Bright Light Begins to Dim

06:47 Eighteen, Money, and the Lie That My Body Was My Worth

08:16 Looking for Safety in the Wrong Place

09:47 Pregnant at 19, Divorced by 20

11:38 Cycles, Protection Orders, and Choosing to Stop

12:09 Meeting Jesus, Losing My Husband, and Leaning on the Lord

14:47 A Second Marriage, Three More Babies, and Trauma Resurfacing

16:28 Family Reactions and Seeing What Comes Before the Addiction

18:26 Never Telling: Shame, Silence, and Talking With Our Kids

19:28 Jan's Story and the Vision That Healed Shame

20:50 Revelation 12:11: Testimony and the Holy Moment of "Me Too"

22:34 Choosing a Safe Person to Tell

25:01 The Healing Steps: Church Group, Talk Therapy, and EMDR

27:07 Rebuilding Trust With People and With God

29:55 How Trauma Changed My Parenting

31:42 Resources: Finding a Christian Counselor Who Specializes in Trauma

33:45 Tiffany's Books: From Stilettos to Grace and From a Mess to His Message

35:00 No One Is Too Far Gone: One Step at a Time

36:19 Closing Thoughts and How to Connect

Tiffany's website

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I'm Jan Johnson, a seasoned believer who loves relationships and, you know, just talkin' about Jesus.

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