In this deeply honest episode of Roots and Roofs, Mackenzie sits down with corporate leader, speaker, and podcast host Carole Evans for a conversation about ambition, motherhood, marriage, and the hidden cost of constantly chasing success.

Carole opens up about the season where her career was thriving while her home life was quietly struggling—and the wake-up call that forced her to rethink everything. Together, they unpack the myth of “perfect balance,” the importance of intentional relationships, and why presence matters more than performance.

From planning intentional date nights to communicating expectations clearly, this episode dives into the practical and emotional work required to build both a meaningful career and a healthy home. Carole also shares how faith reshaped her leadership style, parenting, and perspective on success.

This conversation is a reminder that burnout isn’t always loud, relationships don’t fail overnight, and sometimes the strongest thing you can do is simply be fully present where you are.

Time Stamps:

02:09 – When Success Starts Costing Too Much

08:03 – The Relationship Wake-Up Call

12:04 – Date Nights, Difficult Conversations & Rebuilding Connection

16:12 – The Dangerous Weight of Unspoken Expectations

20:13 – Why Small Problems Become Big Ones

21:21 – Leading People Without Burning Them Out

25:03 – Why Balance Doesn’t Exist (and What to Aim for Instead)

27:22 – The Power of Being Fully Present

Carole Evans’ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carole-evans-19621678/

Faith & Work Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/faith-work/id1827509985

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