The scars run from neck to toes, and the pain is daily. But something shifted when strangers started approaching with tears, saying his story gave them hope when their own felt impossible. What happens when the tragedy you spent decades trying to hide becomes the exact thing that could matter most to someone else?

John O'Leary, #1 National Bestselling Author and Speaker, survived a house fire at nine years old—burned on one hundred percent of his body, eighty-seven percent third degree. He was not supposed to walk out of the hospital. Decades later, he found himself standing in rooms full of people, answering a calling he never planned for. In this conversation, you'll discover what extraordinary caregivers actually do, why asking for help is strength, and how to find vision when the present moment feels unbearable.

Lana Wilhelm, RN BSN MHA, carries her own crisis-into-calling story. As founder of Care Partner Connect, she built a platform to see the invisible ones—the caregivers who hold everything together while no one asks how they're doing. John's presence on Both Sides of the Bed feels like a recognition of something she's lived: that saying yes to what terrifies you changes everything.

About the Guest: John O'Leary is a two-time bestselling author of On Fire: The 7 Choices to Ignite a Radically Inspired Life and In Awe: Rediscover Your Childlike Wonder to Unleash Inspiration, Meaning and Joy. His award-winning Live Inspired Podcast has more than seven million downloads. A full-length feature film, Soul on Fire, starring Joel Courtney, John Corbett, and William H. Macy, releases in theaters nationwide on October 10, 2025. Learn more at johnoleary.com.

Both Sides of the Bed is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider for guidance specific to your situation. Visit carepowerconnect.com for resources and support.