Dr. Lakelyn talks with dementia educator Carrie Aalberts, also known as Dementia Darling, about challenging dementia-related behaviors like agitation, aggression, and sexual expression. Carrie explains how these actions are rooted in brain change—not purposeful or willful—and offers practical, empathetic strategies for caregivers. Together, they discuss medical triggers to watch for, when to seek outside help, and how to handle sensitive situations with compassion.

Episode highlights include:

-Understanding why agitation and aggression are symptoms of brain change

-Reframing “behaviors” with empathy instead of blame

-Trying different approaches when one solution doesn’t work

-Spotting hidden medical causes like pain or UTIs

-Knowing when it’s time for respite, home care, or memory care

-Navigating sexual expression in dementia with sensitivity and respect

Helpful links from the episode:

- Follow Carrie on Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, and TikTok: @dementiadarling

- Learn more about Carrie’s work:www.dementiadarling.com

- Listen to Carrie’s podcast Gather Darlings with Nicole Will

- Visit www.homeinstead.com/care-resources to explore more caregiving resources

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Dr. Lakelyn is joined by actor, filmmaker, and former caregiver Katie Prentiss, whose mother lived with frontotemporal dementia (FTD). In this powerful episode, Katie shares how caregiving reshaped her perspective on life and how her upcoming film Wake Up Maggie aims to honor the unseen heroes of caregiving. Together, they explore the emotional journey from trying to control the chaos of caregiving to learning how to embrace acceptance. Katie’s story is not only personal but deeply universal—and she’s now turning her experience into art that validates and uplifts fellow caregivers.

Episode highlights include:

-Katie’s caregiving journey and her mom’s FTD diagnosis

-The emotional transition from control to acceptance

-How caregiving inspired Katie’s new film Wake Up Maggie

-The healing power of storytelling in the caregiving experience

-Encouragement for caregivers feeling overwhelmed or unseen

Helpful links from the episode:

- www.katieprentiss.com

- Instagram: @wakeupmaggiemovie

-TikTok: @katieprentiss

- Visit www.homeinstead.com/care-resources to explore more caregiving resources

To learn more about this podcast and to subscribe to our caregiving newsletters, visit www.homeinstead.com/caregiverchats. Share your thoughts, experiences and ideas by emailing Dr. Lakelyn at caregiverchats@homeinsteadinc.com.

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Dr. Lakelyn is joined by Danielle Miura, a Certified Financial Planner and family caregiver, for a conversation on how to navigate caregiving without sacrificing financial health. Drawing from her own experience and her work with women in life transitions, Danielle shares actionable insights to help caregivers plan ahead, manage costs, and protect their financial future.

Episode highlights include:

- Danielle’s story of caregiving and founding Spark Financials

- The 3 phases of financial planning for caregivers

- Understanding hidden caregiving costs and long-term financial impact

- Common financial questions caregivers ask

- Strategies for balancing finances, caregiving, and career goals

Helpful links from the episode:

- Spark Financials: spark-fin.com

- Article: Finding a Financial Advisor: https://spark-fin.com/blog/f/how-your-finances-can-benefit-from-a-team-of-advisors?blogcategory=Personal+Finance

- Article: Long-Term Care Planning:

https://spark-fin.com/blog/f/guide-to-long-term-care?blogcategory=Long-Term+Care+Planning

- Visit www.homeinstead.com/care-resources to explore more caregiving resources

To learn more about this podcast and to subscribe to our caregiving newsletters, visit www.homeinstead.com/caregiverchats. Share your thoughts, experiences and ideas by emailing Dr. Lakelyn at caregiverchats@homeinsteadinc.com.

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