What happens when you want your marriage to change, but your partner has zero interest in counseling, personal development, or doing a relationship workbook after dinner?

Are you stuck waiting for them to get on board?

Marriage coach Julie Tran says no.

Julie's own marriage reached a point where she and her husband loved each other, but didn't particularly like each other. They were having the same arguments, walking on eggshells, and feeling more like roommates than partners. She wanted to work on the relationship. He wasn't exactly racing to join her.

So Julie stopped waiting for him to change and started looking at what she could do differently.

In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, we talk about how one person can begin changing the dynamic of a marriage without taking responsibility for the entire relationship. Julie also shares her three-step Beautiful Boundaries Blueprint for expressing what you need without turning every conversation into an indictment.

We get into:

• Why long marriages can start feeling more like roommate arrangements
• What happens when you're keeping score and you're clearly winning
• How to stop having the same argument dressed in different clothes
• Why your partner's annoying habit is rarely the real problem
• How to make a request without blaming, demanding, or starting round 47
• The difference between doing your part and doing all the work
• What sesame seeds, coffee slurping, and a spotless kitchen can teach us about love

If you've ever thought, I want this marriage to feel better, but I can't be the only one trying, this episode may help you see what's still within your control.

Links

Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/fitgirlmagic

Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@kimbarnesjefferson

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kimjeffersoncoach/

What room needs your attention – FREE quiz

https://kimbarnesjefferson.lpages.co/room-quiz_podcast

Julie's website www.gooeylove.co

Her book https://atigbranding.myflodesk.com/supporttheauthors