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Calling Mayday Before the Walls Come Down - Darryl Cleveland

Calling Mayday Before the Walls Come Down - Darryl Cleveland

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CALLING MAYDAY BEFORE THE WALLS COME DOWN Darryl Cleveland on Leadership, PTSD, and Creating a Culture Where Asking for Help Is Strength For decades, first responders have been trained to call a Mayday when they're trapped, lost, running out of air, or facing an immediate physical threat. But what happens when the emergency is happening inside? In this episode of the First Responder Leadership Podcast, Conrad Weaver sits down with retired Fire Chief Darryl Cleveland, whose nearly 40-year career included service as a paramedic, firefighter, engine company captain, battalion chief, fire chief, and assignments aboard EMS and fire helicopters. Darryl reflects on coming up in a fire-service culture where mental health was rarely discussed and "suck it up" was often the prevailing attitude. He shares how cumulative trauma followed him into retirement, why leaders need their own trusted peer networks, and how vulnerability from the top can give others permission to ask for help. One of the most powerful ideas in the conversation is simple: Mayday isn't just physical. First responders are trained to call a Mayday before a physical emergency becomes fatal. Darryl argues that leaders should create cultures where their people can do the same when they're struggling mentally and emotionally. The conversation also explores the impact the career can have on spouses and families, the identity shift that happens after retirement, and the lessons Darryl wishes he'd understood when he first became a chief. His advice to his younger self? Everything's not a ten. Slow down. Listen more. Give people grace. IN THIS EPISODE How first responder mental-health culture has changed during Darryl's career Why previous generations of leaders were often unequipped to recognize trauma The cumulative effect of repeatedly witnessing things human beings were never meant to see Why company officers have enormous influence over whether people feel safe asking for help Moving beyond "Everyone Goes Home" toward helping people be home healthier Why mental-health resources must actually connect with first responders The value of peer support and chaplaincy Why chiefs and senior leaders need their own peer networks The importance of vulnerability from senior leadership Calling a mental-health "Mayday" before the walls come down How unresolved occupational trauma can affect spouses and children Making conversations about mental health as normal as checking the apparatus Darryl's book, These Hands: A First Responder's Journey from PTSD to Healing The difficult transition from a first responder identity into retirement What Darryl would tell himself on his first day as a fire chief KEY LEADERSHIP TAKEAWAYS 1. You can't fix what you don't know. Leaders need education and training that helps them recognize behavioral and emotional warning signs—not simply tactical and operational problems. 2. Normalize the conversation before the crisis. Mental wellness shouldn't become important only after an organization experiences a tragedy. Leaders can make it part of everyday organizational culture. 3. Leaders need peers too. When you're at the top, you can't always "complain down," and there may be nobody above you who truly understands the job. Building trusted peer relationships before you need them matters. 4. Vulnerability gives others permission to be human. A leader who can acknowledge, "Yesterday was a hard day," helps remove the perception that asking for help is weakness. 5. Call the Mayday early. Don't wait until someone's emotional or psychological walls are collapsing. Build a culture where asking for help early is expected and supported. 6. Everything isn't a ten. Slow down. Listen. Get to know your people. Look for opportunities to coach and teach rather than immediately punish. ABOUT DARRYL CLEVELAND Darryl Cleveland is a retired fire chief with nearly four decades in the fire and emergency services. During his career, he served as a paramedic and firefighter for 32 years and held roles including engine company captain, battalion chief, and fire chief. His experience also included flying aboard EMS and fire helicopters and serving as part of an urban search and rescue task force deployed to New York City following September 11. He is the author of These Hands: A First Responder's Journey from PTSD to Healing, a deeply personal account of occupational trauma, family, faith, PTSD, and recovery. The book also incorporates perspectives from his wife and daughter to illuminate how a first responder's experiences can affect the entire family. ABOUT THESE HANDS Darryl describes the title as coming from a moment when he looked at his own hands and considered everything they had experienced during his career—the people they had carried, the scenes they had touched, and the work they had performed. These Hands: A First Responder's Journey from PTSD to Healing is available on Amazon. CONNECT WITH DARRYL Email: TheseHands26@gmail.com ...
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