The Disempowered-Man and Entitled-Woman dynamic is a problematic pair, where the man sinks into a powerless role and the woman takes over. The masculine frame has broken down. The woman tries to become the man she wanted from the beginning.

The catastrophic breakdown of relationships and family in America is layered. One of the major issues is the absence of healthy, present father figures. Men without role models to help guide how they lead themselves and the family has left an enormous void. We also have social-cultural issues such as media glamorizing divorce; weaponoization of the legal system; pedastalizing the woman’s experience, while dismissing and degrading the man’s experience — and more.

If you’re caught in this dynamic and you need help breaking and correcting this pattern as an individual or couple, complete my interest form. From there, I’ll reach out to schedule a consultation.

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⏰ Timestamps:

00:05:48 Intro to the Disempowered Man & Entitled Woman

00:10:13 Red Pill Rabbithole

00:11:41 Drained but can’t complain

00:15:35 Where does this dynamic come from?

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This is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship.

We’re not blaming the person “doing less” or sympathizing with the person “doing more” — I’m pulling the veil back so you can see the inner workings of what’s happening in this dynamic and I’m giving solutions for what to do about it.

Mentioned videos —

8 models for Self & Relational Development: https://youtu.be/tLHS3kaacgo

SER Model: https://youtu.be/mOwCXoETFxc

👩🏾‍🏫 Conflict in Couples Workshop: https://taylorchandler.as.me/schedule/7f693168/?appointmentTypeIds[]=88471947

👉 Interest form to work with me: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L

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⏰ Timestamps:

00:00:38 What are Relationship Dynamics?

0:02:37 The Capacity Problem

00:04:28 Three domains of capacity

00:11:24 Solutions for the O-U Dynamic

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You know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me.

For a few years of my practice I almost solely helped people shift from insecure to secure attachment. I even had a group class called Reattach. Now YOU can do Reattach at your own pace. You can get the class and the exercises that have helped hundreds of people get a grip on their attachment and make positive changes.

Head to my website to grab it and if you need additional help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me through my interest form or email: Taylor@iamtaylorchandler.com

👉 Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/

👉 Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L

⏰ Timestamps:

00:00:40 What is an attachment style?
00:02:06 My therapy journey with attachment
00:06:25 The Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic
00:10:00 Cycles of learning but not acting

Thank you for your support!

Work with me: Interest Form

Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/
Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler
YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler