About Tami:

Tami Kiekhaefer is a licensed therapist with nearly 25 years of experience. She's the author of two books: *Preparing for the Jungle: Avoiding Snakes and Pitfalls on the Path to Healthy Love* and *From Chaos to Calm: A Six Step Strategy to Break Through Anxiety*. She's also co-host of the *Unguarded Minds* podcast.

Connect with Tami: HealthyHealing.net

Resources Mentioned:

- Inference-Based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (ICBT) - Tami's Six-Step Strategy for anxiety - Left brain activation techniques

Ready to quiet your anxious mind? This episode gives you the tools to stop letting anxiety hijack your brain and start thinking clearly again.

🎥 Watch the full video at vip.livebeyonddoubt.com

[00:00] Meet the therapist who's cracked the code on anxiety for high-achieving women

[00:37] Why your workplace success doesn't protect you from anxiety (and what does)

[01:25] The real reason you can't control your anxious thoughts (hint: you're focusing on the wrong thing)

[02:29] The "teeter-totter" in your brain that's sabotaging your decision-making

[04:46] How to use facts (not feelings) to beat imposter syndrome once and for all

[06:58] Why perfectionism is a "mind trap" that's killing your confidence

[09:34] The difference between internal vs. external satisfaction (and why you're addicted to the wrong one)

[12:11] Why even therapists need help getting out of their own heads

[14:06] The one thing you need to remember when anxiety tries to convince you you're not enough

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🚨 STOP! If you're constantly doubting your relationship even when your partner shows love, this video will change everything!

Are you tired of feeling disconnected even when your partner says "I love you"? Do their sweet gestures feel... empty? You're not broken - your anxiety is just creating a filter that's blocking their love from reaching you! 💕

In this eye-opening episode, I reveal how relationship anxiety hijacks the 5 love languages and what to do about it. You'll finally understand why reassurance never works and how to feel your partner's love again! ✨

🎯 You'll discover: - Why "I love you" feels meaningless when you have ROCD 😰 - The invisible anxiety filter blocking your partner's love 💔 - How to upgrade each love language for anxious minds 🧠 - The evidence journal technique that actually works 📝 - Why pressure-free touch changes everything 🤗

⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 - The love language problem nobody talks about 01:00 - When "I love you" triggers anxiety instead of joy 04:00 - The dirty water analogy (this will blow your mind!) 06:00 - Words of affirmation that actually land 08:00 - Creating your evidence journal for doubt spirals 10:00 - Acts of service that build security 12:00 - Physical touch without emotional pressure 13:00 - Your action steps to feel love again

Stop letting anxiety steal your happiness! Your relationship CAN feel secure and peaceful again 🌈

🔥 FREE RESOURCES FOR YOU: 📖 Get "The Overthinker's Guide to Love" (5 biggest dating mistakes): https://livebeyonddoubt.com/overthinkersguidetolove

🎯 Join my FREE webinar "The First Step to Understanding Relationship OCD" (July 3rd): https://livebeyonddoubt.com/webinar-registration-erin

👇 GRAB MY FREE GUIDE: "30 Scripts for Difficult Conversations" Link: https://bit.ly/30scriptsfree

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*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

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📽️ Watch the full video at vip.livebeyonddoubt.com in the Tuesday Truth Talks Section.

You'll hear from an experienced EMDR therapist, Laurel, about the benefits and applications of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) in treating trauma. The discussion covers the practical techniques for reducing the impact of traumatic memories, the importance of inviting positive memories for overall mental balance, and the ethical considerations in therapy. Laurel also explains the different phases of EMDR, including the crucial resourcing and preparation phase, and shares insights on how EMDR can help clients manage their trauma more effectively. A must-watch for those seeking ways to navigate their mental health journey.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction to Tuesday Truth Talks 01:00 Meet Laurel: EMDR Therapist 01:32 Understanding EMDR and Its Applications 02:15 Techniques and Methods in EMDR 04:32 The Importance of Resourcing in EMDR 07:34 Positive Memories and Trauma Processing 09:28 Addressing Concerns and Misconceptions 11:08 Benefits and Final Thoughts on EMDR 12:11 Conclusion and Contact Information

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*This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment.