Join Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they revisit one of the most impactful episodes of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. In this must-listen conversation they explore how parental behavior shapes the emotional, spiritual and relational development of children in blended families.

Whether you are a stepparent, co-parent or navigating a new season of remarriage, this episode dives into how your daily actions influence your child's understanding of love, conflict, marriage, and grace. Kids are always watching and what they see becomes part of who they become. Discover how to model intentional parenting lead with compassion and reflect Christ in your blended family journey.

Key topics include healthy parental influence in stepfamilies, the silent power of role modeling, teaching grace, kindness, and love by example, why your kids future relationships depend on what they see today and more!

Want to learn more practical tips and strategies to help your blended family thrive? Order a copy of Blended and Redeemed today!

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We continue to relive our top BKF episode and in this week’s episode, we look at Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation behaviors. We discuss strategies for recovering from such behaviors as well as sharing steps toward building a better, healthier co-parenting relationship.

The pain of divorce can cause us to speak and act in ways that we never would have expected and can negatively impact our children. Examining our hearts on a daily basis can help us to overcome any spirit of fear that may cause us to behave in unhealthy ways. You can find more episodes about Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation on our YouTube channel or search "blended kingdom families podcast" on any streaming platform. Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which is available NOW! Order your copy today!

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We are so excited to relive this top episode, “Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation”, with Dr. Les Carter. Dr. Carter is an author, psychotherapist, and counselor with 40+ years of experience in the field. He is the author of over 20 books and resources including "The Anger Trap" and "When Pleasing You is Killing Me".

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

- How to handle a narcissistic ex-spouse

- What child manipulation looks like

- Teaching your child to know the essence of love

- Parent alienation

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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As we continue celebrating 5 years and over 270 episodes of the BKF Podcast, we’re revisiting the most powerful, hope-filled conversations we’ve shared with you!

In this week’s top episode, we discuss blended families as a beautiful example of God’s redeeming power. Everything we bring with us into our blending journey - pain, fear, anger, resentment, expectations - can be revealed and healed by our Heavenly Father if we surrender it into His hands. The fire you and your family may be walking through is no match for God’s power and love. He can lead you out of any wilderness season.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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Join us as we relive our top BKF episodes of all time! Up first, Rachel Scott joins us on the podcast for a discussion about biological and stepparent relationships. She joins Scott and Vanessa to talk about the problem of comparison and competition and the reasons those traps surface, particularly for women. They talk about the value of humility and empathy in the biological parent/stepparent relationship and offer suggestions for better interactions.

To learn more about Rachel Scott visit:
Website: www.rachelgscott.com
Instagram URL: iamrachelgscott
Facebook URL: iamrachelgscott

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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Struggling to get on the same page with parenting in your blended family? You're not alone. In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale share practical, biblical advice for couples who feel divided when it comes to parenting and discipline. This episode will help you learn practical skills to protect your marriage, raise confident kids, and bring peace back into your home.

Key points discussed:

What to do when your parenting styles clash

How to build a unified plan with your spouse

Discipline strategies that actually work

How to avoid putting kids before your marriage

When to get help and why it's worth it

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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What do you do when step-grandparents treat your kids like outsiders? On this week’s episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale answer a raw and emotional listener question: "What to do when step grandparents do not include my kids as their grandchildren?"

They unpack the hurt, offer biblical perspectives, and provide real strategies for setting boundaries, fostering healthy communication, and seeking lasting healing. Whether you're dealing with favoritism, awkward family dynamics, or outright rejection, this episode will guide you toward peace and protection for your kids.

In this episode you will learn about:

- Boundaries that protect

- What inclusion should look like

- Why empathy matters

- When it’s time for counseling

- The role your spouse must play

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale welcome marriage coaches and high school sweethearts Chad and Megan Lacefield, hosts of the Built for Two podcast. With over 30 years of marriage experience, they open up about the reality of fighting for your marriage, not against it, and what it really takes to leave a godly legacy.

From learning selflessness and setting “fight rules” to raising adult children and enjoying their role as grandparents, Chad and Megan share real stories, raw wisdom, and biblical truth. They discuss how humor, humility, confession, and grace have sustained them through decades of challenges and victories.

Whether you're newly married, parenting in a blended family, or facing conflict in your relationship, this episode will give you practical tools, spiritual insight, and hope for the journey ahead.

Topics Covered:
- How to fight with your spouse, not against them
- Building legacy through everyday choices
- Healthy conflict resolution with “fight rules”
- Why laughter and fun matter in marriage
- Parenting your grandkids' parents
- God’s redemption in messy family stories

To learn more about Chad and Megan please visit: https://builtfortwo.com

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
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