In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa dive into one of the most requested and challenging topics in blended families: setting boundaries with extended family, adult children, and in laws, especially during the holiday season.

Using real life coaching examples and personal stories, they explain why boundaries are essential for healthy family dynamics, how boundaries without consequences lose their power, and why couples must first get on the same page before addressing outside relationships.

Scott and Vanessa discuss common holiday stressors, blended family tension, adult children navigating independence, and how to protect the peace of your home without guilt or fear. They also share practical steps for communicating boundaries respectfully, following through consistently, and maintaining compassion while standing firm. Biblical wisdom from Matthew 18 guides the conversation, reminding listeners that healthy conflict resolution and mutual respect are key to thriving families.

This episode is essential listening for any couple feeling overwhelmed, disrespected, or uncertain how to address ongoing family tension.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk honestly about the gift of parenthood, the challenges and joys of raising children, and the powerful ways parenting reflects the heart of God and how He loves and leads us.

They discuss how every stage of parenting brings lessons, growth, and opportunities to surrender control to the Lord. From toddlerhood to the teenage years to adult children, Scott and Vanessa unpack the beauty, struggle, refinement, and reward of raising kids well.

Listeners will hear encouragement on how to let go of guilt, embrace God’s grace, resist comparison, and focus on presence over perfection. The episode also highlights the role of co-parents and step-parents, reminding them that they have a vital and God-given place in their children’s lives.

This conversation provides hope, perspective, and truth for all parent and especially those who feels overwhelmed, discouraged, or unsure if they are doing enough.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco explain the clear differences between coaching and therapy and why blended families often need both at different stages of their journey.

They discuss what coaching can accomplish, what therapy is required for, and why understanding the distinction is essential for couples, step-parents, and co-parents. Vanessa and Dan share real experiences from working with families who face step-parenting tension, high conflict co-parenting, trauma, anxiety, depression, and communication breakdowns.

Listeners will learn how coaching helps families create goals, build structure, strengthen communication, and form healthy boundaries, while therapy is needed for deeper emotional work such as trauma, severe anxiety, depression, past wounds and exploring mental health challenges impacting the present.

This episode clarifies how each method equips families to grow, heal, and build stronger, healthier homes with God at the center.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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