Six years ago, we felt God's call to help blended families discover their true kingdom identity and live abundantly in Christ. We believed that when families are rooted in the truth of God's word, they don't just survive, they thrive. We wanted to create a space where blended families could find practical tools, biblical truth, and a community that understood the unique journey of blending. What we didn't expect was how much you would give us in return.

After much prayer and seeking the Lord's heart, we feel His gentle, clear release from actively carrying Blended Kingdom Families forward. God's assignments have seasons, and our season of leading this ministry has reached its completion. This is about walking forward in obedience to where He's leading us next.

Blended Kingdom Families has never truly been ours, it's always been His. From the very beginning, this has been God's ministry, and we have simply had the profound honor of stewarding it. Every breakthrough, every transformation, every marriage that chose to stay and fight, that's been the Lord's work. We were just privileged to witness it.

You have been one of the greatest blessings of our lives. Every vulnerable conversation, every time you trusted us with your story, those moments have been sacred to us. You have shaped who we are as people, as a couple, and as a family.

The mission of Blended Kingdom Families doesn't end here. The true fruit of this ministry is lived out in your homes, in your marriages, in how you parent and stepparent. Every time you choose your marriage when it's difficult, every time you extend grace to a bonus child, that's the legacy of BKF continuing.

While we're no longer actively operating the ministry, our books remain on Amazon, podcast episodes are still accessible on all platforms, and resources are there for anyone who needs them. The need for blended family support hasn't gone away, and we trust God will continue to raise up new voices and communities.

Our prayer is that you keep going. That when it gets hard, you remember you're not alone. That you keep choosing your marriage, keep showing up for your kids and bonus kids, keep believing God can redeem and restore what's been broken.

Thank you for walking this journey with us. We're cheering for you. We're praying for you. And we believe the best is still ahead for your families.

Be blessed in all that you do.

Scott & Vanessa

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Happy New Years from Blended Kingdom Families!

In this New Year reflection episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale invite listeners to pause, reflect, and trust God’s timing after a year that may not have gone as planned.

They talk openly about unmet expectations, waiting seasons, disappointment, and the human tendency to control outcomes instead of surrendering them to God. Through Scripture, personal testimony, and encouragement, Scott and Vanessa remind families that delays are not denials and that God is always working, even when we cannot see it.

The conversation encourages listeners to release regret, relinquish control, and enter the new year with faith, peace, and expectancy. They also discuss the value of choosing a word for the year as a spiritual anchor and how reflection and gratitude help realign hearts with God’s purpose.

This episode offers hope and clarity for anyone stepping into a new season and longing to trust God more deeply.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website

In this special Christmas episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the true meaning of Christmas and how families can experience joy and hope even during stressful seasons of life.

They discuss how blended family dynamics, busy schedules, grief, and unresolved relationships can make the holidays challenging, yet remind listeners that the birth of Jesus brings good news of great joy for all people. Using scripture from Luke 2 and Romans 15, Scott and Vanessa encourage families to pause, reflect, forgive, and choose gratitude as they close out the year.

This episode offers practical ways to keep Christ at the center of Christmas through prayer, reflection, family traditions, and meaningful conversations. Listeners are invited to end the year well and enter the next season with renewed faith, hope, and joy.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
Connect with us: Instagram, Facebook, YouTube,
To support this ministry and help ensure that blended families around the world continue to receive biblical equipping click here: https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/donate/
For more resources visit: Blended Kingdom Families Website