There is a version of the Black man that society expects to see—strong, silent, emotionally unshaken.

But what happens to everything he's taught not to feel?

In this powerful episode of Spades & Spirits Podcast, Misty Reign and Christian Nicole sit down with renowned psychologist Dr. Curtis D. Jasper ("The Counselor for the Culture") for one of the most honest conversations we've ever had.

Together, they explore:

✔ Why Black men struggle with vulnerability
✔ Emotional suppression and generational conditioning
✔ Mother wounds & betrayal
✔ Why therapy alone isn't enough
✔ Spiritual disconnection and emotional wellness
✔ The truth about healing Black men
✔ How women can create emotionally safe relationships
✔ Why honesty—not perfection—is true vulnerability

00:00 Intro
00:57 Meet Dr. Curtis D. Jasper
03:14 Why are Black men emotionally unavailable?
05:57 The necessity of Black men and women working together
11:07 Is therapy enough for Black men?
20:40 Understanding grief and self-betrayal
21:44 Addressing the mother wound
26:22 Internalized rage and depression
29:49 What does healing look like for Black men?
35:56 Spirituality as a connection to self
36:33 Redefining vulnerability
39:52 The truth about lying and emotional survival
43:29 How to genuinely check in with a man
46:55 Addressing ego and accountability
50:49 The importance of community and tribal healing
54:28 Accepting the rhythmic nature of life and emotions
58:33 The practice of "waiting" and slowing down
1:00:29 Integration vs. awareness
1:02:18 How to connect with Dr. Kurt and mentorship groups
1:06:43 Closing thoughts

This episode isn't about blaming anyone.

It's about healing.

If you've ever loved a Black man, struggled as one, or simply want to understand emotional wellness from a deeper spiritual perspective...

This conversation is for you.

About the Guest
Dr. Curtis D. Jasper, PhD, M.Ed.

Affectionately known as "The Counselor for the Culture," Dr. Curtis D. Jasper is an Atlanta-based psychologist, psycho-educator, author, speaker, and human behavior specialist dedicated to advancing culturally grounded mental health and emotional wellness.

He is the Executive Director of IM International, Inc., leads men's wellness circles, mentors women through educational mastermind groups, and continues to redefine how emotional healing is approached within the Black community.

Connect With Curtis D. Jasper:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdr.curt/
Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/Dr.CurtisDJasper/
Website: https://www.drcurtisdjasper.com/

Hosted By:
🏛️ Misty Reign, The Spiritual Attorney
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Website: https://www.thespiritualattorney.com/meet-misty

Co-Host:
✨ Christian Nicole, The Intuitive Development Coach
Insta: https://www.instagram.com/iamchristianicole
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christian-nicole-72253b1bb

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