In this episode, Victoria Gaba sits down with Melissa to unpack her deeply inspiring and contrasting experiences with infertility, foster care adoption, and plus-size pregnancy. After enduring four years of unexplained infertility, failed IUI cycles, and the heartbreak of back-to-back ectopic pregnancies, Melissa shares the immense shock of conceiving her first biological child completely naturally. She opens up about navigating a maternal healthcare system that immediately labeled her high-risk based purely on her BMI, forcing her to transition to a specialty hospital over an hour away for labor and delivery. Melissa walks listeners through the clinical realities of her first high-risk induction at 38 weeks, detailing the intense discomfort of a Foley balloon, an unexpected birth-day diagnosis of preeclampsia, and the terrifying moment her newborn son was rushed to the NICU with low Apgar scores.
Her path took an entirely different turn with her second pregnancy, which occurred unexpectedly within just one cycle of an IUD removal. Facing gestational hypertension while chasing a toddler during a record-breaking summer heatwave, her second induction moved at lightning speed.
Melissa highlights the profound importance of maternal self-advocacy, recalling how she successfully demanded proactive pain management and navigated the panic of sudden fetal heart rate decels that required an emergency amnioinfusion to relieve cord pressure. From the overwhelming quiet of an empty delivery room to a profoundly healing golden hour with her daughter, Melissa shares an unfiltered look into her choice to pursue exclusive pumping for over a year.
Shutting out the toxic algorithms of internet doom-scrolling, this conversation is an essential resource for mothers looking for real, relatable insight into navigating medical bias, handling induction curveballs, and celebrating the unpredictable rhythms of birth.
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Medical Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your healthcare provider regarding your specific pregnancy and health needs.