What do boundaries, burnout, people-pleasing, and finances have in common? More than you might think. Dr. April Murdaugh is joined by licensed mental health counselor Dr. Lauren Chase for a candid conversation about the emotional patterns that often influence our financial decisions. Together, they explore how childhood experiences, core beliefs, family dynamics, and a lack of boundaries can impact everything from money management to relationships and career growth. Along the way, Dr. Lauren poses a powerful question that stops Dr. April in her tracks: "Am I in my own way?" If you've ever struggled to say no, felt responsible for everyone else's needs, or found yourself overwhelmed despite your success, this conversation offers practical tools and fresh perspective for creating healthier boundaries, preventing burnout, and building greater financial confidence.

Key Takeaways:

• How boundaries protect your time, energy, finances, and mental well-being

• Why high-achieving women often struggle with people-pleasing and burnout

• The powerful question, "Am I in my own way?", and how it can change the way you approach money, relationships, and success

Dr. Lauren Chase, Climbing Hills Counseling, Licensed Mental Health Therapist for High Achieving Women: https://www.climbinghillscounseling.com/therapist-north-carolina-south-carolina-florida

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Financial Confidence and Mental Health 04:02 Defining Boundaries: Protecting Your Energy 08:38 Setting Limits: A Framework for Communication 10:00 Navigating Financial Boundaries in Relationships 11:59 The Control Circle: What You Can and Can't Control 13:16 Boundaries in Family Dynamics and Aging Parents 14:36 Taking Action: Moving Beyond Talk to Action 16:43 Modeling Financial Behavior for Children 19:12 Empowerment Through Boundaries: Success Stories 20:02 The Domino Effect of Empowerment in Relationships 22:26 Asking for What You Deserve: Financial Conversations 24:30 Understanding Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) 26:12 The Distinction Between Coaching and Therapy 28:49 Exploring Money Beliefs and Behaviors 31:52 Common Misconceptions Among High Achieving Women 33:39 Financial Self-Care as a Form of Empowerment 36:50 Navigating Guilt and Self-Worth in Financial Decisions 41:41 Preventing Burnout Through Boundaries and Self-Care 44:32 The Importance of Understanding Finances to Avoid Burnout 47:20 Conclusion and Future Collaborations

Tithing is one of the most personal and sometimes controversial topics in both faith and finances. In this honest conversation, Dr. April Murdaugh shares her personal journey with tithing, the fear and guilt she carried for years, and how her perspective evolved through life experiences, financial struggles, business ownership, and a deeper understanding of her relationship with God. This isn't a theological debate or financial advice—it's a personal story about generosity, stewardship, faith, and finding peace when money and spirituality intersect. Because of her own journey, Dr. Murdaugh also explains why she would never judge a client for how they choose to approach tithing, giving, or faith-based financial decisions. Instead, she encourages listeners to reflect on the difference between giving out of fear and giving out of gratitude, while exploring what stewardship, generosity, and a relationship with God truly mean to them.

Key Takeaways:

• The difference between giving from fear and giving from gratitude

• Why Dr. Murdaugh believes financial decisions rooted in faith should never be met with judgment

• How stewardship, generosity, and relationship can coexist with financial wisdom

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Show Notes:

Divorce is one of the most emotionally exhausting experiences a woman can face, and Dr. April Murdaugh knows that firsthand. Having walked through divorce herself, she understands the temptation to settle, give things up, and just make the pain stop. The challenge is that she continues to see women from every financial background—from stay-at-home moms to high-earning professionals—make the same costly mistakes because they're overwhelmed, exhausted, and ready for relief. In this conversation, Dr. Murdaugh shares the five most common mistakes she sees women make when navigating divorce with minor children, from rushing settlements and overlooking important financial details to putting children in the middle of adult conflict and failing to plan for life after divorce. Her message is simple but powerful: the comfort of ending the conflict today can create financial struggle tomorrow. By slowing down, understanding the numbers, and protecting both your future and your children's stability, you can move through this season with greater confidence, clarity, and peace.

Key Takeaways:

• The 5 most common mistakes women make during divorce with minor children

• Why rushing to end the pain can lead to costly long-term financial consequences

• How to protect your future while creating stability for your children

Call to Schedule your consultation: 904-753-5250

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