The system was designed to create destruction, and she was part of it.

For nine years, Jen Mitchell Love worked as a litigation attorney. She watched families get torn apart in courtrooms. She saw kids become collateral damage. She felt the heaviness of a broken system that treated people's real lives like billable hours. And she knew something had to change.

This conversation captures Jen in the middle of her most honest evolution yet. She's merging the spiritual practice she kept private for years with her legal work. She's speaking the truth about what divorce actually is: a sacred transition that can heal generational patterns instead of destroying families.

Jen gets raw about:

🔹 Why she became a lawyer to get around the rules (and ended up trapped by them) 🔹 The moment she gave a client lavender essential oil and thought, "What am I doing?" 🔹 Why she attracted a narcissistic relationship right after her divorce (and what it taught her) 🔹 The divine message she received on October 12th that changed everything about her work

This is for anyone who's built something impressive but hollow and stressful. Anyone who knows they're meant for something different but hasn't fully claimed it yet.

Watch to see what real evolution looks like when you're still in it.

Connect with Genea:

Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/

Connect with Jen:

Website https://solacedivorce.com

Appointment Link: https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=20935226

Instagram handle: https://www.instagram.com/solacejenmitchell/

Jen’s Bio:

Jen Mitchell Love is a family law attorney, mediator, and holistic coach who founded Solace Divorce Mediation to change the way people experience divorce. After years in the courtroom, she created a heart-centered, spiritually grounded approach that honors the soul contract of marriage while guiding couples through the legal process with mindfulness, intention, and love.

Through Solace, her “Divorce with Love” Master Class, Solace University, and her book “Shine, Soul, SHINE!” Jen helps people release what no longer serves them, protect their children, and step into a new chapter as empowered co-creators of their Dream Life.

Your no doesn't land because there’s something deeper at play.

Genea spent years behind a bar, unable to say no to doing shots with customers. Come on, just one drink. Just one more. She'd start every shift saying she wasn't drinking, and end it five shots deep. Not because she wanted to drink. Because her no was laced with guilt, fear, uncertainty.

Fear that they'd be upset. Guilt that their experience wouldn't be good. All stemming from being a child who made her mom's (and everyone else’s) feelings her responsibility.

This episode breaks down why saying no feels impossible and what's actually happening underneath. Genea shares stories that cracked the pattern open. The structures she built just to protect herself from having to choose. The anxiety that came up when she finally started putting her experience first.

She reveals:

🔹 Why taking a month off drinking was the only time people respected her no (and what that taught her about clean boundaries)

🔹 The workaholic structure that let her say no, but also kept her from saying yes to things she actually wanted

🔹 How putting other people's experience first since age two created nos that never stuck

🔹 The joy practice that trains you to choose yourself even when you're running late If you struggle to say no without an excuse, this episode will show you what's actually in the way. Listen to learn how to say no cleanly, without fear, and have it actually stick.

Connect with Genea:

Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/

About Genea Genea Barnes is a mentor, coach, and speaker whose early life was rooted in deep trauma, abuse, and neglect. To stay safe, she learned to ‘prove’ her worth and take responsibility for others’ needs and feelings.

It worked to survive, but it came with a cost. She lost her ability to discern what was truly right for her. And getting what she wanted came with anxiety that punishment would follow, or be taken away. This led to self-sabotage and limits on how much peace, love, joy, and freedom she was able to feel and maintain in her life.

She spent decades exploring every modality under the sun to create a life that felt like ease and freedom, and finally achieved it.

Today, she empowers people to move away from and resolve conflict rooted in trauma, generational trauma, and loss of self … so they can access greater peace and freedom in all areas of their life (in way less time than it took her).

This gives them access to success that feels like fulfillment and freedom in business, finance, and career, loving, authentic relationships, and healthy habits that feel like a ‘want to’.

She believes that when you operate from the TRUTH of who you are, humanity evolves.

She had everything she was told would make her happy. So why did it feel like a cage?

Ashley Jordan built a life that looked perfect on paper. The dream house. The marriage. The career as an activist. A life that looked enviable from the outside. The result … feeling absolutely caged on the inside.

She walked away from it all. The marriage to a good man. The activist career. The friendships that couldn't handle her evolution. And she rebuilt everything from the inside out based on who she actually is, not who she was told to be.

This isn't a story about dramatic betrayal or abuse. It's about the quiet

suffocation of living a life that isn't yours. The terror of leaving safety for the unknown. The death of your ego when you stop performing goodness and start embodying truth.

This conversation captures the messy, beautiful journey of unbecoming. Of stripping away every mask to find the truest self underneath. Of walking away from a good man and a good career because good wasn't enough. Of losing friendships that couldn't survive her transformation. Of discovering that grief is actually love calling you home.

Ashley shares the raw truth about:

🔹 The moment she had to leave the activist group she founded because she no longer fit her own mission

🔹 Why 24 years of repressed grief cracked her open when her childhood sweetheart died

🔹 How closing her heart at 13 to avoid pain kept her caged for decades

🔹 The loneliness of not fitting anywhere while you're becoming who you really are

If you've ever felt like your life looks good on paper but still doesn’t “feel right,” this episode will shake something loose.

Listen to understand what’s possible when you choose yourself.

Connect with Genea:

Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/

Connect with Ashley:

Website: ashjordan.com

Instagram: @msashjordan

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Ashley's Bio:

Ashley Jordan is the author of Unhappy Achiever: Rejecting the Good Girl Image and Reclaiming the Joy of

Inner Fulfillment. She writes and speaks for women who are done with the masks, the striving, and the

silence—and who are ready to reclaim their voices and rebuild their lives with truth, freedom, and love.

You might not like this one.

If you're someone who does a lot for other people, buckle in. Because Genea is about to challenge the story you've been telling yourself about why you give so much.

You think it's because you care. And yes, you do care. But the capital T truth? There's something deeper. Something you're avoiding by making everyone else feel better.

Genea shares her own pattern of over-giving.

Hours researching to help an ex-boyfriend’s health issues. Lying awake trying to solve clients' problems. Never taking time off because she "cared" so much about the company.

But all of it (yes all of it) was running from unresolved pain inside herself.

Here's what this episode reveals:

🔹 The invisible conflict that drives people-pleasing and over-giving 🔹 Why you can stand up for others but not yourself 🔹 How childhood wounds show up as adult caretaking patterns 🔹 The freedom that comes from resolving what you're really running from

Warning: This episode asks you to look at uncomfortable truths. But on the other side is peace.

Connect with Genea:

Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/

What if the image you're projecting is “perfect,” but the identity underneath is even better?

Celeste Moore teaches people how to align their external presentation with their authentic self.

But she only learned how to do this after decades of performing identities that weren't hers.

From childhood trauma to toxic relationships to living a double life, Celeste survived by becoming whoever she thought she needed to be.

This episode is about the journey from performance to presence:

🔹 How sexual trauma at four years old created a lifelong pattern of pleasing and performing 🔹 The breaking point that forced her to choose between survival mode and self-love 🔹 Why softening into the feminine felt like weakness until she understood its strength 🔹 The difference between projecting an image and embodying your truth

Listen if you're ready to stop hiding behind the version of you that you created to stay safe and be accepted.

Connect with Genea:

Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/

Connect with Celeste:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CelesteMooreImage

Appointment Link: https://celestemooreimage.hbportal.co/public/67d0b12f7010

Instagram handle: https://www.instagram.com/celestemooreimage/

Celeste’s Bio

For a long time, I thought power came from looking the part.

So I styled myself to be accepted to earn money, to gain respect, to get a seat at tables where I was often

the only woman.

It worked... until it didn’t.

Because dressing for validation is still just survival.

It’s image without embodiment. And it leaves even the most accomplished women wondering why they

still feel invisible.

That was me until I stopped performing and started claiming.

I got radically honest about who I was becoming and built a presence that matched her.

Not who the world said I should be but the woman I actually am.

That transformation changed my life. And now it changes my clients’.

Today, I work with high-achieving entrepreneurs, public figures, and industry leaders ready to command

presence at their next level.

They’re not just after polish, they want precision. Alignment. Influence.

And that’s what I deliver.

I've styled TEDx speakers, luxury founders, celebrities and award-winning CEOs.

My work has been featured in Forbes, Fox News, The Wall Street Times, and on red carpets and stages

where every detail matters.

When New York Fashion Week calls, I’m there not to watch, but to lead.

And when clients are preparing for national press, high-stakes keynotes, or brand reinventions, I’m the one

they trust to make sure they’re seen for who they truly are.

Because when your image is in full alignment with your identity, you don’t just look the part.

You become undeniable.

The to-do list isn't the enemy. Your relationship with it is.

You know the pattern. Spin it in your brain. It feels like 500 things. But when you write it down. It’s only five things. And even when you finish, there's no relief. Just more tasks. More pressure. More proof that you'll never catch up.

Genea shares a story about being trapped in a closet as a child at night. Literally tied up. Waiting for light under the door. And what she discovered about freedom in that moment changes everything about how you approach your overwhelm today.

Here's what opens up in this episode:

🔹 The invisible conflict that makes your to-do list feel endless

🔹 What actually happens when you access freedom first, then work

🔹 Why your nervous system keeps you in perpetual doing mode

🔹 The practice that breaks the overwhelm cycle for good

Doing more will never set you free. But this episode will show you what actually does. Listen or watch now.

Connect with Genea: Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/

What happens when you get the life everyone else wants and still feel empty?

Ed Reay moved to London to live with his girlfriend. He made more money than he ever had by multiples. Business class flights to Dubai. Five star hotels for weeks. Booking spontaneous trips to Amsterdam on New Year's Day just because he could. Industry leaders asking him to speak on their stages. Clients paying premium rates for his copywriting.

On paper, it was his best year ever. Internally, it was one of his worst. He kept chasing the next milestone, thinking that would finally make him feel successful. He joined masterminds to see what everyone else was doing so he could copy them. He was living outside of himself, trying to puppeteer his way through a life that looked perfect but felt hollow.

Genea and Ed go deep on:

🔹 The concept of "cliff top" and why achieving everything can feel worse than having nothing

🔹 How people pleasing and external validation became his identity

🔹 Why he couldn't access flow state no matter how much success he created

🔹 The moment he chose to lose and how that led to actually finding himself

Watch or listen now. This one will stay with you.

Connect with Genea: Website: http://bethewolfnow.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/geneabarnes/

Connect with Ed Reay Instagram: @ed.reay Twitter: @reayed6 Free Gift Link : https://u6jw3fbc84r.typeform.com/to/MpZcXHkS

About Ed Reay

Ed Reay is a copywriter, business consultant, software founder, and coach who helps people identify where they’re stuck in business—and guide them through it.

He’s the founder of RuleBender.ai, an experimental AI-assisted ad technology to stop Facebook ad rejections in their tracks so advertisers can scale without interruption. He is the first person to solve the “Facebook ad ban black box.”

When he’s not optimizing his software, consulting with clients, or making Instagram videos, he’s breakdancing, practicing Japanese, and hosting events for his local community and inner circle of friends. His most notable event was hosting a 2000s Pop Music party.

Constantly evolving, Ed dives deep into esoteric knowledge and wisdom. Running through ancient tomes on spirituality, astrology, theology, and many ancient systems of thinking long forgotten today. He applies these learnings to his work with his clients, which is why he’s able to identify patterns and get businesses unstuck even after multiple failed attempts with other consultants.

What if joy could last … without worrying that it’ll end?

You've done the work. You've built the business, shown up for the relationships, pushed yourself to grow.

But there's this feeling you can't shake.

Like something bad is waiting on the other side of success.

Like the moment you finally relax, it's all going to fall apart.

Genea calls this the upside-down pattern.

It's when your nervous system learned early on that stepping into what you want comes with consequences (and not the good kind).

So now, even though you're working toward your goals, your subconscious is working just as hard to make sure you never actually get there. Or if you do, you lose it.

This episode unpacks:

🔹 The two-year-old moment that wired Genea's brain to expect punishment after joy

🔹 Why you might be using shame to complete the loop your body expects

🔹 The leadership training that forced her to choose her real desires over safety

🔹 What it actually takes to stop fearing the things that light you up

This isn't about working harder or wanting it more.

It's about unwinding the hidden fear that's been running the show since you were too young to understand what was happening.