Starting over in life is inevitable. Something that mot of us fear, but also that most of us will endure more than just a time or two in our lives. In this episode, I talk about all the events throughout the past few months that have me completely starting over at 29. A position that I wasn't expecting to find myself in, but that's just how life works. I hope you can find something that relates back to you.

When life starts to feel too familiar, too uncomfortable, or like it's no longer matching the picture we had in our heads, our first instinct is to change it. We start over.

And it's nice in theory.

Until you realize you've never actually let yourself sit in anything long enough to know if it could become something permanent.

Instead, you're always thinking about the next best thing. The next best place. The next version of yourself.

But what about the present?

What happens when you're so focused on the next part of your life that you forget to actually live the one you're already in?

In this episode we talk about daydreaming, overthinking, avoidance, and learning that my thoughts can exist without taking me away from my life.

Are you a chronic control freak? Let's talk about it.

What if nothing about your life has changed... except the story you've been telling yourself about it?

This week, I share a conversation with someone who saw hope in the exact places I only saw failure. We talk about heartbreak, career changes, uncertainty, and why the lens you choose can completely change the life you think you're living.

Make life happen FOR you, don't let life happen TO you.

This one wasn’t supposed to be a lesson. It was just something I needed to say out loud. A page from my diary—about love, fear, and the quiet devastation of never being chosen.

The end of a decade deserves a proper eulogy. Here’s what 20–24 taught me. 🥂