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Emotional maturity is not about being calm, evolved, or getting it right all the time. It is about what happens in the moments when you are triggered, defensive, or uncomfortable, and what you choose to do next. In this episode, Anna and Tim break down what emotional maturity actually looks like in real life, including the ways people react, avoid, overexplain, or shut down when things get hard.

The conversation covers pausing before reacting, owning your part without tearing yourself apart, sitting with uncomfortable emotions, and telling the truth before resentment takes over. They explore boundaries without drama, listening without trying to win, and repairing quickly after conflict. This episode is grounded, personal, and clear about one thing: emotional maturity is not perfection. It is practice, awareness, and a willingness to do your part.

This Episode Covers

• Pausing before reacting instead of handing control to a trigger.
• Owning your part without collapsing into shame or self-attack.
• Sitting with discomfort rather than outsourcing emotions.
• Telling the truth early before resentment builds.
• Adding nuance and moving away from black and white thinking.
• Holding boundaries calmly without overexplaining or threatening.
• Listening to understand rather than trying to win.
• Repairing quickly after rupture and cleaning up your side of the street.

Ready to get out of your own way and finally feel grounded in who you are?

Join the Emotional Mastery Group Coaching Cohort this January and learn how to regulate your nervous system, stop second-guessing yourself, and move through life with more clarity and power.

www.annamarcolin.com/coaching-packages/p/emotional-mastery-group-coaching-january-2026-cohort

Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth.
Mad love!

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Confidence gets misunderstood all the time. People assume it’s something you’re born with, something loud, something fearless. But that version of confidence usually falls apart under pressure. What actually lasts is built quietly, through repetition, discomfort, and follow-through.

In this episode, Anna breaks down what confident people are really doing differently, how they think, how they behave, and how they recover when things go sideways. From keeping promises to themselves, to taking action before they feel ready, to learning how to carry anxiety instead of letting it run the show, this conversation cuts through the myths and gets honest about what confidence actually requires. Join Anna and Tim as they explore the difference between cocky and grounded, why humility matters, and how earned confidence grows from emotion regulation, structure, and practice.

This Episode Covers:

• Why confidence is built through reps, not motivation.
• The difference between confidence and cockiness, and how humility fits in.
• How confident people think when they don’t know the answer yet.
• Why taking action before feeling ready is non-negotiable.
• How keeping small promises to yourself becomes the hidden engine of confidence.
• What it really means to recover after failure instead of spiraling or quitting.
• Why confidence is rooted in self-trust, not self-love.
• How learning to regulate emotions changes everything about confidence.

Ready to get out of your own way and finally feel grounded in who you are?

Join the Emotional Mastery Group Coaching Cohort this January and learn how to regulate your nervous system, stop second-guessing yourself, and move through life with more clarity and power.

www.annamarcolin.com/coaching-packages/p/emotional-mastery-group-coaching-january-2026-cohort

Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth.
Mad love!

The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu

Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform!

CONNECT WITH ANNA:
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Anger is loud. It fuels action, creates clarity, and gives a sense of control. But what happens when the anger fades, and the crisis is over, yet something inside still feels heavy?

In this episode, the conversation moves beyond rage and into the quiet aftermath that nobody prepares you for. The sadness, the grief, the identity shift that comes when family members disappoint you in moments that mattered most. Join Anna and Tim as they unpack what it really feels like when the people you counted on did not show up, and why that realization can change how you see your family forever. They explore ambiguous loss, the emotional hangover after conflict, and the painful acceptance that some relationships will never be what you hoped they would be.

This Episode Covers:

• What happens emotionally after intense anger subsides.
• Why family disappointment often turns into grief.
• Ambiguous loss and grieving people who are still alive.
• The emotional hangover after conflict and confrontation.
• Accepting people’s limitations without emotional amnesia.
• The difference between boundaries and cutoffs.
• Letting relationships evolve without creating villains.
• Finding self-trust and authority after family pain.

Ready to get out of your own way and finally feel grounded in who you are?

Join the Emotional Mastery Group Coaching Cohort this January and learn how to regulate your nervous system, stop second-guessing yourself, and move through life with more clarity and power.

www.annamarcolin.com/coaching-packages/p/emotional-mastery-group-coaching-january-2026-cohort

Until next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth.
Mad love!

The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYqu

Don’t forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform!

CONNECT WITH ANNA:
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/
TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolin
Email hello@annamarcolin.com
Website https://www.annamarcolin.com