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  • Episode 7: The good girl effect, meeting Sara Cate IRL, grief and found family
    2025/10/15

    In this episode Rachel and Jess passionately review Sarah Kate's latest book, 'The Good Girl Effect,' sharing their love for the author's writing style and the deep connection they feel with her characters. The hosts recount their serendipitous encounter with Sarah Kate during a fun-filled day in Sacramento, discussing their experience of meeting her and the humorous, awkward moments that ensued. They explore the themes of grief, love, and healing in 'The Good Girl Effect,' highlighting the emotional depth and spicy elements of the book, particularly focusing on the practice of Shibari and the significance of aftercare in BDSM. The hosts express excitement for upcoming book releases and hint at future discussions on dating and more book reviews.

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    46 分
  • Episode 6: Am I the asshole? Story time with Rachel and Jess
    2025/10/08

    Books, Dating and Everything: Am I the asshole? Story time with Rachel and Jess


    Rachel and Jessica kick off their podcast 'BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything' with humorous introductions and a lively discussion about an unexpected beach conflict during a family outing. This episode also explores the toil women endure to prepare for dates and a hilariously painful first sugaring experience. The hosts delve into the ethics and personal comfort of audiobooks with personalized romantic narrations, and review spicy reads like Sierra Simone's 'Salt Kiss' and 'Honeycutt.' They tease a future episode dedicated to Sarah Kate’s latest book and reflect on their experience meeting the author.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:48 Toe Sponges and Free Toes: A Hilarious Start

    01:47 Am I the Asshole? River Storytime

    09:04 The Waxing Chronicles: A Painful Truth

    14:17 The Painful Beauty Ritual

    15:58 The Struggles of Dating Preparation

    17:16 The Cost of Dating

    18:16 Exploring Quinn: Personalized Audiobooks

    19:01 Debating the Appropriateness of Quinn

    23:34 Book Recommendations and Reviews

    27:58 Wrapping Up and Farewell


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    28 分
  • Episode 5: We are talking all things audiobooks
    2025/10/01

    In this episode Rachel and Jessica are talking all things audiobooks! They explore whether listening to audiobooks is the same as reading. They share personal anecdotes, their favorite narrators like Jacob Morgan and Teddy Hamilton, and opinions on various audiobook formats, including duet styles and dramatized versions. The discussion also touches on the practicality and enjoyment of audiobooks in busy lives. Additionally, Jessica shares a recent dating experience, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and mutual interest. The hosts encourage listeners to try audiobooks and engage with their community on social media.

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    31 分
  • Episode 4: A journey through the kinks
    2025/09/24

    In this episode Hosts Rachel and Jessica discuss They talk about their journey through Sara Cate 'The Salacious Players Club' series, which explores various kinks and relationship dynamics. Each book in the series introduces a different kink: age gaps, dom-sub relationships, voyeurism, throuples, and more. They share personal anecdotes and insights into how these themes opened their minds to new aspects of sexuality and communication within relationships. They emphasize the importance of safety, mutual respect, and enthusiastic consent in exploring sexual desires.

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    34 分
  • Episode 3: Why spicy books have changed our lives
    2025/09/17

    In this episode of 'BDE - Books, Dating, and Everything,' hosts Rachel and Jessica delve into their love for books, particularly those with spicy and romantic themes, and discuss how these reads have shaped their perspectives on relationships and empowerment. They emphasize the importance of curiosity, non-judgment, and open communication in partnerships. The hosts share their disdain for criticism aimed at romantic literature and rebut claims that these books set unrealistic expectations. They draw parallels between fictional relationships and real-life dynamics, advocating for men to be more engaged and supportive. The episode concludes with a preview of the next episode, which promises to explore more in-depth book recommendations and personal empowerment through intimate relationships.

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    30 分
  • Episode 2: Jess’s Dating life and Why men should let us create their hinge profiles
    2025/09/10

    In this episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything), hosts Rachel and Jessica delve into their personal experiences and insights on modern dating. They discuss the overwhelming nature of dating apps, the importance of understanding attachment styles, and the significance of clear communication in relationships. The conversation veers into humorous yet insightful discussions about typical dating app profiles, red flags, and the 'Are We Dating the Same Guy?' Facebook group, which serves as a tool for women to share experiences and warnings about potential dates. The episode culminates with advice on embracing the dating process, keeping multiple options, and recognizing when to move on from unhealthy relationships.

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    47 分