Attachment Expert, Chris Davids on Why You Want Love but Can't Trust it

Kenny Santucci sits down with Chris Davids (@EvolvedByChris) — a former physician turned attachment coach who dated 300+ women after his divorce and grew his following from 0 to 300K in six months by telling the truth about relationships.

They break down the anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment styles running most people's dating lives, why men and women process stress and "peace" completely differently, why chasing dopamine early kills relationships, and what women actually want from a man (hint: it's not his bank account).

In this episode:

• The 3 attachment styles that predict how someone dates
• Why "honesty" in dating isn't about looks or money
• Dopamine vs. oxytocin — why the honeymoon phase always ends
• Why smart people still make terrible relationship decisions
• What women actually want from a man

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0:00 Intro
0:58 Why Dating Is Harder Than Ever
8:25 Chris’s Journey Into Relationship Coaching
11:50 Attachment Styles Explained: Anxious, Avoidant and Disorganized
18:58 Does Childhood Cause Avoidant Attachment?
24:41 Why You Cannot Love Someone Out of Avoidance
27:36 Avoidant Attachment vs. Narcissism
32:59 The Best First-Date Advice
37:19 How to Choose the Right Partner
41:21 Dopamine, the Honeymoon Phase and Why Feelings Fade
43:16 Friendship, Sacrifice and Compromise in Relationships
50:00 Why Smart People Make Bad Relationship Decisions
56:32 Why Relationships Should Be Run Like a Business
57:59 What Women Actually Want From Men
62:16 These are the Only Qualities Women Look for

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